I am supposed to be the residential parent of my 4 kids...well 1 just turned 18 with autism...3 are being held by dad. My 16 year old that is with me tells me it is my fault I left bc my ex was expecting me to support him...he had no income at all...and he smoked...my 16 yr old daughter was yelling at me for hours on end for nothing...I was being used and mentally abused...left 6/27 went to go get 9 yr old 7/10 after I got a place and brought the cops showed Parenting Plan that I had residential parenting they said it was civil matter...I filed on my own to get things started to get at least her back...then hired attorney for $1K if I wouldn't have filed anything it would have been $1.5K...my 16 yr old is back living w/ me I thought she had changed but now she is starting to be mean again...I cry frequently...I haven't talked to any of my other kids since end of June due to ex...finally got court date 9/14...my ex has done nothing but fed them hate towards me and my fiance...all of my kids. My daughter just came in the room and said my 14 don't want to visit, my 18 year will visit if my fiance isn't here...my 9 year old is mentally handicapped so by time I finally see her she will have nothing but hate for us. I also have severe chronic back and moderate neck and knee issues and mental health problems on top of everything else.
Thanks,
Heather
email/paypal hjagusch@outlook.com
1|1|Wow - your burden is heavy - sending prayers ...|Jorainna|jorainna@aol.com|09:53:25|08/18/2016|
:( 2|2|I am sorry for your pain|angNC|memawang@nc.rr.com|13:09:11|08/19/2016|
After I was 50 I finally realize I should of done more for myself.
I pray you have all that you need
3|1|Teenagers are mean. It is par for the course...and quite normal. We just have to be stronger than them. Not let them know it upsets us and let it wash off your back.|Chicagoclipper|Barb.erradi@aol.com|14:22:51|08/19/2016|
Sorry for the legal issues etc.... 4|1|So very sorry you are going thru this. I agree with...|Skaytes|skaytez@gmail.com|07:27:58|08/20/2016|
her that teens are typical rebelious and mean. Part of them trying to find out who and what they are and those raging hormones they have to deal with. Please know no matter how much hatred your ex spews to them when they are older and away from him they will see the 'whole picture' and tables with be turned. They will see the situation he created was all due to him and they will shun him and want to be close to you again. No matter what my ex has done to me I always tell my girls they SHOULD love their dad as he is their dad and our issues are 'our' issues not theirs and they didn't cause them. I try to take the high road but it's not always easy that is for sure. I send much white light and prayers up for you and your situation. God bless..