20 0|0|Why do people have to hold their end?|kandywolf|kandywolf@gmail.com|15:06:56|10/29/2010|
Last edited on Oct-29-10 at 03:21 PM (Eastern) by 24.115.91.144
Posted on Oct-29-10 at 03:06 PM (Eastern) by 24.115.91.144
I was told I can not tell someone they can not hold their end.. WTH I have awesome feedback.. I'm going to just quit trading because I am tired of the Hassel it has become. If I would not I have said I needed them for a sale, they never would have told me either.. I hate trading anymore....
ETA Maybe I missed a bullet on a bad trader as their feedback isnt that great
ETA Again, email me for username do not want to post it as to cause problems. Dont need any crap lol
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~I am now giving 36 hours from the time I email someone about a trade. I am losing too
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Sorry, but I can't wait longer than 36 hours, I believe that is more than fair~
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1|1|Leave appropriate feedback....and dont give up on trading, there are tons of great traders here who don't hold....I can give you some names and recommendations if you like :)|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|15:33:39|10/29/2010|
" You'll get what's coming to you ... Unless it was mailed."
2|2|Thanks Joy, I know there are many great traders and I should be thankful of all the great trades, just really needed those coupons, I was just a little PO'd lol I'm calmer now!|kandywolf|kandywolf@gmail.com|16:08:22|10/29/2010|
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~Please include RS username in emails. If you do not have a username, I WILL NOT trade
with you. Tired of lurkers taking advantage of people, if you really want to trade, you will
sign up at RS with a username!~
~If we have not traded before and you have no feedback or 5 or less feedback you will
need to send your end first. Sorry but this is my new rule. TY~
~I am now giving 36 hours from the time I email someone about a trade. I am losing too
many trades waiting 3 or 4 days, and then they decide no, or dont let me know at all.
Sorry, but I can't wait longer than 36 hours, I believe that is more than fair~
~ Shipping from Zipcode 18201 ~
~~Thank you everyone for all the wonderful trades~~
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3|1|And I left appropriate feedback so other traders know they hold their end|kandywolf|kandywolf@gmail.com|16:12:25|10/29/2010|
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TY!
~Please include RS username in emails. If you do not have a username, I WILL NOT trade
with you. Tired of lurkers taking advantage of people, if you really want to trade, you will
sign up at RS with a username!~
~If we have not traded before and you have no feedback or 5 or less feedback you will
need to send your end first. Sorry but this is my new rule. TY~
~I am now giving 36 hours from the time I email someone about a trade. I am losing too
many trades waiting 3 or 4 days, and then they decide no, or dont let me know at all.
Sorry, but I can't wait longer than 36 hours, I believe that is more than fair~
~ Shipping from Zipcode 18201 ~
~~Thank you everyone for all the wonderful trades~~
~~ You are the BEST!! ~~
4|2|It is helpful for others to know....if traders choose to hold, that is their perogative, but the other person has the right to know that's their practice up front.|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|16:37:21|10/29/2010|
" You'll get what's coming to you ... Unless it was mailed."
5|3|Geez, just went and read it.....seems the only good feedback she has recently is comments she left about herself....sheesh.|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|16:39:12|10/29/2010|
" You'll get what's coming to you ... Unless it was mailed."
6|4|Yeah i know and she is holding my end? maybe that should have been the other way around!|kandywolf|kandywolf@gmail.com|16:49:51|10/29/2010|
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TY!
~Please include RS username in emails. If you do not have a username, I WILL NOT trade
with you. Tired of lurkers taking advantage of people, if you really want to trade, you will
sign up at RS with a username!~
~If we have not traded before and you have no feedback or 5 or less feedback you will
need to send your end first. Sorry but this is my new rule. TY~
~I am now giving 36 hours from the time I email someone about a trade. I am losing too
many trades waiting 3 or 4 days, and then they decide no, or dont let me know at all.
Sorry, but I can't wait longer than 36 hours, I believe that is more than fair~
~ Shipping from Zipcode 18201 ~
~~Thank you everyone for all the wonderful trades~~
~~ You are the BEST!! ~~
7|5|Why is she leaving comments about herself on her feedback link?|marybeth|randall3@aol.com|17:13:40|10/29/2010|
:) 8|6|Who is it?|RobinsCrazyWorld|robinmarie72@gmail.com|17:57:11|10/29/2010|
(\__/)
(='.'=)
(")_(")
I would rather have a mind opened by wonder than one closed by belief.
