The drama has started up full time with my daughters biological father and im gonna stick my foot up his rear end!!!!! 15 years he has nothing to do with her he sees her 2 times and now he thinks that he is super dad!!!! Oh he says he has right ya he has rights but he is going to play it my way or its going to go the hard way i dont think that im asking for much i just want to be there when she meets his family they are absolute strangers i think i have every right to be there!!!! OMG im seeing red right now that piece of crap telling me that he has rights well if he keeps it up he can take me to court for his rights as he calls it because i dont see any judge telling me that i just have to hand my daughter over to him every other weekend when he has not had anything to do with her in 15 years!!!! I am more than willing to work with him on all of this but he has to do the same for me!!!!!!!!! UGH dont mind me i just gotta vent
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1|1|vent away girlie|petunia1|sweetpea39@comcast.net|22:08:31|11/10/2009|
you are doing the right hting for your child. stay firm!!
2|2|I just want to thump that man right ontop of his head!!!!!!!!!!|rainj|jmrains@centurytel.net|22:37:03|11/10/2009|
He thinks 2 visits after 15 years gives him all the rights in the world!!! And that he has become super dad!!!! UGH!!!!! I have half a mind to tell him to take me to court if he thinks he has so many rights but im not going to do that because my daughter wants to see him. But he is going to play it by my rules there are no ifs ands or buts about it
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3|3|I'm gonna get you Whack A Mole for Christmas|petunia1|sweetpea39@comcast.net|22:51:38|11/10/2009|
so you can do all the head thumping you want..LOL
Hang in there! 5|4|ROFL!!! Gonna whack that mole Jen. LOLOL|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|22:53:47|11/10/2009|
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4|1|stick to your guns GF !!!!|lydzkydz|lydzmcss@yahoo.com|22:52:52|11/10/2009|
i would be afraid to let her be alone with him period
and i can't blame you for not wanting to not be there with her
you are here mom and always will be
and plzzzzzz don't back down on the child support either
hang in there
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THANKS!! 6|1|Ugh is right! I'm just sorry!|sunriver|lithiasalt@cheerful.com|22:58:30|11/10/2009|
Hang in there!!! 7|1|He is so stupid............|rainj|jmrains@centurytel.net|23:09:37|11/10/2009|
He just sent me a text saying that he has paid me alot of money over the past years to take care of his daughter LMAO that is why he is so far behind in his support!!!!! I think he has fallen off his rocker!!!!!
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8|2|You do know that at age 14 she can make her own choice|mo6g02|crazylady47952@yahoo.com|06:25:52|11/11/2009|
The law says at the age of 14 they are old enough to make their own choices as to if they want to go visit or even live with them. Ask her what she wants, maybe she doesn't even want to meet them & if she does ask her if she wants to meet them by herself or if she wants you to come with her. Then if she wants you to come, & trust me I do understand how you feel, been there, then let her tell him & have her tell him that it's her way or no way. Then you are out of it & he can just get over it. Heard the child support story many of times myself, that's why my kids were finally adopted because he paid me so much, yeah right. I gave him a choice, pay me all you own, it was in the thousands, go to jail or sign the adoption papers, he signed. But he loved them so much, that's what he told them later, that I made him sign the papers & his heart was broke.
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9|3|Is the every other weekend thing court ordered?|teener|teenerzacsneenee@yahoo.com|06:50:24|11/11/2009|
>Posted on Nov-11-09 at 06:25 AM (Eastern)
>by 99.130.196.232The law says at the
>age of 14 they are old
>enough to make their own choices
>as to if they want to
>go visit or even live with
>them. Ask her what she wants,
>maybe she doesn't even want to
>meet them & if she does
>ask her if she wants to
>meet them by herself or if
>she wants you to come with
>her. Then if she wants you
>to come, & trust me I
>do understand how you feel, been
>there, then let her tell him
>& have her tell him that
>it's her way or no way.
>Then you are out of it
>& he can just get over
>it. Heard the child support story
>many of times myself, that's why
>my kids were finally adopted because
>he paid me so much, yeah
>right. I gave him a choice,
>pay me all you own, it
>was in the thousands, go to
>jail or sign the adoption papers,
>he signed. But he loved them
>so much, that's what he told
>them later, that I made him
>sign the papers & his heart
>was broke.
>
>
>
>
>Donna http://www.freewebs.com/mo6g02/
10|4|if i was you ...id keep every email and ever text......because its used in court lots of time...|couponsnsamples|cpsnsamples@aol.com|06:58:08|11/11/2009|
if he has an intention on taking you to court..u can bet he is saving them. 11|1|There is no court ordered visitation at all......|rainj|jmrains@centurytel.net|09:24:48|11/11/2009|
He has had nothing to do with her in 15 years he just met her for the first time well technically not the first time he met her when she was born and decided she wasnt his but he met her again for the first time 2 weeks ago so there is no type of court ordered visitation. Im letting him see her because it is what my daughter wants. As far as keeping the texts you can bet that i am!!!
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12|2|Jen what ever happened about the child support?|shellysmsmo|jpksms@sbcglobal.net|09:30:41|11/11/2009|
does he have to pay? has he started? I thought that was the deal? how does your daughter feel about the situation?
How did the first 2 meetings go? In a public place? man, that would be so hard to go thru. I think I would have followed them..
LOL i know he's the dad... but he's more or less a stranger???? I just hope your daughter is ok with it all.
13|3|Shelly..........|rainj|jmrains@centurytel.net|09:45:56|11/11/2009|
He is paying childsupport now and as far as the first two meetings i was there!!!! There was no way i was letting her go alone and dont plan on doing so until i am comfortable with it i dont care what he has to say. There is no visitation order so if he wants to see her he has to play it by my rules for now. Believe it or not but my DD seems to be doing ok with all of this or so she tells me i know that this is not easy on her heck its not easy on me but i know it has got to have her going in 20 million diffrent directions at once too. But for the time being she wants to see him so i am letting her do so but until i am comfortable with it i will be there.
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14|4|well good...I knew you wouldn't let her go alone yet.. your a good mom|shellysmsmo|jpksms@sbcglobal.net|10:10:02|11/11/2009|
I'm sure she appreciates your support. I just hope after all this time..he steps up to the plate
without thinking that he's now in charge!! I hope it all works out. Did you ever find out why
now after all this time he decides he wants to be in the picture???
15|1|Did you see on Oprah a few weeks ago?|20yrrefunder|tradernikki@yahoo.com|12:36:01|11/11/2009|
There was a lady on there who had not seen her dad since she was little and he came back into her life when she was a teenager (I think) - anyway, he was a preacher somewhere. So, she met him and when they said goodbye at an airport he kissed her on the MOUTH WITH HIS TONGUE!!! And then, they wound up having a sexual relationship. She was a willing partner because he had sort of brain washed her into thinking it was OK because he loved her so much and had missed her so much!
So, be very careful IMHO
Nikki in MO