90 0|0|So here's my issue with this trade...and now I will post the whole thing b/c I'm so annoyed. |jilda|vze4gj4m@verizon.net|13:58:48|02/13/2013|
Posted on Feb-13-13 at 01:58 PM (Eastern) by 71.125.3.220

Most of you know me and I'm pretty reasonable and fair but I just can't get my head around this ...and it's my own fault for not trusting my better judgement.

I made a trade with brighteyes for skylanders. My two boys are now very into it and she was trading hers for $5 each.
We finally agreed on three she was going to send me. I will post them b/c it's easier... prism break, spyro and stump smash.
I sent her $15 in paypal and she was going to tell me how much postage would be and then I would pay her that as well after.

But then that night my son told me we already have stump smash. So I emailed her right away and said I didn't need it but if she already sent it that's fine. She said she had it sealed but not sent and she would open it up and take that one out. This was confirmed in her email to me that I did NOT want stump.

She refunded the difference between what I sent her ($15) and what the 2 skylanders cost ($10) plus shipping ($2.24) in paypal.

I got the package yesterday. She sent me Spyro and Stump.
I emailed her today to tell her that. She got all defensive and said that's what I ordered. I sent her our email traffic saying I clearly did NOT order that and you knew it. After some back and forth I realized she might not even know what Stump looks like. So I told her. And she said her son must have made a mistake. Fine.

Originally after all this back and forth I told her to forget the whole thing that I would send back both but she has to refund the shipping (at least 1/2 for the wrong thing) but then she said I was being hurtful and why didn't I want at least Spyro. So I felt bad and said okay. I'll keep Spyro but please refund my $5 for the one you didn't send. And my $1 (1/2 the shipping I paid originally) since she sent the wrong one and now $1.xx for the shipping it's going to cost to send this one back to her.

She THEN said...she has to wait for her son to come home to confirm it's the wrong one and that she won't refund my money til she gets the other one back.

That did it. I sent her an email telling her to forget the whole thing AGAIN and that I want my $10 back for the two, and 1/2 the shipping and 1/2 the shipping for what I'm sending back. Good grief. JUST ADMIT YOU WERE WRONG! And then suck it up and pay the shipping. But how many different ways can I tell her she sent the wrong thing???

Now, I am second guessing all this b/c I have a bad feeling I will send her these two back with no money back and then she'll get them and make up some excuse and I won't get my money back at all. I'm thinking to just hold on to these..call it a day...and be out $5 for the wrong one.

I KNOW better but my son really wanted them and I bit the bullet and traded with her. My own fault. 1|1|bump|pattyo|pattyolc@aol.com|16:49:12|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 04:49 PM (Eastern) by 66.168.185.17


“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” - Nelson Mandela 2|1|Ok, here's a story- I sent Linda a gameboy with a game inside by mistake |glennie58|glenn_scott@alumni.ksg.harvard.edu|17:41:15|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 05:41 PM (Eastern) by 108.253.211.8

and 12 years later I'm still waiting for her to return my game...

I'm not posting Hanson as her last name but its something like that. 3|2|Yeah...I've decided to keep these b/c who knows if I'll get that refunded money. Better I have these in my hand|jilda|vze4gj4m@verizon.net|18:40:00|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 06:40 PM (Eastern) by 71.125.3.220

and be done with it. I already told her to never email me again and I will for sure do the same to her. 16|2|If one of them is wrong why asked for refunded on both is that fair?|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|22:29:14|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 10:29 PM (Eastern) by 66.87.104.24

>Posted on Feb-13-13 at 05:41 PM (Eastern)
>by 108.253.211.8and 12 years later I'm
>still waiting for her to return
>my game...
>I'm not posting Hanson as her last
>name but its something like that.
>


17|3|It took 10 emails to have to even acknowledge that MAYBE you sent the wrong thing. Only NOW are you admitting you sent it. And no, you didn't offer to pay for the postage at all..|jilda|vze4gj4m@verizon.net|22:39:41|02/13/2013|

Last edited on Feb-13-13 at 10:44 PM (Eastern) by 71.125.3.220


Sorry... I can't edit but ...I meant it took 10 emails for YOU to admit you MIGHT have sent the wrong thing. only now are you admitting you Actually DID send the wrong thing.
I'm really a very fair person. But when you came back at me over and over claiming I was the one who was wrong and I got what I ordered it started to anger me.

