16 0|0|Gotta Vent ..............grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr....|ptmama525|ptmama525@aol.com|10:18:33|02/08/2011|
Posted on Feb-08-11 at 10:18 AM (Eastern) by 71.30.197.44

Ok, I post an ISO and I get this reply @ 9:15

Hi Deedra,
My papers are now in. I have 34 Mentos .50/1 on any
for trade at 10 cents each plus postage, non fees paypal,
stamps, cash. Will mail today.
PLMK yes or no and send address,

I replied at 9:31
with this reply:
great, I will take them all.
3.84 ?? personal paypal addy is ??
JLMK
Thanks
Deedra Mullins
(removed address)

so at 9:53 she sent me this reply:
Thanks for your reply, but thesehave just now been traded.
Hopefully we can make a trade in the future. Anything else
you are seeking at this time? I just may have them.

EXCUSE ME...you emailed me for the trade and I replied within a reasonable time (16 minutes) and you trade them out from under me.....
I think I need to go back to bed !!! 1|1|i hate when that happens or when ppl think you cant not want to go thru with a trade when you think they are charging too much for the coupons |lydzkydz|wyldkydz@embarqmail.com|11:00:17|02/08/2011|

Posted on Feb-08-11 at 11:00 AM (Eastern) by 76.7.80.87


please include your user name on refundsweepers.
i appreciate all the trades made in the past.

THANKS!! 2|1|Sorta like that time a trader and I were emailing back n forth working out a trade and I took a potty run up the stairs and |teener|teenerzacsneenee@yahoo.com|11:08:28|02/08/2011|

Posted on Feb-08-11 at 11:08 AM (Eastern) by 74.128.156.89

the trader traded what I was asking about while I was gone lol I don't get some people lol On a good note Deerda I have 4 I'll drop in the mail for ya ROAK 3|1|I think this is rude, if they replied to your post...|couponshelmd|couponshel@comcast.net|11:29:34|02/08/2011|

Posted on Feb-08-11 at 11:29 AM (Eastern) by 174.54.82.253

they are at the time, offering them to you; that was not long enough to wait to trade them away from you. I thought it was funny to ask if you need anything else... as if the trader would hold those coupons for what, 5 minutes? Sorry this happened to you! 4|1|Sorry Deeds. :( |maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|11:35:29|02/08/2011|

Posted on Feb-08-11 at 11:35 AM (Eastern) by 207.190.75.151

I guess the trader had a fire to go to & thought you took too long puttin' on your fire hat. ;-p


Fact of life: After Monday and Tuesday..even the CALENDAR says...
W..T..F..

Please identify yourself in 1st email w/name/username. Due to recent problem trades, if I haven't traded w/you before, I will probably require you send your end 1st or I'll need LEGIT trade references/feedback. I will be happy to provide the same. IF you plan to hold your end til you've received mine, I will need to know that IMMEDIATELY, BEFORE trade is finalized.


If you're happy w/our trade, please leave feedback for me at:
http://www.refundsweepers.com/dcforum/feedback/1133.html
I'll gladly do the same for you upon request.:)

5|1|I do not get it, these should have been yours!!|dlpavitt|dlpavitt@att.net|11:46:15|02/08/2011|

Posted on Feb-08-11 at 11:46 AM (Eastern) by 76.250.235.202

ALways looking for:
daisy sourcream .60/1, or .50/1
utz chips, any
hunt's snack pack pudding
eggland's best eggs, .50/1 or better
powerade(any)
pepperidge farm cakes
thomas's english muffins
skippy peanut butter off 1
jif peanut butter off 1
Kellogg's off 1
General mills off 1
viva papertowels, .75/1
cottonelle, 1.00/1 or .50/1
cottonelle wipes 1.00/1 or better
coolwhip, any
gatorade g2
coupons good on ANY coke product
sprite coupons
mystic pizza coupons
Unused Stamps(small denomination's okay)
Well concealed cash
Free's(that I need)
bigelow tea, any
pphf, existing funds please

