57 0|0|hubby lost his job yesturday|crenchen|crenchen@aol.com|07:45:56|09/22/2009|
Posted on Sep-22-09 at 07:45 AM (Eastern) by 64.12.116.68

my husband lost his job yesturday and I am just beside myself. Our bills for the month are around $2,300 and that doesn't include food. I work partime and make around $300 to $400 a month and my father lives with us and has been paying our house payment which is over a thousand a month for us for the past year as my husband wasn't making enough to cover it and the rest of our bills. Does anyone know how long it takes for unemployement to kick in and since my father lives with us, has a little money in the bank would be qualify for food stamps? I have never applied before because I figured since he had money in the bank that we would not qualify but I will be going there today to see and to see if we can get any kind of medical for us or my daughter. Also any other suggestions on where and how to get food assistance or any kind of assistance? TIA for any help you guys can provide. I will be doing a garage sale next week to try and make a little money there. Please say a prayer for us and keep us in your thoughts. 1|1|I have no idea how long it takes to kick in............|pussecat|pu55ecat@aol.com|08:16:04|09/22/2009|

Posted on Sep-22-09 at 08:16 AM (Eastern) by 66.177.172.119

my husband was laid off on a wednesday and applied on a thursday and had found a job on his own before we were even called back (about 9 days later). my suggestion would be to file for unemployment but definately DON'T WAIT for it to kick in! he needs to hit the pavement RUNNING and see if he can get a job before the paperwork is even entered into the system. good luck to you! i'll be praying for you!

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Posted on Sep-22-09 at 08:23 AM (Eastern) by 69.242.65.105

Here is how it works where I live :o)

Umemployement normally takes about a week depending on what day of the week he goes in.

Unemployement has nothing to do with anyone else in your household just the person filing for it.

Even if he starts getting unemployement his exemployer may contest it.(they get mailed the paperwork that he filed and has so many days to contest it.)

If contested they set up a "hearing" where both partys tell there side and those listening decide the outcome.

If the exemployer doesn't show up to the hearing they will dismiss the case BUT give the employer another 30days or so to REcontest it and state why they didn't show up the first time.. (yes they will get a second chance)

During all of that listed above (granted if it happens) you are suppose to be getting a check every week until the final word after the hearing..

So make sure IF the employer contests it that he is getting the check every week. call if not.

If he does find work again and its part time.. THen he will get partial unemployement still.

It is very important that he will call every week to file for benefits on the day scheduled!

Now as for foodstamps and other benefits...

Go for it.. Why not...

Go to your states website and you can look up all the info there...

I would try and file for everything you can to help out for the time being.

And if you go in person to the offices that can help with foodstamps and other things... ASK what else is there you qualify for.

Don't be embarrassed or have too much pride because Everyone is going through tough times right now...

Good luck to you and your husband :0)


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Posted on Sep-22-09 at 08:34 AM (Eastern) by 207.190.75.230

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Posted on Sep-22-09 at 08:52 AM (Eastern) by 76.199.236.219

I hope your family can get some assistance from somewhere..I know it's hard these days!! hang in there 5|1|If you don't put your father down they won't know he lives with you The time when dh was out of work I tried to get reduced |teener|teenerzacsneenee@yahoo.com|09:03:26|09/22/2009|

Posted on Sep-22-09 at 09:03 AM (Eastern) by 96.28.100.251

lunch and I put my Mom down they called to go over the paper work and told me if I hadn't put her down it would have went through and if anything should change like her "moving" they would give it to us we were lucky and he found a job quickley so we were ok I did think by the way she said it she was suggesting we change my Moms residence on paper good luck 6|1|Sorry to hear this Connie - I pray he can find something else real soon|Beaglesfly|lmllr77@aol.com|09:33:33|09/22/2009|

Posted on Sep-22-09 at 09:33 AM (Eastern) by 64.12.116.68

Does your state have a medical program for children? Here in PA, we have CHIP for children which has pretty generous income limits.