4|1|I have to reply, just because I am in one of those moods|ptmama525|ptmama525@aol.com|19:12:34|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 07:12 PM (Eastern) by 75.117.210.8

1st I am going to give my opinion of the correct way to handle this trade. Clearly the seller (brighteyes) sent the wrong item, so the buyer (Jilda) is due a refund for the incorrect item and the shipping costs to have it mailed back...also a good trader should at least offer to pay 1/2 the postage it cost to ship the package.

Now onto feedback, I rarely (if ever) check feedback before a trade, but looks like we all need to start checking and trade cautiosly when there are several negative comments.
Jilda you have been a member since 2003 with 363 perfect feedback, Brighteyes has been a member since 2004, 149 feedback with roughly 20 negative and another 20 of brighteyes defending herself and calling everyone liars. That speaks volumes!
Sad that you have to be out the cost of the wrong item, but I definately wouldn't return it until I had a refund for the item and postage costs.
And be sure to post feedback!

"Do unto others as you would have others do unto you." 5|2|Thanks Deedra. I am definitely not returning the items and I will leave feedback.|jilda|vze4gj4m@verizon.net|19:55:50|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 07:55 PM (Eastern) by 71.125.3.220

. 6|3|Jilda...you know my opinion on this one....|BusterBrown|srfreezerqueen@hotmail.com|20:31:21|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 08:31 PM (Eastern) by 174.57.66.3

Kristy probably remembers the day I was like OH Crap when i realized who i made a trade with on another board....not again... 7|4|I thought of you after ....thankfully it wasn't really a loss. It's just annoying. |jilda|vze4gj4m@verizon.net|20:37:36|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 08:37 PM (Eastern) by 71.125.3.220

. 78|5|She's on the DNT list. Sorry but dont' even read her posts. Jilda CYE|Kristy|mi3zons1@yahoo.com|15:47:44|02/15/2013|

Posted on Feb-15-13 at 03:47 PM (Eastern) by 108.34.46.40

"Women should not have children after 35. Thirty-five children are enough." - anonymous (Only 27 to GO!)

"You're so open minded that your brain leaked out." - Steve Taylor 18|3|Deedra 100% correct about the trade BUT I would just keep them and take the lost! It's not worth the time to get it right when you can see, you will have more problems with her. |cashcoll|cashcoll@yahoo.com|22:39:49|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 10:39 PM (Eastern) by 70.178.70.125

Have a Great Day!

*********************************

GO HOGS GO!!
Woooooooooo, Pig! Sooiee!
21|4|You're right.|jilda|vze4gj4m@verizon.net|22:44:29|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 10:44 PM (Eastern) by 71.125.3.220

. 14|2|Ok but its not the wrong item i am going only by my son|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|22:13:32|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 10:13 PM (Eastern) by 66.87.104.24

I said send me to and i will check its not wrong 8|1|JILDA, IM SORRY THIS HAPPENED TO YOU......|Heyushell|heyushell@aol.com|20:57:23|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 08:57 PM (Eastern) by 64.12.116.68

YOU ARE TOO GOOD OF A PERSON FOR THIS TO HAPPEN TO. JUST SO YOU KNOW (AND OTHERS ALSO)THE LATEST EPISODE I HAVE HAD WITH BRIGHTEYES IS I HAVE EMAILED HER NUMEROUS TIMES ABOUT FETZER $30.00 FORMS THAT SHE HAS POSTED. IN HER POST SHE SAYS SHE WANTS .50 CENTS EACH FOR THEM (SHE ONLY HAS 3)PLUS POSTAGE. I EMAILED HER & TOLD HER I WANTED THEM & I EVEN PUT IN THE EMAIL I DO REALIZE THE FORMS SHE HAS ARE NOT GOOD IN OHIO (STATE I LIVE IN)
AFTER ALL OF THE EMAILS I HAVE SENT TO HER, SHE JUST KEEPS MAKING NEW POST STATING THE SAME THING....SHE HAS 3 FORMS & WANTS .50 CENTS EACH FOR THEM.SHE NEVER EMAILED ME BACK.
I AM DONE!!!! I WILL NEVER TRADE WITH HER AGAIN, NEVER!!!!!
TO THE PEOPLE WHO DO TRADE WITH HER...GOOD LUCK!!!
I AM A "OLD SCHOOL" TRADER & I WILL REMAIN A "OLD SCHOOL TRADER" IT ALLOWS ME TO SLEEP AT NIGHT :O)
SHELLEY :O)