14|4|LOLOL|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|19:47:38|10/29/2010|
Fact of life: After Monday and Tuesday..even the CALENDAR says...
W..T..F..
Please identify yourself in 1st email w/name/username. Due to recent problem trades, if I haven't traded w/you before, I will probably require you send your end 1st or I'll need LEGIT trade references/feedback. I will be happy to provide the same. IF you plan to hold your end til you've received mine, I will need to know that IMMEDIATELY, BEFORE trade is finalized.
9|1|Robin CYE|kandywolf|kandywolf@gmail.com|18:12:30|10/29/2010|
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TY!
~Please include RS username in emails. If you do not have a username, I WILL NOT trade
with you. Tired of lurkers taking advantage of people, if you really want to trade, you will
sign up at RS with a username!~
~If we have not traded before and you have no feedback or 5 or less feedback you will
need to send your end first. Sorry but this is my new rule. TY~
~I am now giving 36 hours from the time I email someone about a trade. I am losing too
many trades waiting 3 or 4 days, and then they decide no, or dont let me know at all.
Sorry, but I can't wait longer than 36 hours, I believe that is more than fair~
~ Shipping from Zipcode 18201 ~
~~Thank you everyone for all the wonderful trades~~
~~ You are the BEST!! ~~
10|2|Got it, thanks Kandy. |RobinsCrazyWorld|robinmarie72@gmail.com|18:19:47|10/29/2010|
(\__/)
(='.'=)
(")_(")
I would rather have a mind opened by wonder than one closed by belief.
11|1|YQW Robin :)|kandywolf|kandywolf@gmail.com|18:47:39|10/29/2010|
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-{-<@ Have we traded? @>-}- ~Please~ leave feedback at this link:
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TY!
~Please include RS username in emails. If you do not have a username, I WILL NOT trade
with you. Tired of lurkers taking advantage of people, if you really want to trade, you will
sign up at RS with a username!~
~If we have not traded before and you have no feedback or 5 or less feedback you will
need to send your end first. Sorry but this is my new rule. TY~
~I am now giving 36 hours from the time I email someone about a trade. I am losing too
many trades waiting 3 or 4 days, and then they decide no, or dont let me know at all.
Sorry, but I can't wait longer than 36 hours, I believe that is more than fair~
~ Shipping from Zipcode 18201 ~
~~Thank you everyone for all the wonderful trades~~
~~ You are the BEST!! ~~
12|1|Happened to me last month & it burned my arse! (m)|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|19:13:25|10/29/2010|
It wasn't the same person your referring to Kandy, but it ripped my rear nonetheless cuz I have over 150 positive feedbacks while she only has like 14! It was the whole dishonesty thing that bugged me more than anything, about holding & not mailing when she said she was going to, after I made it very clear to her that I preferred NO "holds" w/out being informed upfront about it (I'd heard from others she was a "holder"), & had asked her 2-3 times when she was mailing, to be sure. I sat here for 2 stinking wks. worrying & wondering where her trade was & when I finally rec'd it, it was pm'd just 3 days prior to my receiving it. :(
The kicker is that we'd traded a couple times before (according to my trade records, & she'd even left me feedback before which she evidently didn't remember), besides the fact that I informed her I'd been a long-time member of a couple other trading boards/groups in addition to being a long-time member of Garnette's TALS, so I have tons of good trade references.
According to my trade records, the last time I'd traded w/her before last month's trade was in 2007 & I believe it had been so long in between was because of her holding then too. Still, I was stupid enough to give her the benefit of the doubt this last time. No more!
And I made sure to leave appropriate feedback.
Fact of life: After Monday and Tuesday..even the CALENDAR says...
W..T..F..
Please identify yourself in 1st email w/name/username. Due to recent problem trades, if I haven't traded w/you before, I will probably require you send your end 1st or I'll need LEGIT trade references/feedback. I will be happy to provide the same. IF you plan to hold your end til you've received mine, I will need to know that IMMEDIATELY, BEFORE trade is finalized.
13|2|count me in..I was irked...|shellysmsmo|jpksms@sbcglobal.net|19:32:06|10/29/2010|
what gets me I wasn't even told they were holding my end till they got theres..I have excellent feedback everywhere...100% ebay..