Like Liz mentioned, if you go in to apply for foodstamps, ask them for other resources - pantries, emergency funds (here we have something called CEO which will sometimes pay for oil or a utility bill that's going to be shut off), etc.

Best wishes for you and your family.

lauren 7|1|Unemployment....|shelly0418|michelle0418@centurytel.net|11:22:56|09/22/2009|

Posted on Sep-22-09 at 11:22 AM (Eastern) by 174.124.196.246

My father does landscaping. He is laid off every winter. It normally takes him 4 weeks to get his first check.

We are in Michigan.

Michelle 19|2|doesn't he have to do another kind of work in the winter? doesn't seem fair that he would get paid for not working :(|KellyJef|burke3536@yahoo.com|16:17:34|09/22/2009|

Posted on Sep-22-09 at 04:17 PM (Eastern) by 205.188.116.68

>Posted on Sep-22-09 at 11:22 AM (Eastern)
>by 174.124.196.246My father does landscaping. He
>is laid off every winter. It
>normally takes him 4 weeks to
>get his first check.
>We are in Michigan.
>Michelle


8|1|I'm in CA and it took about 4 weeks.....|hudge4|hudge95@yahoo.com|12:42:29|09/22/2009|

Posted on Sep-22-09 at 12:42 PM (Eastern) by 66.81.173.169

to get the first unemployment check. The state gave us $800/mo food stamps which lasted 3 months, but then bumped it down to $360. My kids, who are in public school, got free lunch program, and as a family we got medical.

Here in CA, you can have a p/t job on unemployment but have to claim what you made, and anything over $25 is deducted out of your check.

Sorry this happened to you. We know what you're going through. We lost job, home, cars but we are getting by. Food stamps, unemployment is just enough without paying any rent. Now that we have to move out, it will be very short.


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Posted on Sep-22-09 at 01:03 PM (Eastern) by 68.192.47.250

I'm not sure the age of ypur daughter but if she's under 5, you can apply for WIC. You can also call your churches to see if they have a food pantry. At least you'll be able to get some nonperishables in the house. I don't know your dad's situation and I know he's already helping out a great deal. I was thinking, maybe he could watch your daughter while you and hubby run around looking for work. maybe you can both consider doing a split shift for awhile until you get caught up on the bills. Coupon and rebate more of course. Buy all the freebies that are coming up at Walgreens 9/27
They are Emergency C immune sys $3.49 free w/rr
Oral B Advantage 1,2,3 toothbrushes $3 free $3 rr
Chapstick fresh effect $2.99 free $2.99 rr
Robitussin DM to go (2 pk $2.49) free $2.49 rr
Dentek floss $2 free $2rr
Halls refresh sugar free (20 ct) $1 free w/rr $1

If you could find a job first, go for it. Whatever works in your house at this time is what counts...

Hugs,


Carol

10|2|my hub was laid off aug 20....didnt get first check until second week of sept........here u dont get a weekly ck|couponsnsamples|cpsnsamples@aol.com|13:24:35|09/22/2009|

Posted on Sep-22-09 at 01:24 PM (Eastern) by 67.142.165.25

u get 2 weeks at a time.......as far as food stamps...i applied nearly 2 weeks ago.......and havent gotten anything yet to even tell me what we are eligible for......

although i know we will get some........ 12|2|well I went to welfare this morning|crenchen|crenchen@aol.com|13:34:37|09/22/2009|

