Just wanted you to know Kandy that I've been thinking about you and hope you're doing okay. Hugs, Rebekka
~*~REBEKKA~*~
a.k.a. "Queen Vulture"
Married to my Soul Mate William
"My husband has cancer, Please pray for him"
Mommy to:
Timothy 5/80
Matthew 10/92
Cheyenne 9/99
Grandmother to Alayna 3/10
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1|1|i had been thinking and praying for her also hope she is OK hope to hear from her soon |lydzkydz|wyldkydz@embarqmail.com|22:31:20|01/06/2011|
please include your user name on refundsweepers.
i appreciate all the trades made in the past.
THANKS!! 2|2|I was just thinking of Kandy yesterday, hope she's okay|Beaglesfly|lmllr77@aol.com|10:13:42|01/07/2011|
lauren 3|3|Me too! Kandy, a whole bunch of us care about you!|sunriver|sunriver@gmail.com|11:14:39|01/07/2011|
Hope you are doing okay. I know it must be so hard right now, but you are not alone! 4|4|I was thinking about Kandywolf too. ((hugs))|hudge4|hudge95@yahoo.com|11:16:17|01/07/2011|
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5|1|I'm alive, but not so good|kandywolf|kandywolf@gmail.com|17:08:20|01/07/2011|
TY all for you hugs and for caring.. hubby got his own apartment, but he comes almost everyday to see me. I am on an emotional rollercoaster.. tonight is our Date Night, which every Friday is.. but he wont say i love you to me, and just kisses me on the cheek or forehead.. I found out the problem is he likes another woman and thinks thats a mortal sin.. they havent done anything, so I told him I forgave him, but he wants me to hate him, and I just cant, I love him so so so much.. people are saying I am too dependent on him, but he is the love of my life and I dont want to lose that. The counselor is great so I am hoping he can help him over come his demons, he even tried to commit suicide 2 weeks ago in front of me, well he was locked in the bathroom, but here in my house, I had to call 911 because he takes coumadin and I was a nervous wreck... I still am as he talks about suicide often and is drinking every night, hes not a mean drunk, i just dont think he needs to drink every night.. I dont know, Im at my wits end, they have upped my meds as much as they can, and they arent helping I lay in bed most days and just cry.. Im sooooo depressed.. I havent been able to eat in 5 days now, as I throw up every time I do, I have lost 37 lbs since thanksgiving.. I cant sleep, I just lay there and think anout all the good times and how they may be gone forever.. sorry this is so long, just needed to vent a little... Thanks you all for caring
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6|2|Kandy, I am so very sorry for your pain.....my heart breaks for you :( I am very happy to read that you are seeing a counsellor for help....good for you! I hope someday soon he realizes the love and devotion you have for him....he has everything to live for with you in his life. I'll be praying for you and him, sweetie....and dont forget we're always here to lean on......|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|17:25:07|01/07/2011|
" You'll get what's coming to you ... Unless it was mailed."
7|2|((((Kandy))))) I am so sorry to hear that you're going through so much pain, you're such a wonderful caring person and it hurts to see my friend hurt. I will be praying for you and your husband, I hope he comes to realize just how much you mean to him and that he has every reason to live :) |RebekkaVA|queen_vulture@msn.com|17:30:18|01/07/2011|
~*~REBEKKA~*~
a.k.a. "Queen Vulture"
Married to my Soul Mate William
"My husband has cancer, Please pray for him"
Mommy to:
Timothy 5/80
Matthew 10/92
Cheyenne 9/99
Grandmother to Alayna 3/10
*EMAIL*: queen_vulture@msn.com
Feedback link: http://www.refundsweepers.com/dcforum/feedback/796.html
8|2|Kandy..|sunriver|sunriver@gmail.com|18:28:41|01/07/2011|
Oh I am so sorry! I know your heart is broken and you feel like the good times are all behind you, but I absolutely promise that there are still good things ahead for you! You know what else I think? That you are strong! Sending you a hug and I hope you'll stay in touch! 9|3|Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers...|couponshelmd|couponshel@comcast.net|20:28:07|01/08/2011|
wish there were words to say how sorry I am to read that things are not better :( Hang in there! 11|2|Kandy, keeping you in my prayers :)|Ranalt|ainebailey@gmail.com|22:43:38|01/08/2011|
Life is like a cup of tea,
It's all in how you make it.
Lisa
22|2|OMG!!!! LOL Thanks for the laugh!!!|suzhappy|suzhappy@yahoo.com|10:24:40|01/13/2011|
You just made my day!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Please leave me feedback if we have had a favorable trade and I will do the same for you!
http://www.refundsweepers.com/dcforum/feedback/28.html 10|1|been thinking of and praying for her too...|blessedx5|I_am_blessedx5@yahoo.com|22:08:08|01/08/2011|
! 12|2|so sorry|angNC|memawang@embarqmail.com|11:39:00|01/09/2011|
time does help things, hang in there, praying for you 13|1|update|kandywolf|kandywolf@gmail.com|17:34:24|01/12/2011|
there is another woman, they havent done anything, but they tell each other i love you.. shes married and has 4 freaking kids.. I knew my husband wanted kids but not this way... What have I done so wrong in my life to deserve this pain, all I did was lay in bed and cry all day.. the dr cant up my depression meds anymore, they are at their highest doses.. i give up, i swear if it wasnt for my family i would off myself just to not feel any more pain
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sign up at RS with a username!~
~If we have not traded before and you have no feedback or 5 or less feedback you will
need to send your end first. Sorry but this is my new rule. TY~
~I am now giving 36 hours from the time I email someone about a trade. I am losing too
many trades waiting 3 or 4 days, and then they decide no, or dont let me know at all.
