Ok, so outside of my family, I have 2 other people that are issues for me....
The annoying thing is that because I can't stand drama I keep very few people around and even fewer people close. These are 2 people I can not just block out...
#1 My neighbor. We bought our condos a few weeks apart last year. All 4 condos share a common hall. She and I live downstairs and our doors are across from each other...
She has turned into a want to be mother of mine. She over worries and stresses out about me. At first it was kinda sweet, but now I have had it... Latest example...
Last Christmas she watched our cats while we went to Iowa. We gave her my cell, J's cell and J's parents number since we were staying with them and AT&T doesn't cover the area very well.
Well Monday J worked swing. He also had an early doctors appointment. She notices him leaving around 7 (usually he works at 6:30) and this starts to worry here.... Crazy. Then later she notices his car is here. Well what does she assume? Well some how in her mind this means I am sick and in the hospital losing my baby. She told me this is what she thought... Now if I was in the hospital wouldn't J be with ME? Well a bit later I guess the worrying got to be to much and she called J's cell. He didn't answer since he took a nap when he got back. Soon after he got back I walked to the store. I was gone maybe a ½ hour. Well apparently in the ½ hour she knocked on our door. No answer... J was asleep. Well I get back and sneak in through my back yard. Yes, I said sneak. If I go in the main door I feel like I am being stalked. I never know when she is waiting for me and then it takes a bit of time to break away from her. If J is home I leave the back door unlocked and come in that way.... Well maybe an hour after I got back I went to check the mail. I snuck back in. She must have saw me at the mailbox because she came over. She was all upset. She asked if I was ok and then told me she CALLED JEROMYS PARENTS to see if I was ok! OMG! We have not been telling them about all our trips to the hospital and the extra testing and office visits because his mom will worry herself to death. If something big was to happen we would tell them, but until then the less they know the easier for everyone. SHE TOLD THEM EVERYTHING! Now his mom is all upset and worried about everything. She is worried I am going to die! She NEVER bothered to call MY cell phone. I ALWAYS have mine on me. One call and life would be easier. I don't know how to tell her to back off without exploding at this point. She is also jealous of me or something. When people are around she will make snide remarks. Example: when J's dad first visited we invited her over for a BBQ... She would make comments about me in a fake joking manner... But they were not jokes and not funny or nice. I hate that I have to live 3 feet away from here. And it is not like we are renting, we can't move when our lease is up.... Ughhh!!
#2 Jeromys cousins wife. They are the only family members either of us have for at least 600 miles.
She is so narrow minded. They have a son that turned 2 years last week. If you don't do everything the way she did, you are doing it wrong. She is giving us crap about using the furniture we have for the baby because it is oak and she doesn't like it. Whenever I say something about crib shopping it turns into a whole mess about what color crib we should get (she thinks black) because she doesn't like the natural oak color... She rolled her eyes and groaned when I said I was doing the room in sports themed with monkeys. They are just a few stuffed monkeys, not like we have everything monkey. One is from Build A Bear and is dressed like a football player. He is very cute and fits in with the bedding. She even has to comment about how I am carrying Timothy. I seem to have a long torso and am not sticking out with e big bump like she did....Everything comes with a comment. And nothing is ever good enough. Now she is throwing me a baby shower. She lives a good 40 minutes across town. All my friends live this way and know where I live. It would be easiest to have it here, BUT she doesn't know how she would ever decorate... Huh? What do you really need to do?And she said the food would be an issue... OMG. J's mom knows how she is and is thinking of flying out for the shower to act as a buffer... I am so ready to just say forget the whole thing and NOT have a shower at all.
Why can't we pick our neighbors and family?!?!?!
1|1|WE can only wish to pick our neighbors and family, my neighbor is a drug dealer, I stopped calling the cops about suspicious activity, since they do nothing about it, it sucks when you have crappy neighbors. SVS hun|kandywolf|kandywolf@gmail.com|18:59:24|08/20/2010|
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2|1|Tell that cousin that next time she has a baby she can get exactly what she wants lol till then you'll be picking out what you like for your baby lol and |teener|teenerzacsneenee@yahoo.com|19:14:03|08/20/2010|
there is nothing wrong with Monkeys Zachs room is done in monkeys and he isn't being raised any different lol lol he eats other fruit then bananas and doesn't swing from trees lol lol