the last few weeks have been very hard for me i dont feel like doing anything.... my dh doesnt understand when i complain about money or house he thinks im blaming him he gets mad if i try to talk to him about my problems he says they depress him..i dont know what to do i was on zoloft 100mg a day before i knew i was pregnant i dont want to take anti depressants im afraid they will affect the baby ...im so irritable and grouchy a real b*tch lately but i cant pull myself outt the slump i am confused and aggraveted and ready to give up if i could i sleep my life away to avoid the depression :(
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1|1|Hang in there Gwen|sdoty|sdoty17@hotmail.com|12:20:38|12/21/2010|
I'm sorry you don't feel like you can talk to your dh about your problems. It sucks that he isn't there for you. Have you spoken to your ob/gyn or prescribing doctor about your medication and let them know you aren't taking it? They may have suggestions, and/or be able to put you in touch with a local support group. If your dh can't listen to you vent without taking it personally, maybe you can find a group where you can share and get some of those things off of your chest. An expectant/new mothers group might also be a good resource ... not necessarily so much for the venting part, but to expand your local support network. It may not seem so important now, but it could be a big help once the baby is born, plus meeting new people and possibly forming a new friendship or two might help you feel better and more grounded.
Sending positive thoughts your way,
Susan
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2|1|There are meds that you can take when you are preggers. SOme you have to wait until you are in your second trimester. Hang in there. I know how it feels.|RobinsCrazyWorld|robinmarie72@gmail.com|12:50:42|12/21/2010|
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3|2|Gwen, I know it is hard|angNC|memawang@embarqmail.com|15:10:17|12/21/2010|
try to get out even in the cold, get some sun on your face and try to walk a block or two.
I have to do it. Being coop up after this surgery is getting to me. Try getting any sun on
your face really helps. Praying for you.