I just haven't been up to posting much since Hayley's passing, I know I can't dwell on her death, and that she's in peace, but it's still hard to say good-bye to a 7 yr old. We went to her viewing Friday night, she looked so peaceful, but I just couldn't stop crying once I saw her in the casket, I finally was able to gain composure, because Cheyenne was having such a hard time, she wanted to see her, so I let her go in where the casket was, it was really hard for her, Will and I tried to comfort her, but she just was so upset. I was so glad we finally found out pastor there, he took Cheyenne to the side and held her for about 20 minutes and talked to her, he was holding his 9 month old daughter and it was so cute, cause his little daughter kept patting and rubbing Cheyenne's head, like she was trying to comfort her...My son Timmy and his wife came, they brought Alayna, but we kept Alayna in the other room, while they went through the rooms looking at the photos and such, then when they went in to the viewing, Timmy broke down too, when he came out, he hugged me and said "Mom, all I could think of was that could've been Alayna" and that he felt so bad for Hayley's parents, I told him that just be happy that Hayley isn't suffering, she's with the LORD now...Yesterday was the church service in Charlottesville (they had to do it there, cause our church is so small) and then the cemetery was in Staunton...After the cemetery, they had family and our church family meet up at our church and had a luncheon...We didn't go to Charlottesville, cause I didn't wanna have to take our van over the mountain, so we stayed and set up things at our church to prepare for everyone to arrive, it was really a nice gathering and I enjoyed meeting more of Hayley's family (ie: grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins)..I've also been worried about my best friend's mother, she was rushed by ambulance late Thursday night, she's having heart and blood pressure problems, she sounds better, but they say she's still critcial, cause they can't get the blood pressure stable, so that stresses me out too, cause I don't really have the funds to go out to California right now and I worry if something happens to her, how I'm gonna get out there..I don't mean to dump all this on you guys, but you are like family to me and I appreciate all of you....Anyways I am hoping to be back this week and posting more, right now though I'm sick, I think I've got a cold plus my back and legs have been hurting so bad and my left ankle was swollen last night, so I'm gonna take it easy today...Hugs, Rebekka
~*~REBEKKA~*~
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Married to my Soul Mate William
"My husband has cancer, Please pray for him"
Mommy to:
Timothy 5/80
Matthew 10/92
Cheyenne 9/99
Grandmother to Alayna 3/10
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1|1|I'm so Sorry|Mightymom7492|Mightymom74@att.net|01:43:32|01/02/2012|
you are going through this. I will say a prayer for her family and you also as well. If you ever need someone to talk with you. you have my email. Hugs 2|1|My heart goes out to you and her family. It's so hard when you lose a little child. Hard to lose anyone. We just lost our dear friend, and the pain hurts but I do know in time it will heal.|flapper|joyphalen@yahoo.com|09:10:06|01/02/2012|
Saying a prayer for you and your family and Hayley's family that the hurt goes away soon.
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Garnette member 3|2|Sorry for your pain|angNC|memawang@nc.rr.com|15:41:49|01/02/2012|
grieving is not a switch that we can turn on/off. I hope life gets better Rebekka, you sure do have a lot on you. 4|1|Rebekka, I am so sorry to hear this news,,,,,|melpaul|Melpaul199@aol.com|18:39:21|01/02/2012|
My heart goes out to all will keep all in my prayers Hugs go out to you so much
It is so hard to lose someone especially a child Will keep all inmy prayers at all times
5|1|Is there an online condolance/guest book that I could sign...|julie|jcastens@egyptian.net|20:11:03|01/02/2012|
Do you know the name of the funeral home, etc. 8|2|Julie...The link is inside :) |RebekkaVA|queen_vulture@msn.com|00:25:23|01/03/2012|
http://mcdowfuneralhomeinc.com/fh/obituaries/obituary.cfm?o_id=1350210&fh_id=11450
~*~REBEKKA~*~
a.k.a. "Queen Vulture"
Married to my Soul Mate William
"My husband has cancer, Please pray for him"
Mommy to:
Timothy 5/80
Matthew 10/92
Cheyenne 9/99
Grandmother to Alayna 3/10
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6|1|awww...I'm so sorry to hear this...prayers for the little girl, her family and all those touched by her passing.|kellysp6637|frugalk76@aol.com|21:21:06|01/02/2012|
I can never make sense of any child passing...it's just too sad and shouldn't be that way. 7|1|Thank you so much everyone....more inside|RebekkaVA|queen_vulture@msn.com|00:24:13|01/03/2012|
I feel so blessed to have so many wonderful friends here...It is hard, but I'm trying to think good things and be positive...I'm trying to find comfort in knowing that she's no longer in pain and is at peace...Cheyenne wants to paint a clay pot, put flowers in it and take it to her grave, I told her we could do that and also she wants to cook Hayley's family a meal...Hayley's little sister came and sat with me Saturday, she told me that she just wanted to be left alone, but all the kids kept chasing her at the luncheon, so I let her sit with me for a bit, it made me feel so much better hugging that little girl, she is still so young and it's gonna be hard for her to understand it all...Anyways I thank all of you from the bottom of my heart... Hugs, Rebekka
~*~REBEKKA~*~
a.k.a. "Queen Vulture"
Married to my Soul Mate William
"My husband has cancer, Please pray for him"
Mommy to:
Timothy 5/80
Matthew 10/92
Cheyenne 9/99
Grandmother to Alayna 3/10
*EMAIL*: queen_vulture@msn.com
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