*~~Im Just A "Pantiless Hag" who Loves RS BUT Can Do Without The BS~~*

*~~If Your A "Wine Salesman" And Have Wine Tags....I Wanna Marry You~~* 9|2|Thank you Shell..you are better off that she didn't email you back|jilda|vze4gj4m@verizon.net|21:12:05|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 09:12 PM (Eastern) by 71.125.3.220

. 10|3|liar.. I have no reason to keep your.money|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|22:01:55|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 10:01 PM (Eastern) by 66.87.104.24

I send u what u ordered 11|4|Pattyo u still u are.mad about me telling to stop|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|22:03:11|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 10:03 PM (Eastern) by 66.87.104.24

Cussing 12|5|I send u back your money i dont want to keep|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|22:04:21|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 10:04 PM (Eastern) by 66.87.104.24

5.00 are u serious 13|6|i asked u to send back u refused|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|22:10:46|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 10:10 PM (Eastern) by 66.87.104.24

And u send me 15.00 & i refund your postage at myown will
15|5|Pattyo did bumb up just to make trouble :-(|smiles|mrsbettygreen@yahoo.com|22:17:31|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 10:17 PM (Eastern) by 108.202.182.78

20|6|Betty - may I ask why you are saying that????|cashcoll|cashcoll@yahoo.com|22:43:10|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 10:43 PM (Eastern) by 70.178.70.125

Have a Great Day!

*********************************

GO HOGS GO!!
Woooooooooo, Pig! Sooiee!
23|7|Well thank u its true...|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|22:49:12|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 10:49 PM (Eastern) by 66.87.104.24

... 25|6|ptmama525 is absolutely right!....|Sharon|corvettelady@lavabit.com|23:03:05|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 11:03 PM (Eastern) by 72.171.24.249

So sorry Jilda this happened to you. I just read through Lola's feedback and wow, every single trader replying negative fb is called a liar! Speaks volumes is right - I would stay clear of this trader. Lola, you should just admit your mistakes with Jilda's trade and correct it..why be defensive all the time and continue getting negative fb? You make it so difficult when it can be so easily done like most good traders on this board (including myself:) would do. We all make mistakes from time to time, so fix it, is that too hard to ask of you? Sharon:) 26|7|Sharon get the details all fact first|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|23:07:19|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 11:07 PM (Eastern) by 66.87.106.48

.. 28|8|Lola, just by your actions alone...|Sharon|corvettelady@lavabit.com|23:18:11|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 11:18 PM (Eastern) by 72.171.24.249

on how you're dealing with problem trades is all the facts I need to know, especially with 10+ negative fb. Are they all lying? Very doubtful Lola. 38|9|well you need to get the fact i don't care how many |brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|06:00:41|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 06:00 AM (Eastern) by 174.49.110.96

feeback i have i nothing wrong .. go get the fact mrs sharon 30|6|NOPE! not to cause trouble but to get people to read about the trouble you can get into when you trade with Lola|pattyo|pattyolc@aol.com|03:02:38|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 03:02 AM (Eastern) by 66.168.185.17


“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” - Nelson Mandela 35|7|that's why you bump you are drama.. |brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|05:57:47|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 05:57 AM (Eastern) by 174.49.110.96

... 19|5|Aw shucks Lola. Patty put that behind her a long time ago (m)|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|22:40:40|02/13/2013|

Last edited on Feb-13-13 at 10:48 PM (Eastern) by 98.143.230.108

She was just bumping it up so you would see it & be able to tell your side of it. :)
She's actually grown to like you & thinks you're a pretty lady when she seen you. She loves your house too! She even mentioned once that since y'all live so close by each other, she might surprise you one day & stop in to take you to lunch sometime at Chick-a-fila.
:)


Smile... it makes people wonder what you're up to!

Please identify yourself in 1st email w/name/username. Due to recent problem trades, if I haven't traded w/you before, I will probably require you send your end 1st or I'll need LEGIT trade references/feedback. I will be happy to provide the same. IF you plan to hold your end til you've received mine, I will need to know that IMMEDIATELY, BEFORE trade is finalized.


