my sister raises ducks and i told her i wanted two of them. so i went and bought all the supplies to make a pen $75+ mind you just for starters. they are here now and in a open container for about a month inside till they get big enough to be outside. well anyway, on facebook before last week she said she wanted $15 for 2 ducklings i said great. so last week she says i can just have them as long as i take care of them and that the kids are allowed to visit them, yeah great. so she bring them up on birthday and they are all snug in their house. she never mentions she wants the money now???? so she facebooks me a message saying instead of the $15 she would take payment in the form of yakisoba nooodles cause her kids love them...lol im like wait a minute u said said i could have them last week and now u want paid again. she didnt ask me for it on tuesday when she dropped them off and i would have given her the money if i thought i owed it. but i didnt after what she said before. so now she has selective memory and says she never said i could just have them. omg i hate liers and know what she said. do any of you have sisters like this??? she called me right away after i facebooked her back and she starts her crap about its not free to incubate them and the electricity etc... i said noodles dont pay the electric bill and that i will just give her the money. i said im not gonna fight over $15 and i will just send it to her ( with dc mind you) and then she says " i knew this was gonna happen' so now she is gonna start crap over $15 bucks... you have got to be kidding me. she hung up on me...she is so nasty!! i swear its bad if you have to get things in writing with ur family, sometimes i have more faith and trust in strangers then them.
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1|1|I wouldnt know if my sister is like this or not.....she and I barely speak...not because of anything particular, but she is 17 yrs older than I am and is more like a distant cousin than a sister....we've never had a sisterly relationship.....we have nothing in common. Sad, but there you have it.|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|09:18:08|07/13/2012|
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5|2|I always am saddened when I see you....|Quietwaters|Quietwaters39@hotmail.com|13:47:55|07/13/2012|
don't have a relationship with your sister. My girls are 15 years apart, we all work very hard at them being close. I figure my oldest will be around much longer than I will, and I want them to always be close.
I don't have bio sisters, and my adopted ones are 11 and 12, and I am more like the bossy auntie to them, lol.
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10|4|I'm sorry Joy. But I have to say that I think your sister is the one missing out cuz you're a very kind & wonderful person. :)|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|19:56:55|07/13/2012|
Smile... it makes people wonder what you're up to!
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12|5|Aww, thank you, Tami! :) I have sisters...we just arent of the same mothers, and we met on a refunding board (wink!)|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|21:06:27|07/13/2012|
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2|1|Don't get me started on sisters lol lol Do you have a tractor suppy store? I think ducklings are cheaper there lol|teener|teenerzacsneenee@yahoo.com|12:44:52|07/13/2012|
>Last edited on Jul-13-12 at 08:15 AM
>(Eastern) by 71.61.81.90 my sister raises
>ducks and i told her i
>wanted two of them. so
>i went and bought all the
>supplies to make a pen $75+
>mind you just for starters.
>they are here now and in
>a open container for about
>a month inside till they get
>big enough to be outside.
>well anyway, on facebook before last
>week she said she wanted $15
>for 2 ducklings i said great.
> so last week she says
>i can just have them as
>long as i take care of
>them and that the kids are
>allowed to visit them, yeah great.
> so she bring them up
>on birthday and they are all
>snug in their house. she
>never mentions she wants the money
>now???? so she facebooks me
>a message saying instead of the
>$15 she would take payment in
>the form of yakisoba nooodles cause
>her kids love them...lol im
>like wait a minute u said
>said i could have them last
>week and now u want paid
>again. she didnt ask me
>for it on tuesday when she
>dropped them off and i would
>have given her the money if
>i thought i owed it.
>but i didnt after what she
>said before. so now she
>has selective memory and says she
>never said i could just have
>them. omg i hate liers
>and know what she said.
>do any of you have sisters
>like this??? she called me right
>away after i facebooked her back
>and she starts her crap about
>its not free to incubate them
>and the electricity etc... i said
>noodles dont pay the electric bill
>and that i will just give
>her the money. i said
>im not gonna fight over $15
>and i will just send it
>to her ( with dc mind
>you) and then she says "
>i knew this was gonna happen'
>so now she is gonna start
>crap over $15 bucks... you have
>got to be kidding me. she
>hung up on me...she is so
>nasty!! i swear its bad if
>you have to get things in
>writing with ur family, sometimes i
>have more faith and trust in
>strangers then them.
