Ok I need to vent! Long story short we might have to move!!! Im heartbroken because I LOVE my house! Its the first home Ive ever had and my hearts in it :O(
I dont want to move and have been feeling awful since I heard the news(yesterday).
Usually I keep people out and only allow a small few into my close world but Ive opened up some and talked to a few people about this. doesn't seem like its a big deal to them and now I really wish I didn't open up about personal stuff to one of them. UGH!
Im not a regret feeling person but I kinda wish I kept mum! While I was talking to this person I could just tell they didn't care.
WHY didn't I just shut up before saying too much!!! Usually you feel better after talking about whats bothering you but I feel not to happy about my blabbering mouth!
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1|1|Oh I am sorry Mumzie...|sunriver|sunriver@gmail.com|10:36:54|02/23/2011|
I loathe having to move and know how stressful just the thought can be.
I'll just keep hoping that things change for you and you can stay put after all. And remember you can always come here to vent if not.
Hang in there! 2|2|thank you! Im sooo stressed out! This just happened|Mumzie|luckiestbamboo2@aol.com|11:08:24|02/23/2011|
around september then she decided not to sell and now here we are again and shes going to sell!
Im so sick about all this. :o(
3|1|Of course you're stressed ... moving is one of the biggest stressors we have|whitmarg|robin@whitmannet.com|11:25:43|02/23/2011|
Sorry you opened up and regret it. That sucks. Sometimes people are just so cold and uncaring and apparently she couldn't see that this was really bothering you. 4|2|Holly, they aren't real friends if they don't care about you|angNC|memawang@nc.rr.com|15:47:42|02/23/2011|
email me, we can compare:)
Sorry you are going through this
5|1|I hate to move....and when you arent in some control of when you have to get gone, it makes it even more stressful! I am dreading moving, we have tentative plans to move after the boys graduated next year, so to have to be faced with a short deadline once the house youre in sells will be a major stress. I'm sorry your friend wasnt empathetic to your plight :( Sometimes people dont know what to say, they dont realize just listening is all youre asking of them.|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|16:00:50|02/23/2011|
" You'll get what's coming to you ... Unless it was mailed."
6|2|thanks ladies! Thats why I love it here so much. My RL friends and family |Mumzie|luckiestbamboo2@aol.com|16:10:53|02/23/2011|
arent the greatest someone times :/
Ive been in bed all day feeling so stressed out it made me actually sick. I have a slight fever
and my stomache is in knots.
I just hate that I seem to listen to other peoples stories over and over but when I need someone around just to listen they arent around. Im going to take a step back from these people then maybe they will wonder where I am.....or maybe not! lol
all I can say is UUUGGGHHHH :o( 7|3|One thing you might think about doing...|sunriver|sunriver@gmail.com|17:06:02|02/23/2011|
We had the fun of an owner who was selling the apartment complex we were living in and I remember how awful it was so I was thinking about how one thing that I did with our last move that I would totally do again was that I rented a storage area as soon as I knew we had to move. That gave me a place to move stuff into while i was packing up the place as well as looking for a new one. The whole experience was still horribly stressful, but the storage unit was totally worth it to me because it was one thing I could control through the whole rest of the stuff that I had no control over. It made it a bit easier on me and if/when I have to move again I would make sure to do the same thing.
Hang in there! Maybe she will change her mind again? Are you on a month to month? If she changes again be sure to ask for a better contract (yr lease).
8|1|Munzie so sorry to hear about all this......|melpaul|Melpaul199@aol.com|19:51:55|02/23/2011|
As for your friends the friends who you think are will always miss and cherish your friendship and will always be your friends
Something to think about no matter where you have to move or do, you always have a family with you all the time that you can come home too ((((US))))
9|2|Mumzie, while you love your house...|BusterBrown|srfreezerqueen@hotmail.com|20:08:19|02/23/2011|
if she changes her mind again....follow thru with the move, so that your heart is not broken repeatedly. I know moves stink, and whomever said having control over it helped is right on target...best of luck....Jodie 10|3|when we went through this back in september I was ready to move|Mumzie|luckiestbamboo2@aol.com|06:26:26|02/24/2011|
then she said she wasnt going to sell and would let us know if she had plans on it but dont worry.
now here we are again.I cant keep going through this. I dont want to move but cant keep playing this game. We are
trying our hardest to stay and buy this house but who knows what will happen. Thanks for all the support! I really appreciate it!
If it wasnt for this board I dont know what Id do because the people Ive turned to seem to have turned away from me.
Its still bothering me though. Im trying not to let them get to me but its hard because Ive
always listened to their problems and the 1 time I need an ear no one wants to listen :/