If you're happy w/our trade, please leave feedback for me at:
http://www.refundsweepers.com/dcforum/feedback/1133.html
I'll gladly do the same for you upon request.:)

22|6|Thats weird ..please dont ..|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|22:48:15|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 10:48 PM (Eastern) by 66.87.104.24

.. 24|6|When she sees me now i am concerned!|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|22:50:17|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 10:50 PM (Eastern) by 66.87.104.24

.. 27|7|Now i know why she always have the same forms i do|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|23:17:10|02/13/2013|

Posted on Feb-13-13 at 11:17 PM (Eastern) by 66.87.106.48

this is weird i am sorry 32|8|I can't find the forms you have! I'm jealous!!! darn it!|pattyo|pattyolc@aol.com|03:06:47|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 03:06 AM (Eastern) by 66.168.185.17


“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” - Nelson Mandela 31|6|ROFL..It will be my Treat LOLA!! really !!!:))) free chicken sandwich yum|pattyo|pattyolc@aol.com|03:05:37|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 03:05 AM (Eastern) by 66.168.185.17


“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” - Nelson Mandela 29|5|nah, I forgive you sweet Lola|pattyo|pattyolc@aol.com|02:59:15|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 02:59 AM (Eastern) by 66.168.185.17


“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” - Nelson Mandela 33|6|I didn't ask for your forgiven sweet PATTY>>>|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|05:56:00|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 05:56 AM (Eastern) by 174.49.110.96

;. 34|7|I am sorry but it's strange you are checking out where i live|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|05:56:50|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 05:56 AM (Eastern) by 174.49.110.96

... 36|8|PAtty i am sorry but this is crossing the line..|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|05:59:12|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 05:59 AM (Eastern) by 174.49.110.96

coming by by house... 37|9|free county-I can go anywhere my dear|pattyo|pattyolc@aol.com|06:00:16|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 06:00 AM (Eastern) by 66.168.185.17


“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” - Nelson Mandela 39|10|i think you would be consider a weirdo then|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|06:01:11|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 06:01 AM (Eastern) by 174.49.110.96

... 40|11|well i will be coming by your house soon then |brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|06:01:31|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 06:01 AM (Eastern) by 174.49.110.96

.... 42|12|want me to get us a chik filet?|pattyo|pattyolc@aol.com|06:02:31|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 06:02 AM (Eastern) by 66.168.185.17


JLMK and I will have one waiting..

“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” - Nelson Mandela 41|10|who does that except a strange person..|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|06:02:16|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 06:02 AM (Eastern) by 174.49.110.96

.,. 43|11|ahhh Lola,, don't be mad|pattyo|pattyolc@aol.com|06:03:10|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 06:03 AM (Eastern) by 66.168.185.17


“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” - Nelson Mandela 45|12|Calm down, I was on my way to Atlanta!|pattyo|pattyolc@aol.com|06:04:21|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 06:04 AM (Eastern) by 66.168.185.17

and your house is on the way!


“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” - Nelson Mandela 47|13|good when you get here i will be waiting..|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|06:04:57|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 06:04 AM (Eastern) by 174.49.110.96

... 48|14|i am on my way to your actually..|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|06:05:19|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 06:05 AM (Eastern) by 174.49.110.96

... 44|11|i am sorry how would everyone feels if people come by traders homes.. |brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|06:03:47|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 06:03 AM (Eastern) by 174.49.110.96

this is an privacy issue here 46|12|yes i am mad that you feel you can just |brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|06:04:31|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 06:04 AM (Eastern) by 174.49.110.96

come by someone house look at them and say wow she pretty ect.. thats' weird 50|13|INVASION OF PRIVACY... MOD BOARDS.. WE CAN GO BY HOMES NOW TO SEE TRADERS!!!!|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|06:06:00|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 06:06 AM (Eastern) by 174.49.110.96

.... 49|12|many do that live in GA!|pattyo|pattyolc@aol.com|06:05:49|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 06:05 AM (Eastern) by 66.168.185.17

they are welcome if I like them

“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” - Nelson Mandela 51|13|NOT IF YOU ARE NOT WELCOME!!!!!|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|06:06:27|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 06:06 AM (Eastern) by 174.49.110.96

... 53|14|when you coming? I will get our order ready and coffee?|pattyo|pattyolc@aol.com|06:08:05|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 06:08 AM (Eastern) by 66.168.185.17


