"look....i am totally confused as to a few things..."
Posted by BusterBrown on Jan-11-11 at 00:45 AM (Eastern)
Posted on Jan-11-11 at 00:45 AM (Eastern) by 174.57.65.249
take a nap, and look what ya miss......
1-i am not sure why Betty is getting involved and calling people troublemakers...no clue....these people that bumped the thread had a reason(see gc post)....not all can click links for whatever reason in posts...i know i used to have problems with one of my old computer systems. Why she called them troublemakers no clue. I have traded with all(Barb, robin, and Betty) successfully over time.
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MY REPLY: She told it like she saw it! You guys were digging up old bones with the intent to cause trouble on a board not meant for chatting.
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2-as to the the gc thread and the comments made in the above post. I remember reading this post then and take it how you will Wego(no, we have never traded so no trading opinion has ever been made good or bad)....and thinking that it would not be worth getting involved in a trade with you for the simple fact that you sound a lot like some other people i know in life that nothing is ever there fault. I work with some like that and it drives me nuts. I may be way off base with you, but will never know. You have been on the board approx 6 months or so...and have been pretty confrontational on several occasions....yet you claim that the board has treated you bad. I think if you look at what you have written it is a two way street. Your comment in the gc thread was in reply to Teresas post....personal things such as weight, marriages, family etc are totally not neccessary or acceptable....they are so different then what your comments were about.
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MY REPLY- It's Wegogo. I was not speaking of you particularly but if you felt guilty about something between us that I do not remember that is on you. I do not have a trading opinion of you that I know of and I really don't have the time to go back and dig up old bones top see if you answered or didn't answer an email or post for something I wanted to buy or not. If you feel like it you can refresh my memory... Perhaps I wanted to buy something and you said it was sold or didn't answer I do not place you specifically but if the shoe fits you can let me know how if you want. I was thinking of someone else specifically and had given the benefit of the doubt until they kept posting things I was trying to buy on multiple boards.. I never gave you personally any thought. Sorry to have made you feel guilty! I truly meant no offense to you or anyone else specifically. It was just a note to hopefully get people to get along though I was right I would be next under attack. Which is also no biggy because none of us are the only ones that sell anything we have because unless we made it personally someone else out there and has it to get from too! Lots of selling and buying sources! Though being judged on my own merits and not from people you think are like someone you do not know personally seems a little odd to me because I guarantee you you know no one else just like me! And how well do you really know the ones you compare me to from work, really!
You can form your own opinion if you want of me whether its true or not. I am here to buy and sell only and spend quite a bit quite often and my money always comes and spends everywhere so if you choose to think wrongly of me that's your loss and in so many way. And don't think I am tooting my own horn to say but it would be beneficial rather than detrimental for one to do business with me not only because of my spending but because of my networking, possibilities and generousities. I am only confrontational when I am provoked because I am not intimidated by the games played on here and will not stand by undefended or let someone else be pushed around when I see it. That goes for here or anywhere. Though a little board like this usually seems to have the problem because of people wanting to be the big fish rather than blend and swim with the stream.
And, if you read all of my post you would see that it deals with what the problems were about. It just expanded into the areas of problems it causes and how it would be beneficial for us all to be happy to be able to come here and do what we came to do and not have to worry about feelings being hurt and insults. None of that are necessary to have in a trade. As long as the person is not a bad trader we should be able to find what we want, pay and get it. If there's a problem with it we should be able to feel we can tell the person hey this didn't come or was missing or whatever and have it dealt with without others making fun of spelling, weight, looks etc. Only thing necessary in a trade is money and item and the trust that you both get what you want! No emotionaL BS! It takes the fun out of why we come here.
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3-i am sure there will be comments for and against what i wrote. I have traded with many involved, and am friends with some of the click, clique click but this was written out of frustration of people not thinking about what they write and type before they hit the "post message" key.....take time to think before you agree/disagree/or simply stir the pot please....
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MY REPLY:
I am sure there will be too, on both behalfs because people are different and do have their opinions and that is healthy because we are not all the same. It is just unhealthy sometimes the way they use them to treat others so hope fully no one will be hurt out of this. I am personally fine. Always am because the only people who can hurt me are people who I care about and mean something to me in my inner circle and this is all business to me though. Though once in a while I feel for some one else who has gone through "attack" on here because it can be frustrating and hurtful to someone who is a little softer than I. I would never let someone else upset me or make me cry on here because it isn't worth it. It is actually amusing because the people on here are so predictable.. Just not too impressed with them stirring up the auction board. Its not the place to "talk". People are selling on there and may really need the money and not the disturbance. That is why I do think before I react and would never post to stir the pot. Only to defend myself or to help another. It seems that there are enough pot stirrers on here! Just hope maybe they would try to be a little nicer to others and let people do what they come here to do in peace without hurt or offense. 1|1|just found this commentary on my small post...and have 1 question.....|BusterBrown|srfreezerqueen@hotmail.com|19:20:58|01/11/2011|
your reply to my post........It's Wegogo. I was not speaking of you particularly but if you felt guilty about something between us that I do not remember that is on you. I do not have a trading opinion of you that I know of and I really don't have the time to go back and dig up old bones top see if you answered or didn't answer an email or post for something I wanted to buy or not. If you feel like it you can refresh my memory... Perhaps I wanted to buy something and you said it was sold or didn't answer I do not place you specifically but if the shoe fits you can let me know how if you want. I was thinking of someone else specifically and had given the benefit of the doubt until they kept posting things I was trying to buy on multiple boards.. I never gave you personally any thought. Sorry to have made you feel guilty! I truly meant no offense to you or anyone else specifically. It was just a note to hopefully get people to get along though I was right I would be next under attack. Which is also no biggy because none of us are the only ones that sell anything we have because unless we made it personally someone else out there and has it to get from too! Lots of selling and buying sources! Though being judged on my own merits and not from people you think are like someone you do not know personally seems a little odd to me because I guarantee you you know no one else just like me! And how well do you really know the ones you compare me to from work, really!