Posted on Sep-22-09 at 01:34 PM (Eastern) by 205.188.116.68

and I have a appointment at 8:30 in the morning. They are not going to include my dad for food stamps as I said he buys his own food and cooks seperate from us. So I will know more tomorrow, hopefully we can get something especially medical. My daughter went to the ER in July and because of our income the hospital bill was wiped clean but we still owe $379 to the doctor, then my husband went for pneumonia last month and his ER bills are over $7000 and then my daughter went again two weeks after him and even though her hospital bill will probably be covered I will still have the doctor bill plus whatever they don't discount on my hubby's bill. We had to file bankrupcy a few months ago and got out from alot of credit card and medical debts with that only now to have this happen. I don't have much to sell on the boards and what little I do have I will try and do a garage sale next week to make a little from that. My daughter Sabrina just turned 8 yesturday and we were planning for her birthday party this Saturday, which I have most of the stuff bought just need hot dog buns, drinks and the cake. I just pray that things get better, I don't want to end up loosing my car as it is the only trasportation we have. Will post tomorrow on what I find out. 13|3|for your medical bills..............|pussecat|pu55ecat@aol.com|14:16:22|09/22/2009|

Posted on Sep-22-09 at 02:16 PM (Eastern) by 66.177.172.119

call whoever it is that you owe and make payment arrangements. they can NOT ruin your credit as long as you have an agreement with them to pay as little as $10 a month BUT you MUST pay it every month as agreed in order to keep your credit in good standing. (I wish I had known this last year when my husband got pneumonia (spelling?) as we used almost all of our savings paying the hospital and Dr bills and then found out later that we didn't HAVE to do that, we'd have done better to pay the cc bills in full. kwim? as for your car payment......... call the owner of the loan and see if you can get 1 or possibly even as many as 6 payments put on the BACK of the loan. now, please realize that you WILL accrue more interest this way and also that since you won't be making a payment for 1 - 6 months that your loan amount will NOT decrease. if you have any credit card debt call your creditors and ask if there is anyway to lower your interest rate or possibly your monthly minimum. do NOT agree to any "freebie months" unless you have in WRITING that they will not report to the credit bureaus that your payment is late. when doing this it is always better to offer to call to increase your payments when your husband gets another job AND THEN ACTUALLY DO IT. this will also help keep you in good standings with cc companies, loan officers, and medical billing companies as well.

i'm still praying for you! good luck tomorrow. :)

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Posted on Sep-22-09 at 03:06 PM (Eastern) by 68.192.47.250

Carol 16|4|send me your addy to help w/your yardsale :-)|CJDJ112366|Lintaos@optonline.net|15:11:41|09/22/2009|

Posted on Sep-22-09 at 03:11 PM (Eastern) by 68.192.47.250

Carol 11|1|In WI unemployment takes about 1 week. More inside...|BrendaLee|homewithbrenda@yahoo.com|13:33:09|09/22/2009|

Posted on Sep-22-09 at 01:33 PM (Eastern) by 68.113.145.52

Hit the pavement running looking for work. Apply for food stamps and take everything that you can get. Don't forget to visit your local food pantries ans check out the local churches for help.

BrendaLee 14|1|Connie, some information for you inside including Insurance for your DD, Financial Asssistance and Food Banks|Ranalt|ainebailey@gmail.com|14:29:34|09/22/2009|

Posted on Sep-22-09 at 02:29 PM (Eastern) by 76.226.139.236

First, sign your DD up for the Free/Reduced Lunch Program at your her school.
Also, when you go to or speak with a Foodbank in your area, ask about the
Backback program...A program where food for the weekend is discreetly placed
in your Daughter's Backpack on Fridays.

Ohio SCHIP
(For uninsured Children)
http://jfs.ohio.gov/Ohp/consumers/HealthyStart.stm

Ohio Benefit Bank
Lots of resources to easily find
http://www.oashf.org/ohiobenefitbank.html

Ohio 2-1-1
They can provide assistance and/or tell you where to find assistance
http://www.ouw.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=home.viewPage&page_id=D7FCDF52-D07B-7EF1-B19885DDCADEBB97

Salvation Army in your area
http://www.use.salvationarmy.org/use/www_use_neosa.nsf/fm-ndos?OpenForm&go=1&zip=44054

Food Banks
http://www.oashf.org/foodbanks.html


Feel free to email or post if you need more information.