“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” - Nelson Mandela 52|13|FREE COUNTY!!!! |pattyo|pattyolc@aol.com|06:06:51|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 06:06 AM (Eastern) by 66.168.185.17


“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” - Nelson Mandela 54|1|So READ the darn feedback..you learn who is a bad trader and also a nut|suezz|clearys@comcast.net|08:25:35|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 08:25 AM (Eastern) by 24.91.216.12

*******************************
Please include your RS screen name when you contact me in response to a posting. Thanks 55|2|Thanks ladies for saving me a bad trade|mammamac|3doggies@embarqmail.com|11:29:58|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 11:29 AM (Eastern) by 184.5.250.151

Here is my story:

I asked for 2 C K Mondavi forms @ $1.25. I got an email back from Li asking me my boardname. I don't know why she needed this because I am sending paypal. Well, I sent my board name back and have not heard from her. Evidently, I am not worth trading with. Now, after reading all the issues you ladies have, I guess my Guardian Angel was looking out for me.

I will not ask for another trade with this person!

Thanks for posting ~ I thought that maybe I had offended her and was really wondering why I never heard back! 56|3|I have lots of good trade for your information|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|16:13:42|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 04:13 PM (Eastern) by 66.87.106.48

so excuse u 57|4|WOW....ummm, since it is a free country....I will respond too! IF I made the error I would have corrected it and then some...because that is what GOOD HONEST traders do. I make mistakes too....did so this week!! Someone wanted coupons I thought I had many of..when I realized I only had 1/2 of what she needed, I returned her pp sent th 1/2 and an additional 10 coupons she ordered RAOK. Did I have to go over the top? Nope...but it was my error and my generous reaction has her happy with me and likely to trade again. Had you (Lola) apologized, offered the right item and the postage you would have solved the problem...done No crazy posts in GC....NO bad feedback. ETC... AND may I recommend NOT Selling items you aren't familiar with enough to know which ones to mail? They ARE labelled with their names on them....but if you are relying on someone else you need to accept if the other trader complains they got the wrong item. YOU don't know if it is right or not.....but your byer does. I can't imagine arguing about something you can't even say is the right item or not. MY point being.....errors CAN happen...fixing them well and promptly is VERY important to your reputation. This fiasco against your reputation isn't worth the few $$ you were out due to your error. OH, and I moderate a board where MANY of the members meet me in the store and have stopped by my house to pick up coupons. Driving by an address isn't illegal....ummmm, duh.|Barb09|Barb0969@AOL.com|20:11:20|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 08:11 PM (Eastern) by 108.234.42.176

Smooches to those that sold our lifestyle for 12
minutes of fame. 58|5|i think it illegal if you go to someone house with intention to find out about them|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|21:00:37|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 09:00 PM (Eastern) by 174.49.110.96

i did nothing to deserve that.. oh wow i say stop cussing and now i am being stalked i don't know what you are talking about.
how would you like it if i came and sat in front of your house in a car and watched you and then comments how pretty you were..
i am sorry it's not illegal but its weird.. you can't talk me out of this one..
i am if i met her in a store fine but maybe i am different i don't like it 59|5|as far as the skylanders.. i only asked her to send it back so i |brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|21:06:12|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 09:06 PM (Eastern) by 174.49.110.96

could see what i send and i would happy to refund once i wanted the skylander back to see if i made a mistake
i told her maybe i did and i would send her money back. i thought that was fair
she had already send me 15.00 and i paid for postage and send her back the difference because the postage was less.
i had already proved that i was a good trader from that i could have ran with the 15.0o she send me at first
my son said he send what she asked for .. she replied she was not sending me anything because she didn't trust me.. what i send you money refund on my own
and now i am a bad trader wow.. these skylander go for 15.00 each new and i gave to help my son for 5.00 for i am sorry i was given you a good deal and i got blasted for it
wow.. 60|5|so let me get this right.. if a man on her did a trade with you and you gave him your home |brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|21:07:42|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 09:07 PM (Eastern) by 174.49.110.96

address and he just came by you are okay with that... just asking.. 61|6|My house is on a street. Men drive down the street all day long. The police continue to allow men driver's licenses. Odd right? BTW, this thread got me to read your feedback (I never had before) and I am SURE now lots others are doing so. It would have been cheaper for you in the long run to fix your trades that went awry. It is CRAZY to see you attacked people after refusing to make small $$ trades right.|Barb09|Barb0969@AOL.com|21:11:02|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 09:11 PM (Eastern) by 108.234.42.176