i apologize for getting your trading name wrong....was not quite awake......but how on earth could anyone consider my comment was made out of guilt? No one else saw in it that context....nor was it ever meant to be that way...when i said i had never traded with you, i sure thought that covered that one.
i will make one comment tho to your bumping things "cause of others immaturity" we (and i am referring to any contributing angel when i say we) have 1 auction going for the benefit of a very good trader on this board that has serious medical issues....feel free to check any past angel auction....they do frequently get bumped....just to say hey...look at me...not to say..do not look at someone elses....evidently that is something you missed...when you speak of the goodwill towards all, and not being angry...not sure why you bumped things with that line...
i hope you are happy that i replied to this on gc...would not want to offend you again... 2|2|Buster brown it is a great thing your doing the auction for the fellow trader!!!!|lydzkydz|wyldkydz@embarqmail.com|19:24:49|01/11/2011|
please include your user name on refundsweepers.
i appreciate all the trades made in the past.
THANKS!! 3|3|Lydz.....like i said....all contributing angels are doing this|BusterBrown|srfreezerqueen@hotmail.com|19:38:09|01/11/2011|
with out all of those that contribute and bid, that we could not do these things...just glad we can all do our share as we always do.... 4|4|i know she will be soo grateful !!!!|lydzkydz|wyldkydz@embarqmail.com|20:23:50|01/11/2011|
please include your user name on refundsweepers.
i appreciate all the trades made in the past.
THANKS!! 5|5|Wait...where the hell was I talked about and why??? I don't know this psycho at all....I have traded with ober 350 good feedback for nearly 6 years here and 107 referrals to the board. Please link me.|Barb09|Barb0969@AOL.com|22:53:24|01/11/2011|
I looked and looked and found no coupons for troll food......SO, I don't feed the trolls!! 6|6|Wow, I got told to "get out of here" for posting "up".....whatever. I am a good trader. I don't care about newbies spouting off about things they know nothing about. Spout away wegogo....don't forget to forgive me....and don't get mad!!!! ROFL|Barb09|Barb0969@AOL.com|23:00:18|01/11/2011|
I looked and looked and found no coupons for troll food......SO, I don't feed the trolls!! 9|7|You need to leave her alone. She is a good seller and does nothing to harm anyone and would never be more than nice to anyone! She is the most honest person I have seen on here yet! You got a problem you take it up with me!|wegogo|mike15461@gmail.com|04:00:01|01/12/2011|
And don't worry about forgiving or being mad. I don't care about you and you do not have the power to to make me mad or to forgive you (for what? did you do something wrong to me? You just hurt the others. I am not auctioning anything right now. You probably helped me win the item I was bidding on. Thanks!). And what you did to the others was babyfied! And if you weren't buying or selling she was and had every right to tell you to get out of there! And as far as a newbie goes yah I might be in less time here than others but I know enough form what I have seen here to say what I say. I tell it like it is and people know where I am coming from. I don't play post and run games to mess with or try to intimidate people like some of you do! there may be others who won't stand up to you for what you do to people but i WILL. i DON'T HAVE TO TAKE ANYONES CRAP and I am not going to. I know the worse that can happen and it doesn't bother me any! You guys won't phase me one bit! I just don't wish to see unjust things like these hurting anyone else trying to make it here. Don't think I haven't got people on my side, quiet though they may be. I just happen to be the mouth! 8|6|Who are you calling a psycho? Better not be smiles. She did nothing but tell you guys shame on you for what you did- for digging up old bones and yes you were the one that dug up old bones so don't deny it!|wegogo|mike15461@gmail.com|03:48:28|01/12/2011|
You are not innocent and now THIS PSYCHO IS REFERRING TO YOU! Bone digger upper! lol You restarted all the trouble on the auction board that was STAGNANT FOR ALL THOSE MONTHS! you searched my id for posts and upped it! Betty was right you are a trouble maker! I bumped all the auctions that it knocked down to the bottom so you didn't hurt their sales. If you had something to say HERE was the place or my personal email! How did you wind up in on any of this anyway? We have had no interaction that I know of! But after that I can guarantee we won't! That wasn't a nice thing to do to someone who never did anything to do and only inspires more of what my post on the original topic was. You all are letting everyone see what I was talking about by providing excellent examples! Don't ya'all playing these games have better things to do with your time. Like make money to pay bills or take care of family or do something positive somewhere somehow? All this yakking back at each other and stirring things up seems like a major waste of time. Such negative energy. Imagine how much could be accomplished in the positive with all this time and typing! That's what I do with my time normally when I don't have to defend myself here! 7|2|Reply to Busterbrown|wegogo|mike15461@gmail.com|03:38:35|01/12/2011|
>Posted on Jan-11-11 at 07:20 PM (Eastern)
>by 174.57.65.249your reply to my post........It's
>Wegogo. I was not speaking of
>you particularly but if you felt
>guilty about something between us that
>I do not remember that is
>on you. I do not have
>a trading opinion of you that
>I know of and I really
>don't have the time to go
>back and dig up old bones
>top see if you answered or
>didn't answer an email or post
>for something I wanted to buy
>or not. If you feel like
>it you can refresh my memory...
