Most of you know that my daughter & her 2 boys ages 5 & 2 this month, has lived with me for 4 years. Well she met this guy, has known him for 6 weeks today & today she took her boys & moved in with him. I begged her to slow down & get to know him better but she left mad telling me that I needed to get my own life & stay out of hers. So guess it's going to be a really sad Christmas here for me. Tempted to just take my tree & decorations down & forget it. Have cried so much today my eyes are sore.
Donna
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1|1|ss donna sometimes children act like just that, a child, hope all goes well and hope your xmas gets better|kandywolf|kandywolf@gmail.com|18:46:33|12/10/2009|
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2|1|I am so sorry Donna and I know how much you loved having those boys living with you. It's hard to let our children (grandchildren too) go and make their own life, but they have to learn by their mistakes. I really hope things work out for her and her boys (((HUGS)))~*~|RebekkaVA|queen_vulture@msn.com|18:48:13|12/10/2009|
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3|1|Donna, I'm sorry.....come here and let me give you a hug, I think you need one....no matter how old they get, our kids will make mistakes or rash decisions...all we can do is love them anyway. Don't take down your decorations, you deserve to enjoy them as much as anyone else!|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|18:48:42|12/10/2009|
A government big enough to give you everything you want, is strong enough to take everything you have.
--Thomas Jefferson--
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You cannot help people permanently by doing for them, what they could and should do for themselves.
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4|2|Keeping you in my thoughts...|couponshelmd|couponshel@comcast.net|18:52:03|12/10/2009|
Sorry that your daughter moved out under those terms... she may be back before Christmas, you never know; so keep that tree up for those grandkids and yourself!
Hopefully you will still get to see them for visits and maybe weekend overnight trips! That would be great for everyone!! Happy Holidays to you, you will be in my thoughts 5|1|she will not have any peace about making you feel this way....she will come around...so sorry...|blessedx5|I_am_blessedx5@yahoo.com|18:54:11|12/10/2009|
;0( 6|1|I'm so sorry Donna. :( I think I understand how you feel & am sending you a big ((HUG)).....|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|19:00:05|12/10/2009|
My son up & moved out 2 days before Thanksgiving. I think it was something we BOTH needed but it still hurts w/the way he went about it, & of course, right before the Holidays. I've heard from him a few times, via email, but it's just to tell me what more things he wants that he feels he "has a right to". :( I'd put up my outside Christmas lights weeks ago & have done most of my Christmas cards but I just don't feel like putting up a tree or anything else.....
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7|1|awww donna i'm sorry......this will pass|shellysmsmo|jpksms@sbcglobal.net|19:08:43|12/10/2009|
just don't let it get you completely down. This will all pass. She's making a point...
i hope she doesn't get hurt.. but just let her do her thing...and remember you did all that
you could. i know it's hard. if only they knew what we know. BUT don't let it ruin your
holidays...hang in there!!
8|1|Give her some time,she'll come around|petunia1|sweetpea39@comcast.net|20:35:14|12/10/2009|
Somtimes our kids dont do things the way we want them to but we have to stand back and let them go (even when it hurts). I am sure she will soften and miss you , so will the Grand kids. Keep the decorations up, I remember your post and how happy you were that everything was up and decorated. Big Hugs to you ! 9|1|((((Donna))))|sunriver|lithiasalt@cheerful.com|20:52:31|12/10/2009|
I'm just sorry! Hang in there. V
10|2|sorry Donna|angNC|memawang@embarqmail.com|22:42:23|12/10/2009|
They think they know everything. Praying for you. 11|1|donna i am so sorry to hear this|WillaD|wila111@bellsouth.net|14:31:48|12/12/2009|
praying your daughter has a change of heart and
returns home
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Willa 12|1|Donna, I have some advice for you from a know-it-all if you like, lol|glennie58|glenn_scott@alumni.ksg.harvard.edu|14:41:35|12/12/2009|
please dry your tears and pray
and really believe in those prayers
you know the saying act in haste, repent in leisure?
keep communication open, she will regret this and can come home if the lines are open and she doesn't feel too stupid (that part is on her)
Or you could offer to take the boys back and let her learn to live with her bad decisions (1 baby already while living with you, what if she pops up pregnant again? Where are the fathers? You are paying a high price here because you love the kids so much and her too but is the price ultimately too high? How much are you suffering? If it came down to it could you get custody?)
I hope you feel better and she lets you bring a few little things over for the boys! Sorry you are going thru this!