My class reunion is Labor day my 40th (now you all know how old I am lol) well anyway
I really dont want to go I wasn't into the group that is mostly posting on FB reminiscing
who's who's anyway one of my good friend from Florida is coming up. we were friends but havent
been in touch other then Christmas cards and birthday cards Joan is her name and she was orginally from here she been posting coming up does anyone know of hotels she can stay at or anywhere they can stay. I know why she's doing this she wants me to say come here She and her husband
But here is the kicker I dont want to go and really don''t want them over nothing personal but
I think I have to work that week end too, but there is a chance I dont and I would just go for an hour no more to the reunion and my husband willnot be here. I just dont know how to say no to her and if I dont post something she is going to think I am ignoring her ( which kinda what I am doing) Am I in the wrong?
Help me out her please
1|1|perhaps just say something like?|shellysmsmo|jpksms@sbcglobal.net|19:34:24|08/29/2011|
" I really have a lot going on that weekend, and don't plan on being around home much that weekend " 2|1|I'd give her the names of hotels where she could stay like she asked for....even if it was a ploy to get you to invite her to stay with you.....and you could say, "I most likely will not be available to attend the reunion, but I hope you have a wonderful time" If you end up going for a bit, then it will be a nice surprise for her to see you.|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|19:58:09|08/29/2011|
" You'll get what's coming to you ... Unless it was mailed."
3|1|I would tell her the truth......|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|20:44:45|08/29/2011|
That you hadn't made any plans to attend the reunion nor planned for anything else as you're pretty sure you have to work that wkend. Then yea, give her the names/phone numbers of some motels & ask her to tell everyone "hello" from you.
If you show up at the reunion, great. If not, you've already clarified why you likely wouldn't. And it should also have you covered if they're hinting to stay at your place. ;)
I went to my 5th & 10th class reunions & that's it. Boring! Realized the snotty ones hadn't changed much & were the "show", & any of my friends I'd want to see or talk with, we could do that any other time, which we do. ;)
Smile... it makes people wonder what you're up to!
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4|2|Exactly What Tami Said......|Heyushell|heyushell@aol.com|20:51:37|08/29/2011|
JUST TELL THE TRUTH!!!!
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just needed to hear it from someone else thanks so much 6|2|give her the names of hotels in the area|petunia1|sweetpea39@comcast.net|21:45:04|08/29/2011|
you really do not need to explain anything unless she asks "are you going?" . I am getting better about not feeling obligated. You could always meet her for lunch or dinner if you really want to see her and not everyone else.
whatever you decide to do, have a nice weekend.