I’ll try not to go into graphic details but 8 months ago my husband fell asleep with his phone open in his hand. When I came to bed and looked down and saw a text to a naked woman my world as I knew it ended. After almost 47 years of marriage I discovered I didn’t know this person at all. His phone was filled with the vilest worst pornography you can think of and he’d been sharing hundreds of them all the while texting a female who had visited the fancy hotel where he worked as the night front desk clerk and who has videotaped herself right there in the lobby exposing her entire body with her husband upstairs in their room asleep!! She sent that video to my husband and that began a 2 year online sexual relationship where they exchanged pictures and texts and videos. There’s soooo much more that I can’t even write about. I was beyond crushed. I’ve lost 75 pounds since that night and I haven’t stopped crying. I’ve been with him since I was 15 years old and he’s cheated before but I don’t have family and had no money and nowhere to go so I stayed. He promised each time of course to never ever do it again. This has been the absolute worst though and who knows what else there’s been that I don’t know about. He had the run of that hotel and keys to every room for straight nights for 11 years. Some days I can’t even get out of bed. He stole my life and he’s made me feel so dirty and ashamed to be a woman. A few of you here know what I’ve been going through and If it weren’t for the love & support of friends I don’t know what shape I’d be in right now. Thank you for reading and for any good thoughts/prayers you can spare.
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1|1|Wow, what a horrible thing to go thru, i'm sorry & my heart & prayers go out to u. |baileysnickers2|baileysnickers2@gmail.com|08:54:48|10/27/2020|
The nicest place to be is in someone's
thoughts, the safest place to be is in
someone's prayers, but the very best
place to be is in the hands of GOD.
2|1|Just get your butt out of there and move on............|Joaniebott|joaniebott@AOL.com|09:00:41|10/27/2020|
Weak women get nowhere in this world
you have no kids or friends to go to?
Joanie 3|1|its hard to move on, its hard to heal, you already started the healing|ladywcats|gloria.neal2@aol.com|09:20:08|10/27/2020|
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You start healing by talking about it, take 1 day at a time and each day will get a little easier. Its hard but you already proved to your self that you are a strong woman. He is a man that has a sickness and is weak. It hurts but its better you found out now then later. There is no reason for you feel dirty and ashamed to be a woman, You have done nothing wrong. When a man cheats he will keep doing it. He always thinks that noone will fine out. You did find out and now you can let the past go and move on with your life.
Put in the past behind you and change things. If you are living in the same place as you have been. Do some painting or new curtains sometimes getting rid of the old and get some new items helps us heal.
When ever you need to talk we are here to listen.
our prayers are with you
Bless you Gloria
4|2|Get yourself tested for STDs|forkliftr|forkliftr@aol.com|20:57:13|11/04/2020|
My husband was a terrible cheat. Story as awful as yours. Brought me an STD called trichonomyasis. Called trick on the street. Get tested. Start a new life. Its hard but you can do it. Im here if you need me. Talking helps.. 5|3|If you have free Legal aid make an appt|lucy1|mail_man73@comcast.net|18:47:38|11/07/2020|
>Posted on Nov-04-20 at 08:57 PM (Eastern)
>by 151.201.147.254My husband was a terrible
>cheat. Story as awful as yours.
>Brought me an STD called trichonomyasis.
>Called trick on the street. Get
>tested. Start a new life. Its
>hard but you can do it.
>Im here if you need me.
>Talking helps..
I would call the police and have him removed and see where you can get help
6|1|Hugs and prayers ...|Jorainna|jorainna@aol.com|00:20:20|11/08/2020|
I am so sorry that you are going through this ... just awful. 7|1|Hugs my friend|mepeaches3|rgh1967@sbcglobal.net|21:20:15|11/09/2020|
You take care of you.You did nothing wrong.You are loved. 8|2|christmas time there are many places hiring|patsyann|candy5218@aol.com|10:37:28|11/10/2020|
try to get a little job and keep busy till you are ready
to tackle something bigger. you can do it just ask
Jesus for help.
Target is looking if there is one near you. good luck!!!
9|3|also if you can do it join the Christmas|patsyann|candy5218@aol.com|10:38:31|11/10/2020|
card exchange below. just a thought 10|4|so sorry Sue|angNC|memawang@nc.rr.com|14:58:04|11/12/2020|
I feel for you praying God gives you peace. Look after yourself. 11|1|Hugs to you. |Ranalt|ainebailey@gmail.com|17:56:05|11/13/2020|
Life is like a cup of tea,
It's all in how you make it.
Lisa
12|2|I'm sorry Sue...It's just a shame.|JOYHAPPYONE|DAIDOLA5@AOL.COM|18:49:53|11/13/2020|
PILATES ?
HELL NO, I thought you said
PIE and LATTES !!!!
13|1|I know how you feel(M)|gwens29|gwen41539@bellsouth.net|22:18:26|11/14/2020|
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17|2|Gwen thank you so much for writing to me. I’ll write back soon I promise.|suzhappy|slz397@outlook.com|13:18:13|11/18/2020|
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14|1|I am so sorry Sue many prayers sent your way|grumpy57|grumpus26201@gmail.com|19:43:09|11/16/2020|
): I’d divorce him in a minute 15|1|I want to thank each one of you for all the support and love and prayers....|suzhappy|slz397@outlook.com|09:35:32|11/18/2020|
I can’t begin to tell you how much they meant to me and how much they helped. Just knowing that I’m not alone in this nightmare has gotten me through so far.
So THANK YOU for being kind, caring, strong women. Thank you for taking the time out of your busy day to send me words of encouragement. I love you all!
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16|2|Did you leave?|Joaniebott|joaniebott@AOL.com|10:58:06|11/18/2020|
I hope one of your friends came to help you
Joanie 18|2|hi|mcox|melody.cox1@hotmail.com|17:43:20|11/18/2020|
i hope you didn't leave and that you put his butt out. take someone in to help with the bills and move ahead i know hard to do but can be done much love and a hug to you
19|1|I didn’t leave.... he did!!!!! And the day he left he suddenly collapsed on the floor and couldn’t get up, couldn’t walk. Turns out he has a pinched nerve in his neck and he needs surgery. Dare I say the word KARMA???????|suzhappy|slz397@outlook.com|09:12:29|11/19/2020|
I don’t mean to wish bad things on anybody but it sure is strange that this happened to him at this moment in time! Thank you all again for the support and prayers. Please keep them coming because I need them to stay strong. This is the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life.
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20|2|Good for you!!|Joaniebott|joaniebott@AOL.com|10:05:15|11/19/2020|
He's gone!! Now learn how to stand up for yourself - use your friends and family for support - get a therapist or group if you need help - get a job or a skill!! Do whatever you want that you have never been able to do all these years!!
Abusers should never be tolerated and it would stop if the person being bullied learned to stand up for themselves!! Don't make excuses and don't let anybody make excuses for you! And make sure you raise your kids to be strong
Joanie 21|2|Karma does happen |kawanti|coupgranny956@gmail.com|12:01:54|11/19/2020|
:) GOD bless you and yours