Posted on Jun-05-11 at 03:37 PM (Eastern) by 76.101.225.143
So, not only have a lost my Mom and had surgery right before that... No I went back to follow up on some medical tests that I had when I was preparing for the surgery and they have determined that it looks like I'm having problems with my Kidneys! I will be 39 in a few weeks... I hate having so many problems. I also have a problem with the muscles in my back, they said it might be stress related. They put me on pain relievers, muscle relaxants and prednisone. So I'll be on my back most of today with ice, then heat, trying to get rid of the pain. I haven't even scheduled the skin doctor they wanted me to see... that numbers is in my purse still.. I can only do so many things at a time.
Also, my son went to the dentist last week and he needs to see a orthodontist. The poor kid has no room for all the teeth coming in, so they are saying he needs a bunch of teeth pulled and braces at 8 year old! So he totally flips out all last week in school with everything he's going through between losing grandma and having to have his teeth done, his mom being sick, etc.... and he gets suspended from the after school program. He hasn't has blow ups like this all year, all the pyschiatrist meetings and behavioral therapy just went out the door until we get all his feelings resolved again. So at least we had a behavioral therapy meeting yesterday.
So now I have no vacation time, a son who needs major dental work done and braces, a possbile kidney problem that has been coming on for years, but apparently no one has thought to mention, and I might lose my day care in the afternoons if Steven has one more problem! And who even knows what skin problems they think I have! They said I have a bunch of moles that need to be checked out!
Oh! And I'm having chest pains which they say are probably anxiety related and I should discuss them with my therapist. Which I will do as soon as I reschedule that meeting.
I really feel the need to cry big time. Why are these things always so hard! I know what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, but dang it! How much stronger do I need to be! It's just all not fair.
Thanks for listening to me gripe and ramble on. I don't really have anyone to gripe to anymore... that's what Mom was here for!
Laurie
1|1|Oh Laurie...I am so sorry you're going through so much...more inside|RebekkaVA|queen_vulture@msn.com|16:00:31|06/05/2011|
I can only imagine how hard it must be for you girlie. I wish I lived closer, I would give you a huge hug right now, I wish I knew the words to say that would comfort you. You've been on my mind alot lately and I've been praying for you. I know sometimes it's hard for children to understand everything that is going on around them and I hope that your son will be okay. We have the same problem with Cheyenne's teeth, she has too many, so we had to go to an orthodontist and he is referring us to a oral surgeon, so that she can get her teeth pulled etc. Life is so hard and I feel so bad for you, that you have to endure so much right now. There are days I just want to go away some where and hide, it's like when it rains it pours. Just know that I'm praying for you and that if you need to talk or anything, I'm here...Hugs, Rebekka
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2|1|((Laurie)) I am so sorry for all this dropping on you like a ton of bricks at once :( One thing at a time, that's all you can do....I'll keep you and your DS in my prayers.....email if you need to vent, not good to keep it all in.|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|16:54:50|06/05/2011|
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3|1|(((Laurie))) I am so sorry you have to go..|Skaytes|skaytez@gmail.com|18:24:17|06/05/2011|
thru all this. Seems when it rains it pours I know. I too wish I was closer to give you hugs you need right now. Email me if you need to vent as well. Am keeping you in good thoughts and prayers here! 4|2|Laurie...hate to see you going thru so much right now...hoping that things get better soon|BusterBrown|srfreezerqueen@hotmail.com|19:21:46|06/05/2011|
you definitely have too much on your plate...hugs to you..Jodie 5|1|Praying for you Laurie|blessedx5|I_am_blessedx5@yahoo.com|19:42:34|06/05/2011|
! 6|1|sorry to hear|joseph|parkerjoe3@yahoo.com|20:28:03|06/05/2011|
about this to many teeth probably not that uncommon but braces if you can't afford them tell the dentist straight up i could never afford braces for my kids my daughter got them when she was 19 and had a job 8|2|Thankfully I have some dental insurance... it doesn't cover much|jdlaurie|savethosepennies@aol.com|21:25:16|06/05/2011|
but I need to check it might cover like 50% up to $1200 of it or something... so anything is better than nothing... then they will just go on a payment plan like everyone else. I have so many medical items on payment plans it's horrible. But they seem to be ok as long as I keep making the payments on time. I have several others to set up on plans that just came in the mail from my surgery. I have to find a way to pay for Mom's burial, so that's a big priority right now. But I suppose I could hold off a little if I have to. I have her remains here, so I guess it doesn't make a lot of difference if I do it not or later.... I just need to bury her for closure. I need to finish going through all her stuff, close her accounts, etc. There is so much to do. 7|1|So very sorry Laurie. Wish I could be of some help to you. Just said a prayer for you. And may God Bless you and take you|flapper|joyphalen@yahoo.com|20:38:25|06/05/2011|
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Garnette member 9|1|appt with kidney specialist is tomorrow! wish me luck!|jdlaurie|savethosepennies@aol.com|20:59:56|06/06/2011|
I'm hoping for a kidney stone! I want it to be something reversable! Isn't that said when you only want it to be something painful!
I went for more tests today and then I meet with the doctor for the first time tomorrow. right now I'm on pain killers, muscle relaxers and steriods just to get through the day with the pain.
Laurie 10|2|always thinking of you Laurie and praying (((HUGS)))~*~|RebekkaVA|queen_vulture@msn.com|21:12:40|06/06/2011|
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11|2|Good thoughts and prayers for you....and a big hug for good measure.|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|21:30:14|06/06/2011|
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12|2|Thinking good thoughts and sending up prayers for you!|Skaytes|skaytez@gmail.com|06:19:48|06/07/2011|
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