Smooches to those that sold our lifestyle for 12
minutes of fame. 62|7|Let me guess "I am a liar" right?! ROFL....that is your comeback all over your feedback. |Barb09|Barb0969@AOL.com|21:12:36|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 09:12 PM (Eastern) by 108.234.42.176

Smooches to those that sold our lifestyle for 12
minutes of fame. 65|8|my feeback is not the issue it's my privacy.. |brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|21:20:51|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 09:20 PM (Eastern) by 174.49.110.96

.. 76|9|If someone's so worried about their privacy, they shouldn't be on the internet, period!|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|10:00:19|02/15/2013|

Last edited on Feb-15-13 at 10:16 AM (Eastern) by 98.143.230.108

Just being on the internet alone makes a person susceptible to hackers & backdoor trojan horse viruses that can get into your computer & find out ALL your info, from your NAZ & email address/Inbox to your passwords & any banking info you do online.
There are so many sites & ways to find out where just about anyone lives. Spokeo & Google Maps are just 2 of them. ANYONE can find out where someone lives just by the email address alone. And this site is a public forum where ANYONE can view the posts w/names & email addresses, profiles. If you want privacy, you're not going to get it here. Sheesh!


Smile... it makes people wonder what you're up to!

Please identify yourself in 1st email w/name/username. Due to recent problem trades, if I haven't traded w/you before, I will probably require you send your end 1st or I'll need LEGIT trade references/feedback. I will be happy to provide the same. IF you plan to hold your end til you've received mine, I will need to know that IMMEDIATELY, BEFORE trade is finalized.


If you're happy w/our trade, please leave feedback for me at:
http://www.refundsweepers.com/dcforum/feedback/1133.html
I'll gladly do the same for you upon request.:)

81|10|Hysterical? Privacy?|Joaniebott|joaniebott@AOL.com|15:47:56|02/16/2013|

Posted on Feb-16-13 at 03:47 PM (Eastern) by 205.188.116.68

Someone worried about their own privacy has a hobby where they give out their address to everyone? Other traders, clearinghouses, corporations, freebie sites............how can you think you have any privacy with this hobby? I have had refunders come to my house, drive by my house - made some really good friends that way. I guess Lola is ashamed about her house or maybe her neighborhood.

You all can come visit me anytime

Joanie 64|7|you don't live on this planet if you are okay with people coming by your |brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|21:19:51|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 09:19 PM (Eastern) by 174.49.110.96

house watching you .. that's weird .. 67|7|i am attacking someone .. wow you are okay with traders coming by homes to check out |brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|21:23:06|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 09:23 PM (Eastern) by 174.49.110.96

people what kind of person are you ? 69|6|WOW, SOMEBODY HAD A MAN ON HER.......I .WANNA KNOW WHO|JOYHAPPYONE|DAIDOLA5@AOL.COM|21:33:30|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 09:33 PM (Eastern) by 74.245.170.220

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LIFE SHOULD BE LIVED WITH A LITTLE MORE GRATITUDE AND ALOT LESS ATTITUDE 70|7|THIS WAS SUPPOSED TOO GO 5 LINES UP|JOYHAPPYONE|DAIDOLA5@AOL.COM|21:35:09|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 09:35 PM (Eastern) by 74.245.170.220

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LIFE SHOULD BE LIVED WITH A LITTLE MORE GRATITUDE AND ALOT LESS ATTITUDE 73|7|ROFL @ Mama J. LOLOLOL |maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|21:48:04|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 09:48 PM (Eastern) by 98.143.230.108

Smile... it makes people wonder what you're up to!

Please identify yourself in 1st email w/name/username. Due to recent problem trades, if I haven't traded w/you before, I will probably require you send your end 1st or I'll need LEGIT trade references/feedback. I will be happy to provide the same. IF you plan to hold your end til you've received mine, I will need to know that IMMEDIATELY, BEFORE trade is finalized.