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Try to get all trades out with in 12 hours of confirmation. If you do not have a board name, and feedback, I will mail my end, only after I receive your end. Happy trading. Thanks for looking, Donna 6|2|feel better after venting and....|ptmama525|ptmama525@aol.com|12:06:16|02/08/2011|

Posted on Feb-08-11 at 12:06 PM (Eastern) by 71.30.197.44

I was P'od and emailed her back

I'm confused...you emailed me, replying to my post and said you had them and
to let you know yes or no, I took that as these were mine as long as I still
wanted them (especially since I hadnt contacted you for them, you contacted
me)...I replied within 16 minutes of receipt of the email and then you say
they have already been traded...I'm sorry but that just isn't proper trading
etiquette. Guess I'm just having a bad day but needed to vent.


and her reply :
I'm sorry. I replied to several ads that were seeking these.
When I have only replied to one trader with what I have, many
times they have not ever answered and I am stuck getting no
trades made at all while I wait to hear from them.
If I had only sent to you and then you waited till noon or later
to get back to me and then said you had made your trade for them already,
here I would sit with the coupons and no trades made.
Do you see my dilemma?
Hope you can see my side of all, too

anyways I guess I was just in a bad mood.
Thanks for listening !!! 7|3|Perhaps she doesn't understand tmaking someone an "offer" of coupons? |couponshelmd|couponshel@comcast.net|12:32:32|02/08/2011|

Posted on Feb-08-11 at 12:32 PM (Eastern) by 174.54.82.253

Once you make an offer, you should at least wait to hear back from the person; and it is very hard for me to believe that someone else got to her within those 16 minutes. I think it is very poor manners.

8|3|IMO thats still a crappy answer booooo|teener|teenerzacsneenee@yahoo.com|13:14:41|02/08/2011|

Posted on Feb-08-11 at 01:14 PM (Eastern) by 74.128.156.89

>Posted on Feb-08-11 at 12:06 PM (Eastern)
>by 71.30.197.44I was P'od and emailed
>her back
>I'm confused...you emailed me, replying to my
>post and said you had them
>and to let you know
>yes or no, I took that
>as these were mine as long
>as I still wanted them
>(especially since I hadnt contacted you
>for them, you contacted me)...I
>replied within 16 minutes of receipt
>of the email and then you
>say they have already been
>traded...I'm sorry but that just isn't
>proper trading etiquette. Guess I'm
>just having a bad day but
>needed to vent.
> and her reply : I'm sorry.
> I replied to several ads
>that were seeking these. When I
>have only replied to one trader
>with what I have, many times
>they have not ever answered and
>I am stuck getting no trades
>made at all while I wait
>to hear from them. If I
>had only sent to you
>and then you waited till noon
>or later to get back to
>me and then said you had
>made your trade for them already,
> here I would sit with
>the coupons and no trades made.
> Do you see my dilemma?
>Hope you can see my side
>of all, too
>anyways I guess I was just in
>a bad mood. Thanks for listening
>!!!


9|4|This is VERY RUDE to do and has happened to me many times---just don't understand people that do that!!!|cashcoll|cashcoll@yahoo.com|13:47:36|02/08/2011|

Posted on Feb-08-11 at 01:47 PM (Eastern) by 70.178.135.136

Have a Great Day!

*********************************

GO HOGS GO!!
Woooooooooo, Pig! Sooiee!
11|3|The dilemma of this trader's that I see.......|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|14:27:20|02/08/2011|

Last edited on Feb-08-11 at 02:33 PM (Eastern) by 207.190.75.151

Is that she offered these coupons to several people (she states she replied to several ads that were ISO of these coupons) which she should not have done, & brought the dilemma onto herself by doing so.
Deedra, you had NO way of knowing you were on a "mass mailing" list & rightly assumed the trader was offering them to you exclusively. I would've assumed the same since she obviously didn't mention she'd offered the coupons to others as well. So yea, you should've had 1st dibs on these since she contacted you & offered to trade them to you.
You are right as this is not proper trading etiquette. :(
Sounds like it was a game of chance except that nobody knew they were playing, & now the trader likely has another dilemma - several traders who are unhappy w/her because they too probably assumed (& rightly so) she was offering the coupons exclusively to each of them. :(

