joined a refunding christmas card exchange .. have done this every year for the last 3 years or so... this year..got the list.. 12 people on it.. one is an ULTIMATE BAD SWAPPER i mean more than 3 chances and still going bad...
i told the moderator that no one will receives from her probably .. and i don't feel comfortable sending to her (its a christmas card and potluck of goodies in side)
she said i have to send to all on the list and "afterall its christmas"
i don't know what i should do? send to her anyway? don't send to her?
this is what i was thinking.. wait till i get the card, then send??? not sure..
i understand about its christmas and all but i also feel that the many people she ripped off were sitting there waiting for their "end" or "christmas stuff" so to speak and are STILL waiting..
opnions would be appreacited
thank you
Jacqui
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~Happy Trading~ :) 1|1|If it's just a card, send it...at least then she can't turn the tables on you...|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|14:39:40|12/09/2009|
Posted on Dec-09-09 at 02:39 PM (Eastern) by 98.213.175.237
and say youre the one who didnt send....
Joy :)
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2|1|you should do what you feel is right in your heart ~|petunia1|sweetpea39@comcast.net|15:44:29|12/09/2009|
is it going to really irritate you to send hers now ? if so, then I would not do it. Christmas is about giving and caring about others, I really believe (for me personally) if you do not feel it in your heart than you should not do it. Kind of takes away from the whole idea.
If you get hers then you can still send one to her.
but be careful, because as Joy said, she may turn the tables and say she didnt get yours, then you are the bad person
Hmmmmm...Yep..do what you feel is right in your heart and send her card to one of the people she stiffed on a trade
after all...It is Christmas 3|1|wait till you get your end is what i would do my 2 cents |lydzkydz|lydzmcss@yahoo.com|17:02:00|12/09/2009|
maybe she will at least do the card exchange
and why would the moderator let the bad trader join in the exchange anyways ???
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THANKS!!