AND if I would have known that they were holding my end first...less then a $5 trade..I would have moved on!!
Kandy..don't let anyone get to you that bad..your a great trader!! 15|1|who|Lorey12|Lorey12@yahoo.com|20:27:12|10/29/2010|
can you email me in private?
i have same problem with one trader in past
16|2|Now I am being told I am wrong, here are the emails, does it look like she was holding? I think so.|kandywolf|kandywolf@gmail.com|21:14:20|10/29/2010|
Posted on Oct-29-10 at 09:14 PM (Eastern) by 24.115.91.144
Read from bottom to top Edited to remove her email and my address out
thanks I will pass. you can't tell someone not to hold
Date: Fri, 29 Oct 2010 09:36:56 -0400
Subject: Re: 10 Hamburger Helper $1/2
From: kandywolf@gmail.com
To: @msn.com
Please send me your naz so I can send out the money, please dont hold your end as I need these for a sale, as you can see by my feedback on the board I am an excellent trader. My MNAZ is below. Thank you for the trade! Kandy
Kandy Haring
PA 18201
On Fri, Oct 29, 2010 at 7:36 AM, L I wrote:
please send 1.44 cash concealed..
for 10
Date: Thu, 28 Oct 2010 10:41:14 -0400
Subject: 10 Hamburger Helper $1/2
From: kandywolf@gmail.com
To: @msn.com
Would like all 10 Hamburger Helper $1/2, lmk if you have paypal or how you trade money wise. Thanks KandyWolf on RS
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~Please include RS username in emails. If you do not have a username, I WILL NOT trade
with you. Tired of lurkers taking advantage of people, if you really want to trade, you will
sign up at RS with a username!~
~If we have not traded before and you have no feedback or 5 or less feedback you will
need to send your end first. Sorry but this is my new rule. TY~
~I am now giving 36 hours from the time I email someone about a trade. I am losing too
many trades waiting 3 or 4 days, and then they decide no, or dont let me know at all.
Sorry, but I can't wait longer than 36 hours, I believe that is more than fair~
~ Shipping from Zipcode 18201 ~
~~Thank you everyone for all the wonderful trades~~
~~ You are the BEST!! ~~
17|3|Sounds like she intended to hold the trade...otherwise, she would have assured she wouldnt hold and would mail right away.....|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|00:17:38|10/30/2010|
" You'll get what's coming to you ... Unless it was mailed."
19|3|It appears she certainly planned to hold, & didn't intend to be upfront w/you about it either. :(|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|09:20:52|10/30/2010|
Fact of life: After Monday and Tuesday..even the CALENDAR says...
W..T..F..
Please identify yourself in 1st email w/name/username. Due to recent problem trades, if I haven't traded w/you before, I will probably require you send your end 1st or I'll need LEGIT trade references/feedback. I will be happy to provide the same. IF you plan to hold your end til you've received mine, I will need to know that IMMEDIATELY, BEFORE trade is finalized.
18|1|You did not "TELL" someone not to hold..... you ASKED them not to hold and there is a difference!|pussecat|pu55ecat@aol.com|09:08:01|10/30/2010|
I'd be putting this particular trader on my "do not trade with" list. JMHO
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20|2|I already put her on my list Jackie! I even said please, she said I was rude and thats why she didnt trade with me. Bologna!|kandywolf|kandywolf@gmail.com|09:42:19|10/30/2010|
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-{-<@ Have we traded? @>-}- ~Please~ leave feedback at this link:
http://www.refundsweepers.com/dcforum/feedback/78.html
TY!
~Please include RS username in emails. If you do not have a username, I WILL NOT trade
with you. Tired of lurkers taking advantage of people, if you really want to trade, you will
sign up at RS with a username!~
~If we have not traded before and you have no feedback or 5 or less feedback you will
need to send your end first. Sorry but this is my new rule. TY~
~I am now giving 36 hours from the time I email someone about a trade. I am losing too
many trades waiting 3 or 4 days, and then they decide no, or dont let me know at all.
Sorry, but I can't wait longer than 36 hours, I believe that is more than fair~
~ Shipping from Zipcode 18201 ~
~~Thank you everyone for all the wonderful trades~~
~~ You are the BEST!! ~~