If you're happy w/our trade, please leave feedback for me at:
http://www.refundsweepers.com/dcforum/feedback/1133.html
I'll gladly do the same for you upon request.:)

63|3|i am glad i didnt trade with you ...|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|21:17:29|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 09:17 PM (Eastern) by 174.49.110.96

this is why you are rude negative 66|4|what's your address i will come by and just watch you then|brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|21:21:58|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 09:21 PM (Eastern) by 174.49.110.96

... 68|5|ROFLMBO. IF you want to come to Illinois, let me know when. AND we have traded. So, your "glad I didn't trade with you" is...incorrect.|Barb09|Barb0969@AOL.com|21:32:12|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 09:32 PM (Eastern) by 108.234.42.176

Smooches to those that sold our lifestyle for 12
minutes of fame. 71|6|I wasn't rude. I was trying to help you to see that fixing trades is better than a bad reputation. You don't have to learn it....but I did try to teach it. Have a great night.....and I promise I won't tell you how pretty you are.....since that upets you so much.|Barb09|Barb0969@AOL.com|21:36:56|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 09:36 PM (Eastern) by 108.234.42.176

Smooches to those that sold our lifestyle for 12
minutes of fame. 72|7|no thats not what upset me.. if i just drop by your |brighteyes|lailuvstosave@msn.com|21:47:19|02/14/2013|

Posted on Feb-14-13 at 09:47 PM (Eastern) by 174.49.110.96

house and watch u i never tell u everyone seem ok with that but its weird to me 75|8|you only gave me your PO Box to send our trade - so|20yrrefunder|tradernikki@yahoo.com|09:10:36|02/15/2013|

Posted on Feb-15-13 at 09:10 AM (Eastern) by 71.1.115.49

unless you give other traders your actual address, don't think you have anything to worry about.


Nikki

http://www.refundsweepers.com/dcforum/feedback/366.html 74|1|Fact of the matter is, once you give out your address to people, you are vulnerable, to traders being able to go to your house. If you do not want it to happen, do not put your address out there anymore. OH, and by the way, if a trader drove by my house, the only think I wouldbe mad about, is that they did not stop in, and meet me. There several traders out there, I would LOVE to meet, if I got the chance. |dlpavitt|dlpavitt@att.net|04:18:58|02/15/2013|

Posted on Feb-15-13 at 04:18 AM (Eastern) by 76.250.235.202

If you are a HONEST trader, there is nothing to fear in having a feedback link. If you do not have one, please set one up, BEFORE contacting me for a trade. If you insist on not having a feedback link, please do not contact me to trade. Feedback links protect all of us, on RS. Thanks for understanding. Donna 77|2|I HAVE MET SEVERAL TRADERS, AT MY HOUSE, AND I LOVED IT, THEY ARE WONDERFUL|JOYHAPPYONE|DAIDOLA5@AOL.COM|13:38:03|02/15/2013|

Posted on Feb-15-13 at 01:38 PM (Eastern) by 74.245.170.220

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LIFE SHOULD BE LIVED WITH A LITTLE MORE GRATITUDE AND ALOT LESS ATTITUDE 79|3|You sure have!|pattyo|pattyolc@aol.com|15:49:48|02/15/2013|

Posted on Feb-15-13 at 03:49 PM (Eastern) by 66.168.185.17

and I will be the next one as soon as I get my butt to Ormond Beach! Can't wait to meet you.. you are nothing but a BLAST and like my long gone mama god bless her soul and may she RIP.. 8/11/77


“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” - Nelson Mandela 80|4|I too, have been to many traders houses|BusterBrown|srfreezerqueen@hotmail.com|17:10:27|02/15/2013|

Posted on Feb-15-13 at 05:10 PM (Eastern) by 174.57.66.3

and hope to be by many more....i like going to their houses...mine is always a mess, so it is nice going somewhere else....lol 82|5|I have to add something about what happend with brighteyes today:|babswhyit|spitinuri1@hotmail.com|11:42:39|03/29/2013|

Posted on Mar-29-13 at 11:42 AM (Eastern) by 173.20.140.32

She had 4 $5 meat forms listed to trade for a number of things on her wishlist so I sent her an email and offered her Little Debbie coupons for the forms she had. I also asked her how many coupons she wanted for the forms (so I was essentially let her sent the # of coupons I was going to send her). She emails he back and says that she now only has 2 forms. That's the only thing written in the email except that she hasn't heard from me in a while.