>Posted on Feb-08-11 at 12:06 PM (Eastern)
>by 71.30.197.44I was P'od and emailed
>her back
>I'm confused...you emailed me, replying to my
>post and said you had them
>and to let you know
>yes or no, I took that
>as these were mine as long
>as I still wanted them
>(especially since I hadnt contacted you
>for them, you contacted me)...I
>replied within 16 minutes of receipt
>of the email and then you
>say they have already been
>traded...I'm sorry but that just isn't
>proper trading etiquette. Guess I'm
>just having a bad day but
>needed to vent.
> and her reply : I'm sorry.
> I replied to several ads
>that were seeking these. When I
>have only replied to one trader
>with what I have, many times
>they have not ever answered and
>I am stuck getting no trades
>made at all while I wait
>to hear from them. If I
>had only sent to you
>and then you waited till noon
>or later to get back to
>me and then said you had
>made your trade for them already,
> here I would sit with
>the coupons and no trades made.
> Do you see my dilemma?
>Hope you can see my side
>of all, too
>anyways I guess I was just in
>a bad mood. Thanks for listening
>!!!

Fact of life: After Monday and Tuesday..even the CALENDAR says...
W..T..F..

Please identify yourself in 1st email w/name/username. Due to recent problem trades, if I haven't traded w/you before, I will probably require you send your end 1st or I'll need LEGIT trade references/feedback. I will be happy to provide the same. IF you plan to hold your end til you've received mine, I will need to know that IMMEDIATELY, BEFORE trade is finalized.


If you're happy w/our trade, please leave feedback for me at:
http://www.refundsweepers.com/dcforum/feedback/1133.html
I'll gladly do the same for you upon request.:)

12|4|I agree with Tami....this isnt very good protocol to trade by.....|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|16:24:49|02/08/2011|

Posted on Feb-08-11 at 04:24 PM (Eastern) by 98.213.152.114

" You'll get what's coming to you ... Unless it was mailed."


10|1|24 hours is what I wait for, If I don't hear back from them by then, then I send them another e-mail giving them a time to reply by. If I don't hear from them within that time frame, then, I make them available again.|amyc12|amyc1012@aol.com|13:59:59|02/08/2011|

Posted on Feb-08-11 at 01:59 PM (Eastern) by 71.234.149.7

What was done to you is just poor trading and very inconsiderate!!
If I had gotten the Mentos, I would send you some, but unfortunately, I did not
I am sorry this happened to you!! 13|1|This was rude - poor trade etiquette|Sharon|corvettelady@lavabit.com|16:41:16|02/08/2011|

Posted on Feb-08-11 at 04:41 PM (Eastern) by 67.142.172.26

You replied and made a trade in quick timely manner. Deedra is in the wrong, hopefully she won't do it again in the future. 14|2|Maybe she is new?!?!? I NEVER EVER offer the same group of coupons to more than one trader at a time. If I offer the same coupons to 3 people....TWO are going to be disappointed. Doesn't seem like a good way to make people happy to trade with me. I too give 24 hours. I will also send a message like "need to know by noon tomorrow or I will repost" before I retrade them. It was poor trading ettiquette. Again, are they new?!? Could be an innocent newbie error.|Barb09|Barb0969@AOL.com|17:15:35|02/08/2011|

Posted on Feb-08-11 at 05:15 PM (Eastern) by 99.71.91.128

I looked and looked and found no coupons for troll food......SO, I don't feed the trolls!! 15|3|I'm not for sure Barb...|ptmama525|ptmama525@aol.com|19:01:14|02/08/2011|

Posted on Feb-08-11 at 07:01 PM (Eastern) by 67.140.171.54

I noticed she had been trading since at least June. Not for sure how much prior to that, I don't know if she is a trader here, she replied off one of the yahoo groups post.

I'm over it now, lol 16|1|Sorry this had to happen to you|melpaul|Melpaul199@aol.com|19:02:20|02/08/2011|

Posted on Feb-08-11 at 07:02 PM (Eastern) by 64.12.116.68

so sorry