>
>
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3|2|I have 2 sisters and they are|dummybab|fbradshaw@embarqmail.com|13:29:04|07/13/2012|
Great. We never have any problem and really stick together. Guess from you say I am tryly blessed. 4|1|Whether it was my sister or someone else....|Quietwaters|Quietwaters39@hotmail.com|13:43:47|07/13/2012|
I would just give them the money or whatever, and not say anything, just not worth the fight.
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Except for next time, I'd buy my own ducklings or whatever somewhere else, just to avoid the hassling.
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7|1|I don't have any sisters, but my bff of 31 years is like a sister to me...I'm sorry you have to go through this with your sibling ((HUGS))~*~|RebekkaVA|queen_vulture@msn.com|17:17:47|07/13/2012|
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8|1|What I've learned.......|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|19:52:50|07/13/2012|
When it comes to family/sisters, ALWAYS get things in writing & tape record EVERY conversation, making sure to note the date & time. LOL
My oldest sister is 14 yrs. older than me & up until 2010 when her dh was sadly diagnosed w/cancer (he passed away last Oct.), we did not have a very sisterly relationship at all. I have another sister 5 yrs. older than me & there is not a good relationship between her & I either or between her & my oldest sister.
I handed out many olive branches over the yrs. but it got to be too draining, stressful & just plain toxic for me to continue, so I stopped & tried to avoid them as much as possible. The olive tree was getting bare.
When my oldest sister's dh was diagnosed w/esophageal cancer in Dec. 2010, I was apprehensive but felt I needed to try reaching out to her again, wanting to be as supportive as I could to both her & her dh. Surprisingly, things went differently this time & now we actually BOTH call each other up on a regular basis, just to talk. Something that hadn't ever happened before. We're also now able to talk & laugh about things we'd never been able to before. I sometimes think about all the yrs. that were wasted on stupid, petty stuff, but I'm grateful we've finally been able to connect. It's not 100% so we haven't suddenly become "siamese twins" or anything like that (LOL) but our sisterly relationship is much, much better. She's finally realizing & understanding some things I've already gone thru, altho it still saddens me that it took her dh's cancer & death to realize those things. But I'm grateful his passing wasn't in vain.
We lost a sister (at age 50) July 16th, 2003 to a massive heart attack. She & I were close & I still miss her terribly. :( After losing 1 sister so suddenly & unexpectedly, I felt it was long overdue that us remaining 3 sisters ALL did some soul-searching & start respecting each other & each others' feelings. Now, my oldest sister & I are hoping my other sister will soon realize this as well & finally reach out her own hand to accept the olive branch. ;)
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11|2|i used to think id like to trade a brother for a sister......LOL now im glad no one ever took me up on the offer|couponsnsamples|cpsnsamples@aol.com|20:21:42|07/13/2012|
LOL 13|2|I am glad you had some healing with your sister.|Quietwaters|Quietwaters39@hotmail.com|11:13:42|07/14/2012|
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Well, you can have my sister! LOL
Saint - I did not even know that my sister was mad at me until one of my daughters told me about it 9 months later!!! Then did I realize that when I called her (she did not call me) that she was always "going out the door" or "too busy to talk". So, just think of the smugness that she had that only she knew she was mad at me but I did not know it!!!
Both of my daughters know what she is mad about but they will not tell me as they know that the "poo will hit the fan" if I knew what crap she was pulling this time. She even called my youngest DD on her birthday to tell her whatever and got my DD crying - on her birthday!!!
This has been going on for a couple of years. She could not even call me and tell me that our mother was in the hospital - they both live in St Louis - 175 miles from me. She called my DD and told her to tell me that Mom was in the hospital - said that she did not know my email address - what - she did not know my phone number either? It has been the same for 40 years!
She has a vacation home in Branson and goes there once a month or so and my house if about half way between St Louis and Branson about 2 miles off of the interstate (I-44 - Route 66) and she and her DH (2nd one) would stop in, either on their way to Branson or on their way home. If I knew that they were stopping in and it was around lunch or dinner - I would have food for them, etc. But, that has all stopped.
I live on a little farm and mind my own business and I have not done anything to her - so it must have been something that I did not do that made her mad.