I got another email later that day asking what my user name is (As most of you know, I always included my user name, real name and address in my first email to traders). I email back my user name for a second time. Later that night, I got a 3rd email from her telling me she doesn't want the Little Debbie coupons but wants Paypal. I would rather not send money and postage for just 2 forms because it's not worth my time.

I told her I found the forms elsewhere and so today this is the email I got:

np they will go to next person thanks for letting me know days later


My 1st email to her was YESTERDAY AFTERNOON (not days ago like she mentioned so rudely in her email to me). She had the wrong amount of forms listed in her post, the coupons listed her NO longer wants and then tells me I had her on hold for this trade for days. I'm done with her. I always try to trade quickly and politely but she doesn't feel the same way.
83|6|Typical *the kind of stuff people need to expect if you trade with her|pattyo|pattyolc@aol.com|18:39:33|03/29/2013|

Posted on Mar-29-13 at 06:39 PM (Eastern) by 66.168.185.17


a mess...


Keep your friends close but your enemies closer.. Michael Corleone 84|7|CONFUSSION AND NEGA EMAILS TO TRY TO TRADE WITH BRIGHTEYES.......TOOOOOOOO MUCH|JOYHAPPYONE|DAIDOLA5@AOL.COM|19:31:35|03/29/2013|

Posted on Mar-29-13 at 07:31 PM (Eastern) by 74.245.170.220

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LIFE SHOULD BE LIVED WITH A LITTLE MORE GRATITUDE AND ALOT LESS ATTITUDE 85|6|She's notorious for this....but given her feedback, I don't understand why anyone would even attempt a trade with her...|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|10:48:28|03/30/2013|

Posted on Mar-30-13 at 10:48 AM (Eastern) by 98.213.152.114

" You'll get what's coming to you ... Unless it was mailed."


86|7|MY TRADE WITH HER WAS MORE THAN 5-6 YEARS AGO AND I NEVER FORGOT THE.....TORTURE ROFL|JOYHAPPYONE|DAIDOLA5@AOL.COM|11:56:51|03/30/2013|

Posted on Mar-30-13 at 11:56 AM (Eastern) by 74.245.170.220

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LIFE SHOULD BE LIVED WITH A LITTLE MORE GRATITUDE AND ALOT LESS ATTITUDE 87|8|ROFL!!|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|12:06:36|03/30/2013|

Posted on Mar-30-13 at 12:06 PM (Eastern) by 98.143.230.108

Smile... it makes people wonder what you're up to!

Please identify yourself in 1st email w/name/username. Due to recent problem trades, if I haven't traded w/you before, I will probably require you send your end 1st or I'll need LEGIT trade references/feedback. I will be happy to provide the same. IF you plan to hold your end til you've received mine, I will need to know that IMMEDIATELY, BEFORE trade is finalized.


If you're happy w/our trade, please leave feedback for me at:
http://www.refundsweepers.com/dcforum/feedback/1133.html
I'll gladly do the same for you upon request.:)

88|9|I"m ROFL too! good one and true|pattyo|pattyolc@aol.com|04:18:28|03/31/2013|

Posted on Mar-31-13 at 04:18 AM (Eastern) by 66.168.185.17

Keep your friends close but your enemies closer.. Michael Corleone 89|10|YEP, SEEMED LIKE AN ETERNITY|JOYHAPPYONE|DAIDOLA5@AOL.COM|21:39:39|03/31/2013|

Posted on Mar-31-13 at 09:39 PM (Eastern) by 74.245.170.220

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LIFE SHOULD BE LIVED WITH A LITTLE MORE GRATITUDE AND ALOT LESS ATTITUDE 90|11|I'm almost pee-ing my pants here. ROFLMBO!!!|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|21:53:28|03/31/2013|

Posted on Mar-31-13 at 09:53 PM (Eastern) by 98.143.230.108

Smile... it makes people wonder what you're up to!

Please identify yourself in 1st email w/name/username. Due to recent problem trades, if I haven't traded w/you before, I will probably require you send your end 1st or I'll need LEGIT trade references/feedback. I will be happy to provide the same. IF you plan to hold your end til you've received mine, I will need to know that IMMEDIATELY, BEFORE trade is finalized.


If you're happy w/our trade, please leave feedback for me at:
http://www.refundsweepers.com/dcforum/feedback/1133.html
I'll gladly do the same for you upon request.:)