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It's all in how you make it.
Lisa

17|2|thanks for everyones help and Renalt|crenchen|crenchen@aol.com|15:21:03|09/22/2009|

Posted on Sep-22-09 at 03:21 PM (Eastern) by 205.188.116.68

I bookmarked all those sites and will check them out this evening. 18|3|Connie...good luck to you and your family|BusterBrown|srfreezerqueen@hotmail.com|15:47:46|09/22/2009|

Posted on Sep-22-09 at 03:47 PM (Eastern) by 64.136.27.226

Bill did not start out on unemployment when he lost his job-he went to disability first...it was quick to get the unemployment when he did as they had all the info from his disability....He said he heard today on the radio that states with higher than 8% unemployment are to be getting an additional 13 weeks from the fed gov....lets hope...Jodie 20|1|, praying all works out for you and your family|kandywolf|kandywolf@gmail.com|16:51:12|09/22/2009|

Posted on Sep-22-09 at 04:51 PM (Eastern) by 70.15.195.45

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Posted on Sep-22-09 at 06:15 PM (Eastern) by 68.57.156.68

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Posted on Sep-22-09 at 07:18 PM (Eastern) by 69.117.64.161

http://www.modestneeds.org/ They helped me when I needed help. You can apply for help on line


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Posted on Sep-22-09 at 08:40 PM (Eastern) by 69.253.199.199

times are really tough right now, it was good advice for him to start looking for something new right away, it could take abit to find something but hang in there

so sorry! 24|4|forgot to say...in ky ....for every wk that you get an unemployment ck....u also get a seperate stimulus check for $25|couponsnsamples|cpsnsamples@aol.com|22:20:56|09/22/2009|

Posted on Sep-22-09 at 10:20 PM (Eastern) by 67.142.165.30

per wk...........also...when my husband is laid off...we always have them take taxes out of unemployment check....if they dont...it sure takes a bite out of income tax at the end of the yr 25|5|well, here is what I was told|crenchen|crenchen@aol.com|14:32:15|09/23/2009|

Posted on Sep-23-09 at 02:32 PM (Eastern) by 64.12.116.68

I have to take a paper to my work to have filled out, 2 waivers have to be sent to my hubby's last two employers and when those are received back to them then I will receive a letter in the mail. My case worker said that we should receive some kind of food stamps and we should all receive medical until our situation changes. Of course who knows how long it will take for them to get the papers back as I can't even drop off the waivers and stuff until Monday because I have to turn in my husbands last paystub which he gets his check in the mail on Saturday. So I figure it will be 2 to 3 weeks until I hear or receive anything, so in the mean time I have to use what money we still have and have coming to keep up with the bills, so I'am not sure how I am going to obtain food in the mean time. We do have some meat in the freezer but running low on can and boxed items. I don't have really any good coupons to use to get free or really cheap stuff with doubles as I only have last weeks inserts. My neighbors have been giving us tomatos, squash and peppers out of their garden every few days so that helps. My other neighbor is struggling too so we our going to see about local food banks and churches, I think she has a list of places to go to. My husband filled out an app last night for a job and is waiting to hear back on that today as they had to run his license. Oh well, we will just have to struggle and make due until things get better. Now's the time I wish I would have alot of free item coupons set aside for a free spree. I don't even have any coming from rebates in the mail or any rebates at all as I haven't done to many lately. I did get a check today for $6.99 and $2.99 but those were the only ones I have coming. If you guys have anymore suggestions lmk. 26|1|Can someone send me Connie's addy?|ncbrunet|ncbrunet@aol.com|16:26:14|09/23/2009|

Posted on Sep-23-09 at 04:26 PM (Eastern) by 96.238.73.190

Marsha

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Posted on Sep-23-09 at 06:40 PM (Eastern) by 64.136.27.226

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Posted on Sep-23-09 at 07:50 PM (Eastern) by 69.253.199.199

unsure what exactly that means. thanks for clarifying 29|4|what ??? are you asking about|crenchen|crenchen@aol.com|07:28:35|09/24/2009|