>Perhaps I wanted to buy something
>and you said it was sold
>or didn't answer I do not
>place you specifically but if the
>shoe fits you can let me
>know how if you want. I
>was thinking of someone else specifically
>and had given the benefit of
>the doubt until they kept posting
>things I was trying to buy
>on multiple boards.. I never gave
>you personally any thought. Sorry to
>have made you feel guilty! I
>truly meant no offense to you
>or anyone else specifically. It was
>just a note to hopefully get
>people to get along though I
>was right I would be next
>under attack. Which is also no
>biggy because none of us are
>the only ones that sell anything
>we have because unless we made
>it personally someone else out there
>and has it to get from
>too! Lots of selling and buying
>sources! Though being judged on my
>own merits and not from people
>you think are like someone you
>do not know personally seems a
>little odd to me because I
>guarantee you you know no one
>else just like me! And how
>well do you really know the
>ones you compare me to from
>work, really!
> i apologize for getting
>your trading name wrong....
MY REPLY: Not a big deal just thought in case someone had wanted to trade or did trade they would know it was me.
was not quite
>awake......but how on earth could anyone
>consider my comment was made out
>of guilt?
MY REPLY: Because you replied that you didn't feel it was worth trading with someone I reminded you of in short.
No one else
>saw in it that context....nor was
>it ever meant to be that
>way...when i said i had never
>traded with you, i sure thought
>that covered that one.
REPLY : Not a big deal.
> i will make
>one comment tho to your bumping
>things "cause of others immaturity"
my reply: I bumped the ones that the comment in the wrong place someone started up after 4 months of leaving things at a truce. I think it was a nice thing to do but had to explain why I was doing it so people didn't accuse me of trying to run the board. Others can do all sorts of things on here but anything I do gets scrutinized! Sorry to disappoint the lynch mob members I do not lurk in the doorways and hide as the rest of the people they try to intimidate. I plan on remaining an active member as I have done nothing wrong.
>we (and i am referring to
>any contributing angel when i say
>we) have 1 auction going for
>the benefit of a very good
>trader on this board that has
>serious medical issues....feel free to check
>any past angel auction....they do frequently
>get bumped....just to say hey...look at
>me...not to say..do not look at
>someone elses....
REPLY: I have no idea why you brought up the angel auction. I don't see what it had to do with anything but it is very nice of you to do. I had thought of finding out if it was all right to do one for some of the people on wishuponaherodotcom but I figured the ones that don't like me would stir up shtuff and say I was not doing what I was saying in spite the fact that I would have had proof of course. So I just do what I can to help people on there independently and hope some chip together for the bigger wishes. By the way if anyone wants to check that site out there are alot of people who are needing things we take for granted everyday that we all have excess of if you feel you can help. It can be anything from a card, coupons, shoes, clothes, gift cARDS, HEALTH AND BEAUTY AND OF COURSE MONEY BUT THOSE i CHOOSE SPARINGLY WHEN i CAN GIVE THE ITEM REQUESTED RATHER THAN MONEY TO BUY IT. Sorry, I can't look and type at the same time! Also if anyone knows of any other sites like that let me know because I have alot of excess and no sense of someone who really needs what I have sitting not getting the help. Thanks in advance for any of that.
evidently that is something you
>missed...when you speak of the goodwill
>towards all, and not being angry...not
>sure why you bumped things with
>that line...
>i hope you are happy that i
>replied to this on gc...would not
>want to offend you again.
MY REPLY: No worries. You guys don't offend me. More like amuse. I just hope noone else is offended or put out by it, that's all. No biggy I can handle it. Just don't have alot of time to mess with it as I work alot. Good luck with your charity auction. I think its an awesome thing to do. I thought about donating but I have the feeling that that would not go over well since I am so well loved here! lol