12 0|0|I want to thank you all for the prayers and good thoughts this weekend while I was moving my mom to the assisted living apartment.....my sister was actually quite tolerable (bordering on downright nice!), and my mom only had one breakdown when she was going through some things in her cedar chest (letters from my dad when they were courting back in the forties, baby things from of all us, some things of her mother's)....she wasnt going to take it all, and was heartbroken thinking she'd have to get rid of anything....there wasnt that much in there, so I told her to take the whole cedar chest full and use it for a tv stand in her sitting room....that diffused the breakdown, and then she was a wee bit more agreeable to throwing out things that had no sentimental value (trinkets and knick knacks, etc). So, all in all it was productive...although my sister and I still have to go back in a couple weeks and throw more out, bring a few more things to her, and clean the house....whew!|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|18:51:08|05/29/2011|
Posted on May-29-11 at 06:51 PM (Eastern) by 98.213.152.114

" You'll get what's coming to you ... Unless it was mailed."


1|1|Glad to hear things went well and good thinking on the cedar chest!!!!!!!!!!|padrifter|candles@nb.net|18:56:42|05/29/2011|

Posted on May-29-11 at 06:56 PM (Eastern) by 184.19.218.38

http://www.refundsweepers.com/dcforum/feedback/127.html 2|1|Prepare for the worst & hope for the best - I'm glad & relieved for you that there was more leaning towards the best. :)|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|19:02:08|05/29/2011|

Posted on May-29-11 at 07:02 PM (Eastern) by 207.190.75.151

My best wishes & (((HUGS))) for your mom as she adjusts to her new surroundings. :)


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3|2|Joy...so glad that it worked out so well|BusterBrown|srfreezerqueen@hotmail.com|20:21:34|05/29/2011|

Posted on May-29-11 at 08:21 PM (Eastern) by 174.57.65.249

and that your sis was decent...always makes ya wonder what they are up to tho....LOL...My mil has been wondering about her sister for the last few days cause she is being so decent to her after her knee replacement...think she is waiting for the sis to kick her or something...LOL 7|3|Geez, Jod...I hadnt thought of it like that....I mean, afterall.........she and I will be alone in the house the next time we go there! :O LOL!|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|07:29:50|05/30/2011|

Posted on May-30-11 at 07:29 AM (Eastern) by 98.213.152.114

" You'll get what's coming to you ... Unless it was mailed."


4|1|So glad things went well.....|Quietwaters|Quietwaters39@hotmail.com|21:07:59|05/29/2011|

Posted on May-29-11 at 09:07 PM (Eastern) by 67.165.147.131

Have been slowly going through things with my mom since my step dad passed away. It is so hard to get rid of a lifetime of things, that you have held on to for one reason or another. How is she feeling about her new apartment?





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5|1|I'm so happy for you that it went so well!|jdlaurie|savethosepennies@aol.com|21:14:21|05/29/2011|
Posted on May-29-11 at 09:14 PM (Eastern) by 76.101.225.143

There is hope yet! I know sometimes it's difficult with siblings... but it sounds like both of your hearts were in the right place... taking care of your mom.

6|1|I didn't post to the other post but ya know I was thinking about you I give you credit to |teener|teenerzacsneenee@yahoo.com|06:59:56|05/30/2011|

Posted on May-30-11 at 06:59 AM (Eastern) by 74.128.156.89

even being with your sister in the same house while you went through things lol 8|2|Oh, I know you were, Pal :) All I know is there is no other explanation for her sudden change in attitude except for all the prayers and thoughts I had on my side :)|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|07:30:38|05/30/2011|

Posted on May-30-11 at 07:30 AM (Eastern) by 98.213.152.114

" You'll get what's coming to you ... Unless it was mailed."


9|3|No No I am sure it was the thugs I sent to her house lol She simpy had to know you have us behind you lol lol|teener|teenerzacsneenee@yahoo.com|08:37:09|05/30/2011|

Posted on May-30-11 at 08:37 AM (Eastern) by 74.128.156.89

>Posted on May-30-11 at 07:30 AM (Eastern)
>by 98.213.152.114" You'll get what's coming
>to you ... Unless it was
>mailed."
>


10|4|The Gandolfini Gang. LOLOL|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|08:49:08|05/30/2011|

Posted on May-30-11 at 08:49 AM (Eastern) by 207.190.75.151

Smile... it makes people wonder what you're up to!

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11|5|Glad to hear that part of the move went well!|couponshelmd|couponshel@comcast.net|09:35:44|05/30/2011|

Posted on May-30-11 at 09:35 AM (Eastern) by 174.54.82.253

Good to hear that your sister didn't badger your mom... and hopefully will be tolerable when you meet up to finish the move/house cleaning. Wish your mother well in her new "crib" ha ha!

12|1|Happy to hear all went well, isn't it a shame that all the things she accumulated over the years, get tossed away. |flapper|joyphalen@yahoo.com|09:45:11|05/30/2011|

Posted on May-30-11 at 09:45 AM (Eastern) by 67.247.231.51

When we moved my Mother in law into an assisted living home, we tossed so much away, I felt terrible giving so much away and tossing the rest as those were all her possession for all those years and out they go. You know the same thing will happen to us when we go down that road. After all, you already have all your possessions and where in the world would you put someone elses'. But so glad it all went well with you and your sister.
My sister stole so much of my Father's money and his belongings some of which I and my sisters and brother were suppose to get. To this day, we aren't on speaking terms. And I/we want it that way. She did so many nasty things to us and didn't include us in on personal things. So I'm very happy for you that all turned out so well.

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