Hi, I've been trading on RS for YEARS and rarely come across someone who is rude but this past week or so, THREE traders on here were either rude or so totally not nice, it's very hurtful and offensive to me.. Perhaps I am getting more "delicate" in my old age but I honestly don't think i imagined it. I'm not going to say names, not even in email but i'm just wondering WHY we have to be rude? Is it the heat or is it the way the world is turning these days? I just don't think there's any reason for it at all. I mean, we are here because we need help with our refunding. We all have this in common. Whoever you are, PLEASE lighten up a little cuz it really ruins my day.
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1|1|I know what you mean! Id like to think its the heat but|Mumzie|luckiestbamboo2@aol.com|10:14:22|07/01/2010|
sometimes I just dont know. :o/
Well anyways I hope you are enjoying your summer! :) 2|1|I know I am being much less friendly these days|dragonmom|sueedelmann@yahoo.com|10:42:52|07/01/2010|
But that is because I am exhausted from 9 chemo treatments, and I am trying to keep up with my trading, so I noticed I am answering emails much briefer, often not even using full sentences. Not being rude exactly, just not my usual self.
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3|2|Sue glad to see you post!!!|Kristy|mi3zons1@yahoo.com|11:18:57|07/01/2010|
"Women should not have children after 35. Thirty-five children are enough." - anonymous (Only 28 to GO!) 4|1|Hi Destiny|missy|lovetotrade@hotmail.com|12:43:19|07/01/2010|
Recently I have been posting comments about some really upsetting posts that are a real downer. If my responses are upsetting you, I am sorry, but I see NO need for all the current BAD NEWS to be posted here!
Also, I have been actively trying to put up fun and good topics for comment. So, I hope some are enjoying those.
Kathryn 5|2|Hi Kath|destiny|destinyroger@yahoo.com|13:15:01|07/01/2010|
I do not recognize your user name... what I am referring to are traders who i've had contact with via emails lately.. this is a public forum and I felt the need to say what was on my mind and bothering me. If I am generating bad news, well, I don't know what else to say. I'm kind of like, bummed right now and this is all I can say in reply to your reply above but you and I have not traded before I don't think.. I'm just saying.. or asking here, WHY does there need to be rudeness? That's all.
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6|1|I am not trying to be short but just down , its a bad time for me|ladywcats|neal2856@sbcglobal.net|15:05:20|07/01/2010|
My husband died in July and was buried on my birthday July 24th. He will be gone 1 year the 24. I Know I should be thankful that he is not in pain and suffering, but I miss him.
I am happy he was a veteran and veterans services paid my gas bill, electric bill, water bill, & car Insurance bill for this month, I only had to pay credit cards payments and mortgage this month.
I hope everyone has a safe and happy hoilday
Gloria
14|2|Gloria (ladywcats)|sunriver|sunriver@gmail.com|14:37:53|07/02/2010|
Just wanted to express that I am sorry for you today. Anniversaries of the death of someone close to us can be so hard. It just dredges it all up again, doesn't it? Keeping you in my good thoughts. 7|1|Liz, I'm sorry you had some bad experiences lately.....you are one of the nicest, easiest-going people I've met here....let it be water under the bridge, and you can always choose who you trade with, no need to tolerate rudeness.|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|15:14:46|07/01/2010|
" You'll get what's coming to you ... Unless it was mailed."
8|2| "Liz, I'm sorry you had some bad experiences lately"|Newman|themole61@gmail.com|15:34:46|07/01/2010|
Hey, I will trade with you anytime. I am not Rude, easy to get along with (most of the time, except for Bad Traders I have ZERO Tolerance). Ask Saint6811 and Ranalt about me.
Thanks for your time and have a Great Day! 9|3|Howard is great :) Very glad he decided to join our little trade board here!|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|17:54:53|07/01/2010|
" You'll get what's coming to you ... Unless it was mailed."
10|4|RE: Howard is Great|Newman|themole61@gmail.com|18:20:06|07/01/2010|
Thank You So Very Much Saint6811 for the Really Nice Comment.
I try to be as nice as possible with people, at times it does not work, no matter how hard I try to please them. I enjoy coming to RS as much as I am able to. If any registered member that has a question about issues with their computer, especially spyware, bugs, etc. Please send me an email and I will do my best in helping you. You can ask Saint6811 about the Free Software Programs I had given to her for her computer. At one time I rebuilt old computers, installed new RAM (Memory), etc and then donate them to Senior Citizens who were in need of a computer, but health issues made me quit doing that, but I am still able to use my keyboard and answer questions as much as possible.
Thanks for your time and have a Great/Safe 4th of July! 12|4|I agree joy. Howard is a great and thoughtful trader :)|Ranalt|ainebailey@gmail.com|20:02:08|07/01/2010|
Life is like a cup of tea,
It's all in how you make it.
Lisa
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11|1|Liz, I would trade with you any day :)|Ranalt|ainebailey@gmail.com|20:01:30|07/01/2010|
Life is like a cup of tea,
It's all in how you make it.
Lisa
Check out my DD work:)
http://www.etsy.com/shop/LoveMankind
13|1|I know|destiny|destinyroger@yahoo.com|09:38:10|07/02/2010|
Thank you for your nice responses:) of course there are SO many more nice and friendly traders here then the very few that aren't... it's those who aren't that get to me once in a while. I love this refunding, have been doing it since 1980 and not even a rude trader will take that away from me. THANKS for your positive remarks... reading them really has made this day start off on the right foot!:)
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15|2|ME TOO, I LOVE LIZ|JOYHAPPYONE|DAIDOLA5@AOL.COM|19:20:20|07/02/2010|
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"Dear God, this year please send clothes for all those poor ladies in Daddy's computer,
Amen."
16|1|I hope I am never on any list here your all my family.......|melpaul|Melpaul199@aol.com|21:20:15|07/02/2010|
First You all have been so very very kind to me in the lat yr when my husband was sick(mel) cancer Me myself would nver think
of saying anything rude to any of you
I think of all of you and I always want to help each one and everyone if I can. Anniverisary of death came be very hard my thoughts and prayers sre with you
As for Howard just met him the other day and already he is helping me with my one computer and he doesnt even know me
all I can say about him is He's a keeper and thank you
We are all put on this earth to help one another not to hurt This is just my two cents 17|1|There's a refundsweepers group on Facebook|destiny|destinyroger@yahoo.com|09:49:19|07/03/2010|
I just found it the other day and joined! Anybody here on Facebook?, it would be great for you to join! I also want to say, if you ask me to be a friend on Facebook and I don't reply to it,its because I don't put anybody on my friends list that I don't recognize. It helps keep the predators and hackers out if you know what I mean so if anybody reading this wishes to be a "friend" on FB and we've not traded much, I might not recognize you unless you mention to me that you are a trader here, ok?
Get to know me better. Please visit me at
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