Posted on Sep-24-09 at 07:28 AM (Eastern) by 205.188.116.68

was it something I asked, I'am confussed, lol. 32|5|yep, Modest needs...didnt know what she meant but now realize it is for |petunia1|sweetpea39@comcast.net|11:03:21|09/24/2009|

Posted on Sep-24-09 at 11:03 AM (Eastern) by 69.253.199.199

an organization. was a bit confused. thanks for clearing :). 30|4|I think she's talking about the orginization called MODEST NEEDS. hth :)|pussecat|pu55ecat@aol.com|08:26:14|09/24/2009|

Posted on Sep-24-09 at 08:26 AM (Eastern) by 66.177.172.119

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31|5|HI Connie..can i get your address?|shellysmsmo|jpksms@sbcglobal.net|10:40:02|09/24/2009|

Posted on Sep-24-09 at 10:40 AM (Eastern) by 76.199.236.219

I want to send you a RAOK envie full of coupons! :) 33|1|sent you my address|crenchen|crenchen@aol.com|11:57:39|09/24/2009|

Posted on Sep-24-09 at 11:57 AM (Eastern) by 205.188.116.68

thank you so much 34|2|I didnt get it - can you send it again|petunia1|sweetpea39@comcast.net|20:47:59|09/24/2009|

Posted on Sep-24-09 at 08:47 PM (Eastern) by 69.253.199.199

sorry, dont have your address in my emails

thanks 35|3|Sent ya out an envie today!|shellysmsmo|jpksms@sbcglobal.net|21:42:15|09/24/2009|

Posted on Sep-24-09 at 09:42 PM (Eastern) by 76.199.236.219

:) Hope it will help a little! 36|1|Marsha, thank you so much for the box|crenchen|crenchen@aol.com|11:20:07|09/26/2009|

Posted on Sep-26-09 at 11:20 AM (Eastern) by 205.188.116.68

the food and coupons will come in so handy, I can't wait to try that soup mix you sent, have you had it before? Again thank you from the bottom of my heart, I can not say how much it means to me. 37|2|We use that soup mix it all the time. It makes a lot|ncbrunet|ncbrunet@aol.com|14:40:36|09/26/2009|

Posted on Sep-26-09 at 02:40 PM (Eastern) by 205.188.116.68

and leftovers reheat really well.

I'm glad you can use what I sent. I'll see if I can get another one together next week. I tried to put things that you can stretch some in there.

Marsha

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Posted on Sep-26-09 at 04:16 PM (Eastern) by 24.61.128.98

I can send you a little something, so please send me a mailing addy. Thanks! 39|2|thanks guys for all your kindness|crenchen|crenchen@aol.com|22:38:04|09/26/2009|

Posted on Sep-26-09 at 10:38 PM (Eastern) by 64.12.116.68

I appreciate that you have taken the time to try and help my family and myself out at this time. The past 2 years have been up and down for us. A few times we had gotten ahead so far that I was able to place some good bids on some of the angel auctions to help someone else out and now in my time of need you guys have helped me out and I can not thank you enough. 40|1|Connie~*~|RebekkaVA|queen_vulture@msn.com|22:44:04|09/26/2009|

Posted on Sep-26-09 at 10:44 PM (Eastern) by 68.57.156.68

I totally understand how you feel, we've been in the same boat. I love this board and everyone has always been so good to us. If you have a wish list of coupons, please email it to me and I will see what I can send out to you girlie. I know it isn't much, but hopefully I can help out a little bit. Hugs, Rebekka

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41|2|Hello,i feel what your going thru-prayers for you (inside)|pigpin|revels123@msn.com|11:54:31|09/27/2009|

Posted on Sep-27-09 at 11:54 AM (Eastern) by 173.67.233.150

hi,

i know what your going thru im slowly coming back one step a day but there is days i get thrown bk 10 ...but i try to keep my chin up for my boys......if you wanna chat email me i have no one here and there was days i needed to cry scream and vent. I'm here to lend a ear.
42|1|update on my situation|crenchen|crenchen@aol.com|13:15:22|09/29/2009|