And also, Saint, my two daughters are 18 years apart. I was in the hospital having the little one when her sister was graduating from High School - she was Salutatorian and I missed her graduation. She always thought that her little baby sister was her graduation present. She did go off to college - one hour away - but stayed in the dorm during the week but came home on weekends and took her "baby" on dates with her then-to-be husband. She helped raise her little sister. They absolutely adore each other and are very, very close.
I am terminally ill - so it is great comfort to me that they are so close - more like mother and daughter, I suppose. I have already told my DH that if my sister were to come to my funeral that he was to tell her to leave - if she could not stand to speak to me or visit me - then don't bother to come to my funeral.
Nikki
http://www.refundsweepers.com/dcforum/feedback/366.html 16|2|Nikki, I am really sorry your sister can't even be adult enough to tell you what her problem is, and to leave your daughter out of it....and it is wonderful to hear your older daughter made it her 'responsibility' at that age to build a relationship with her little sister.....I wish my sister had done that, I really don't know if she just got caught up in 'grown up life' and the years just passed faster than she thought they would. I know it bothers my mom that we arent close, but I've told her I don't feel she is responsible for that at all....my sister was a young adult when I came along and she could have made the effort to be a sister to me. I couldnt do it, I was a baby, a child. I had tried for years when I got older (in my early twenties) to build a relationship with her, but my efforts went unreturned, so I gave up a few years ago...I was tired of my feelings being hurt. I didnt realize you are so ill, I am so sorry, Nikki....|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|22:15:36|07/14/2012|
" You'll get what's coming to you ... Unless it was mailed."
15|1|My brother is like that!!|seahawk|Seahawks57@aol.com|20:52:46|07/14/2012|
We have not spoken in over 3 months. I was trying to help him out w/ looking for a job.{He's out of work since March 2011} And he said I was putting him on a guilt trip. Isn't there a difference between helping a person & guilt? In my book there is.I gave up! He don't even go see our mom in the nursing home & he lives 10 mins away. Christmas was the last. My mom did everything for him. Food shopping, his wash etc. This really ticks me off. My hubby & friends said I don't need him in my life. He always was the one who had to win or be first when we played games or anything else. His friends always come first before family! Just venting!! Sorry!!!
seahawk
17|1|my family is kinder to strangers than me i feel so all alone most the time :( |gwens29|gwen41539@bellsouth.net|17:41:37|07/15/2012|
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18|2|I have 3 sisters, they are all like yours(greedy, liers, selfish people), drove me nuts, and I said enought! so I have not seen them or talked to any of them in 5 yrs, less drama I have to deal with, life is short.|HONEY11|HONEY1@AMERITECH.NET|22:33:02|07/15/2012|
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o0..0o Linda
19|3|Forgot to add my oldest sister is 12 years older then me, never had a close relationship with her, I don't even know her likes or dislikes,sad.|HONEY11|HONEY1@AMERITECH.NET|23:53:28|07/15/2012|
o I have known her all my life and many years ago she introduced me as her half sister, which really hurt my feelings,and at the time I was trying to get to know her I was 27 then, after that comment to her friend I backed off and didn't make a effort again. She has never tried to get to know me and over my whole life has only called me once and it was her wanting a favor.
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20|4|We get our from MEYERS HATCHERY (M)|carmenanderson|cloudcars@verizon.net|13:20:41|07/16/2012|
They ship really fast and we get them in 2 days. They have sales all the time, you get to pick breed, sex, etc and the more you get the cheaper they are--and they even send "extras".
We ordered 25 female chicks and 6 ducks... Ideal Hatchery in Cameron TX is another one we've done business with.
21|5|Sorry to hear all this. I have a brother and I heard thru the family grapevine|glennie58|glenn_scott@alumni.ksg.harvard.edu|16:18:13|07/17/2012|
He wants to have some one kill G, maybe me, and really hates Dash? You know the
surface story of CPS taking his kids. It's a year later and he's afraid they aren't getting them
back. I heard last week it was all my fault. I was shocked and surprised and saddened. With
G having a stroke and all I guess I look more like a victim than ever and I will admit to a certain
amount of physical and emotional exhaustion. But here's what I think - I can do everything thru
Him who gives me strength. (Phil 4:13) and also 1:19 ... for I know ... what has happened to me
will turn out for my deliverance.
As for all of you, love. Phil 1:7 it is right for me to feel this way about all of you since I have you in
my heart.
Joy said it best, we are each others sisters of the heart. No one chooses a birth family! LOL