Sorry, but I can't wait longer than 36 hours, I believe that is more than fair~
~ Shipping from Zipcode 18201 ~
~~Thank you everyone for all the wonderful trades~~
~~ You are the BEST!! ~~
14|2|Kandy....I am so, so sorry....we're here for you, please, please dont feel alone....and if you have thoughts of harming yourself, PLEASE call the national hotline for some help....we love you, girl, and want you here with us!|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|17:44:41|01/12/2011|
" You'll get what's coming to you ... Unless it was mailed."
15|3|Kandy, I echo Joy's words. Please if you need to Talk to someone you can call 1-800-273-TALK 1-800-273-8255. This number is part of the suicide prevention hotline. Sweetie, we love you and want you around.|Ranalt|ainebailey@gmail.com|18:36:36|01/12/2011|
Please take care of yourself.
Life is like a cup of tea,
It's all in how you make it.
Lisa
16|2|Sent you an email|melpaul|Melpaul199@aol.com|18:43:45|01/12/2011|
:) 17|2|I have been seeing this more and more lately. Please don't blame yourself. It really is nothing|jilda|vze4gj4m@verizon.net|19:06:29|01/12/2011|
that you did or didn't do. You love him I understand that. You are hurting and feel utterly depressed b/c you love him so much. You have to allow yourself to grieve. Although he hasn't died, he isn't who you thought he was. You really have to sit yourself down and figure out what you want. Do you really want to be with someone who so clearly doesn't respect you? You are better than that. You are WORTH more than that. He isn't worth it..no matter how much you love him..your self esteem and self worth isn't worth him.
You MUST seek suppport from your family. We, of course, are here for you but that isn't the same as a hand to hold, a hug, someone there to just listen to you. You need to get yourself up and figure out your financials. I knew it's a miserable thing to think about right now but you seriously need to figure these things out now before it's too late. Make sure you have PROOF that he's been with this other person. Even if he says he hasn't I wouldn't trust that. This way IF you do divorce you get alimony. You MUST protect yourself. Do NOT allow yourself to think about killing yourself. Think about it... you are going to take your own precious God given life for/over him??? Is he worth that? NO! Are you worth it? YES! It's a selfish selfish SELFISH thing he has done. There is no getting around that. I know you are hurt but you have to find a way to feel hurt but move on.
He simply isn't worth it..no matter how much you love him. If you find a way to work it out..great...but he will KNOW that this didn't kill you and in fact made you stronger.
It's bad enough when these things happen it's even worse when the woman is left with nothing but a truckload of hurt and the man is off with a tra la la attitude. Make sure your money affair are in order..Meaning...know where HIS money is. Know how much he has and where he keeps it. Know where your investments (if you have any) are.
I'm sooooo sorry this is happening to you. 24|3|This is the best advice3 you can get right now. I have been through this exact thing more than once because I gave a second chance. This will always haunt you even if you do work it out for a while. He will do it again. it is not your fault. It is his fault. He is getting validation of his manliness from her to reassure his own insecurities in his own mind. It hurts like hell but please do not hurt yourself. He is so not worth it and he will be free to have her and that won't hurt him none! YOU will get past this though it feels like you are dieing. It will pass and when you aren't expecting it you will find a man who treats you like a queen who will not cheat on you or hurt you. You will be so happy to get past this and when you do a huge weight will be lifted from your shoulders. I have been through it and then some. Trust me. You will make it through this.|wegogo|mike15461@gmail.com|13:42:38|01/13/2011|
If you ever need to talk just email me. Be strong, better things are ahead. 19|2|BIG HUGS, sweetie!!! |littlewolf|CCsuterlab@aol.com|19:28:18|01/12/2011|
Echoing what the rest of the ladies have told you about everything!! You are WORTH way more than what he is putting you through right now. PLEASE do not even allow the thoughts of suicide to enter your mind!! You have too much to offer this world for that. Remember that we are all just an email away if you need to talk about things. Lots of LOVE!!! From wolf lady to another, hold your head up high!! 21|2|I'm so sorry you're hurting Kandy. :( Praying you find the strength & support you need to help you thru this.|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|09:26:25|01/13/2011|
Fact of life: After Monday and Tuesday..even the CALENDAR says...
W..T..F..
Please identify yourself in 1st email w/name/username. Due to recent problem trades, if I haven't traded w/you before, I will probably require you send your end 1st or I'll need LEGIT trade references/feedback. I will be happy to provide the same. IF you plan to hold your end til you've received mine, I will need to know that IMMEDIATELY, BEFORE trade is finalized.
18|1|Men!! We can't live with them and can't live without them!!!|suzhappy|suzhappy@yahoo.com|19:17:36|01/12/2011|
I went through the exact same thing years ago Kandy but things turned out ok and we've now been married for 36 years! So I feel your pain but please don't give up. Love will conquer all!!!
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http://www.refundsweepers.com/dcforum/feedback/28.html 20|1|men---i live with out them just fine. when i need some handy man stuff done i hire it done and if i need "something else" i buy more batteries.|ppe1952|matwell3@rochester.rr.com|08:51:47|01/13/2011|
please note the change in email address. windows 7 does not have outlook. 23|1|OMG!!!! LOL Thanks for the laugh!!!"|suzhappy|suzhappy@yahoo.com|10:25:57|01/13/2011|
You just made my day!!!!!!!!!
Please leave me feedback if we have had a favorable trade and I will do the same for you!