Posted on Sep-29-09 at 01:15 PM (Eastern) by 205.188.116.68

all paperwork is turned into Welfare just waiting for my job and hubby's last two jobs to send their paper work back, so hopefully I hear something by next week. Hubby got his last check Sat. and I used it to pay the car payment which was 18 days past due. We are down to $187 in our bank account. I have my car insurance to pay which will leave us about $40 after that. I am two weeks behind in my water payment, soon will be two months behind in my electric, I have the gas and cell phone bill to pay not to mention 3 high doctor bills to try and make arrangements on making payments to. Can't use any money for food as I have to keep it for gas money for the car. I don't get paid until next Friday which will probably be roughly around $135. I have rolled up my pennies, $6 worth to go and get milk and bread and some lunch meat today. The teachers at my daughters school are going on strike starting tomorrow, so no free breakfast or lunch for her until that situation changes. Hubby thinks we should keep her home so will have to try and come up with ideas for her breakfast and lunches. I am slacking off on what I eat and drink to make sure there is plenty for her. Don't get we wrong, we do have a freezer full of beef as we bought a 1/2 a cow back in July but am running low on the canned and boxed foods not to mention trying to come up with money for milk, bread, eggs and lunch meat. On a brighter note, Debbie who lives in Cleveland, I'am in Sheffield Lake, I can't remember her username on this board but it is DEO something but you will remember her because she just lost her husband a few months ago, anyway she contacted me the other day and has some canned goods that were bought for her husband and that she won't use, she was going to donate to Harvest for Hunger but she is going to bring them to my house tomorrow afternoon. I am looking forward to finally meeting her and if you are reading this Debbie I want you to know again how very much I appreciate you doing this for my family, I can't express in words what this means to us. So anyway that is what is going on here. I am going to try and start a goodie box sometime today when I have time to see what I have to put into one to try and make a little money. The weather here isn't going to be very good the next few days so probably won't be able to do a garage sale. Please keep us in your prayers as we need them. 43|2|Keeping you in my prayers|kandywolf|kandywolf@gmail.com|13:26:53|09/29/2009|

Posted on Sep-29-09 at 01:26 PM (Eastern) by 70.15.195.45

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Posted on Sep-29-09 at 03:24 PM (Eastern) by 205.188.116.68

she brought us boxes of canned and boxed items and bags of frozen meat and food items. She is such a kind and generous person and it was great to finally meet someone from the boards. Debbie if you are reading this I cannot put into words the kindness you showed us today and we so appreciate it so very much. When things turn around and get better for us believe me we will be playing it forward as much and as often as we can. Again thank you from the bottom of my heart :) 45|4|connie, are you in NC? Was it littlewolf who vistited you? Just wondering. :)|pussecat|pu55ecat@aol.com|15:30:38|09/29/2009|

Posted on Sep-29-09 at 03:30 PM (Eastern) by 66.177.172.119

No matter which Debbie it was.................. it was so kind of her to visit you! You are certainly blessed and so is she! :)

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46|5|No, I am in OH|crenchen|crenchen@aol.com|15:35:35|09/29/2009|

Posted on Sep-29-09 at 03:35 PM (Eastern) by 205.188.116.68

:) 47|4|Debbie is a wonderful and caring lady. She has a huge heart and is a blessing to have as a friend (((HUGS)))~*~|RebekkaVA|queen_vulture@msn.com|15:45:51|09/29/2009|

Posted on Sep-29-09 at 03:45 PM (Eastern) by 68.57.156.68

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48|5|Have you tried your local church or food pantry?|marybeth|randall3@aol.com|15:53:20|09/29/2009|

Posted on Sep-29-09 at 03:53 PM (Eastern) by 24.34.94.208

:) 49|6|Thank you Rebekka for the kind words and Connie I am glad I could help out a bit....|DE01740|DESimunek@yahoo.com|16:31:17|09/29/2009|

Posted on Sep-29-09 at 04:31 PM (Eastern) by 75.118.72.78

It was great meeting you. We have e-mailed and talked on the phone but it is always nice to put a face to the voice.

