I made the hardest phone call I have ever made and started the process of her goinginto a nursing home I never ever wanted to make that call 1|1|T, I know how hard this is for you...I'm here if you need to talk or just a hug.....I hope they find out what's been going on with her and get her well again before they send her off to the facility.....you should send her to me, then Lance and I could take care of her, and you'd have to come visit us :)|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|14:29:00|07/16/2010|
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2|2|Oh J I so wish I could then I would have no fear that she would be taken care of |teener|teenerzacsneenee@yahoo.com|14:36:07|07/16/2010|
you have been there for me alot and I love you for that thanks you so much I am a wreck but when I talked to her she seems so calm which really scares the crap out of me 3|1|Im so sorry T I know how hard that decision is to make when we made it for my grandfather ~Hugs~|kandywolf|kandywolf@gmail.com|14:38:57|07/16/2010|
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4|1|Sending big hugs, Tina, I'm so sorry. Love you|Mackiesmudder|Mackiesmudder@aol.com|15:38:33|07/16/2010|
Cathie 5|1|Oh T... I am so sorry!|sunriver|sunriver@gmail.com|17:26:30|07/16/2010|
I can imagine how much stress you have been under lately. Please remember that you have always (and will continue to be) there for your mom. You are a great daughter! I know you are probably feeling otherwise lately with this process starting, but you are!
I haven't been around RS much lately, but you've been in my thoughts and prayers as always. V 6|1|So sorry Tina, sending HUGS and lots of prayers for you all!!!!|padrifter|bride@nb.net|18:10:48|07/16/2010|
I know what a rough decision this is for you, and what all you and your family have been through for many months, will be keeping you in my prayers, just wish there was something I could do to make this easier for you, Nancy
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7|1|Oh Tina, I am sorry for the decision you had to make. Sometimes making the right decision is the hardest. I will keep you and your mom in my prayers. |Ranalt|ainebailey@gmail.com|18:44:57|07/16/2010|
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8|1|i realize that is may sound mean but once your mother has been placed some place where she gets the care|ppe1952|MATWELL3@ROCHESTER.RR.COM|19:32:11|07/16/2010|
she needs you will be suprised how much more peaceful your life will be. it may take a few days to her to settle in and that may cause you some grief but when it is all said and done it will bring peace and allow you time to heal.
been there----- done that..my mom is 92 and now in a nursing home.
Remember your manners: when god answers your prayers----- say thank you. 9|1|I'm sorry Tina. :( It's a tough decision that most of us don't ever want to make, but maybe you'll find it was the best one, for you & your mom. :)|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|09:37:10|07/17/2010|
When the time came for my dad to enter the nursing home here, he & I both cried. I felt like such a failure no longer being able to give him the care he needed & he was devastated at no longer being able to stay in his own home. And due to all the horror stories we'd heard over the years about some nursing homes, we were scared to death he'd be neglected, doped up, abused, etc. there. My mom & I visited him 2, sometimes 3 times a day/night, always varying the times we'd go so it was never the same time of day/night. We quickly realized we had nothing to fear & found out there ARE actually some very good nursing homes. My dad had excellent care 24/7 w/good food, good nurses, CNA's & plenty of activities he could participate in. And my mom & I had peace of mind knowing he had all that, w/the nurses & CNA's being on top of his health condition so they were able to catch something that might not have seemed quite right & nip it in the bud before it progressed. My dad still missed being at home but actually liked the nursing home so that was the main thing. I brought him home for the day many times &/or I'd take him to garage sales, Walmart, out for a drive, etc. & he was always ready to go back to the nursing home at the end of the day, sometimes heading out the door before I even got out of my chair! LOL
The thing I came to realize is it's quite possible we may not have had my dad w/us as long as we did if he hadn't gone to the nursing home. I didn't have the medical knowledge/skills that he came to require but I was still able to spend as much time w/him as I wanted, day or night, bring him home for the day, take him out shopping, for drives, etc. The only thing that really changed was that he slept there at night & was able to receive the skilled medical care he needed 24 hrs. a day.
I wish the best for you & your mom & will pray that if your mom needs to enter a nursing home, it will be just as good as the one my dad had. :)
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10|1|Sorry TIna. Sometimes it just needs to be done.|RobinsCrazyWorld|robinmarie72@gmail.com|19:57:07|07/17/2010|
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seahawk 12|1|I know it's a very hard decision to make, but sometimes it's for the best for both...I will be praying for all of you ((((HUGS))))~*~|RebekkaVA|queen_vulture@msn.com|22:15:32|07/17/2010|
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