If I can help out further, please let me know.


Thank You

Debbie 50|7|Hey Debbie~*~|RebekkaVA|queen_vulture@msn.com|16:33:09|09/29/2009|

Posted on Sep-29-09 at 04:33 PM (Eastern) by 68.57.156.68

No need to Thank me girlie, it's the truth, you are a wonderful person and I know I feel blessed to have you as a friend. I think of you often. Hugs, Rebekka

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51|1|Connie, Emergecncy Food Assistance Program link inside.|Ranalt|ainebailey@gmail.com|18:41:00|09/29/2009|

Posted on Sep-29-09 at 06:41 PM (Eastern) by 99.130.65.38

http://jfs.ohio.gov/ofam/TEFAP/Emergency_Food_Assistance_Program_Map1.pdf



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52|2|well it has been two weeks now|crenchen|crenchen@aol.com|18:18:45|10/04/2009|

Posted on Oct-04-09 at 06:18 PM (Eastern) by 205.188.116.68

and I haven't heard anything from Welfare about the food stamps or medical, how long does it usually take? All my paper work had to be turned in by yesturday and I turned all mine in. Sure hope it is soon. 53|3|i applied...2 wks later i hadnt heard anything......then i get a card in the mail......when i called to get the card activated.......the|couponsnsamples|cpsnsamples@aol.com|21:43:50|10/04/2009|

Posted on Oct-04-09 at 09:43 PM (Eastern) by 67.142.165.25

food stamps had already been added to it..........a week after i got the card......i finally got a letter saying i was approved 54|4|thanks for letting me know|crenchen|crenchen@aol.com|22:05:54|10/04/2009|

Posted on Oct-04-09 at 10:05 PM (Eastern) by 205.188.116.68

:) 55|5|update with my call to welfare today|crenchen|crenchen@aol.com|08:51:34|10/09/2009|

Posted on Oct-09-09 at 08:51 AM (Eastern) by 205.188.116.68

was told this morning that I would be receiving a letter because they need a paper notorized for hubby's last job, something from my work, which my CSM said she sent it but who knows if she did or not and hubby's check stubs for Sept. which I have already copied and taken to them but who knows why she doesn't have them. Sooooo, I only work one day next week (5 hrs) so maybe if I get everything there on Monday I might hear something by the end of the week. I think I might see when I get the stuff she wants see if I can get a appointment with her next week to see if she can tell me something and to let her know we need the foodstamps and medical NOW not another couple of weeks from now. 56|6|Keep in mind...|sunriver|lithiasalt@cheerful.com|09:15:47|10/09/2009|

Posted on Oct-09-09 at 09:15 AM (Eastern) by 96.39.161.44

They sure make you jump through hoops, don't they?
One thing you should know is that if you have trouble getting them approved or if it keeps taking a really long time, you can ask for a hearing. They do not like hearings and I suspect that will speed them up quickly!

So, especially if you are repeatedly asked for the same proof of info, or are denied when you should not have been this info may help.

Hang in there! I know that none of this is any fun at all!
Vanessa 57|7|thanks for letting me know that|crenchen|crenchen@aol.com|09:24:35|10/09/2009|

Posted on Oct-09-09 at 09:24 AM (Eastern) by 205.188.116.68

hopefully these last papers will be all they need, and she should have gotten the pay stubs as they were with my utility bills and she has those, only thing was I couldn't find one week in Sept. and I was thinking that he didn't get a pay that week as he was off a week before that with pneumonia, but even if I was wrong and there should have been a check stub they can see from the previous to the following exactly what he would have grossed for that week anyway, just something to prolong it for me.