Carol 1|1|Your not going to be on this board much longer holding trades|CJDJ112366|Lintaos@optonline.net|18:06:39|09/17/2009|
Carol 2|2|Trades are to benefit 2 people... NOT ONLY the Seller.......|CJDJ112366|Lintaos@optonline.net|18:07:21|09/17/2009|
Carol 3|3|No hard and fast rules, but if someone intends to hold their end, it is only right that they INFORM the other trader first! That way the other trader can make the informed decision on whether or not they wish to proceed with the trade....this comes up all the time, the best advice I can give is to leave appropriate feedback for that person (ie, "holds traded without notifying"|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|18:17:31|09/17/2009|
A government big enough to give you everything you want, is strong enough to take everything you have.
--Thomas Jefferson--
You cannot build character and courage by taking away people's initiative and independence.
You cannot help people permanently by doing for them, what they could and should do for themselves.
~Abraham Lincoln
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4|4|Oh, I plan too. There needs to be some ground rules because some people are just looking to benefit and they could care less about anyone else|CJDJ112366|Lintaos@optonline.net|18:20:31|09/17/2009|
Carol 5|5|People Are not allowed to hold trades unless agreed by BOTH parties|CJDJ112366|Lintaos@optonline.net|18:21:29|09/17/2009|
Carol 6|6|and the nasty tape ordeal was totally out of hand|CJDJ112366|Lintaos@optonline.net|18:22:06|09/17/2009|
Carol 7|7|It's a business for many but a lifestyle for others |CJDJ112366|Lintaos@optonline.net|18:23:15|09/17/2009|
Carol 8|6|I totally agree! (m)|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|19:07:09|09/17/2009|
And altho there isn't a written rule, per se, when someone holds their end & doesn't discuss it w/the other trader 1st getting their consent, it's a clear sign of dishonesty to me, & I won't trade w/that person again nor will I give them a good recommendation to anyone. :(
Please identify yourself in 1st email w/name/username. Due to recent problem trades, if I haven't traded w/you before, I will probably require you send your end 1st or I'll need LEGIT trade references/feedback. I will be happy to provide the same. IF you plan to hold your end til you've received mine, I will need to know that IMMEDIATELY, BEFORE trade is finalized.
9|7|I've had 3 people hold their ends the past few weeks...|petunia1|sweetpea39@comcast.net|19:36:34|09/17/2009|
a little annoyed as they didnt say they were doing it but when you get the trade so much later what else could it be. 2 x's it was perfectly times with the amount of days it took for my envelope to get there and then the other persons trade back.
1 person never appoligized or said anything, just ignored my email
Humph!
10|8|meanwhile you need to burn yourself out hoping you can still get these deals...|CJDJ112366|Lintaos@optonline.net|23:36:52|09/17/2009|
Carol 20|2|I was Not Holding Carols Trade !!!!!!!Give me a BREAK |beansebaby|bsm906@gmail.com|14:14:21|09/18/2009|
Posted on Sep-18-09 at 02:14 PM (Eastern) by 71.61.95.227
Yes she is talking about me and I was not holding her trade I had lots of Discover trades and should have treated the others the same but somehow I
took to long to send it and she sends Concealed cash and some people do not even mail until they recieve it I mail as I have traded before with her ...
I sent back all of her monies she sent me and coupons too were FREE EXPRESS MAILED them TODAY Cost of $17.50 to mail to make this right and do not know what to do next .... Just wanted to let you know my end and she has my emails and we are emailing to get it correct I am sorry , Please do not pound me into the ground anymore over this ..... Go and read my Feedback and see what kind of trader I am. Not everyone is perfect and I did not do this on purpose do not have any reason to hold trades .like I said was ovewhelmed with the discovers I had 1100 and all gone ... Please read my feedbacks =
beansebaby - Thanks Brenda Sue
11|1|Rule?? I've not seen a codified list of rules on trading|suezz|clearys@comcast.net|08:10:15|09/18/2009|
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12|2|There isn't as the board doesn't get into the trading part of the board hope that makes sencthere are rules here but they don't pertain to the "working" parts of tradinge?|teener|teenerzacsneenee@yahoo.com|08:49:22|09/18/2009|
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13|3|It's more of courtesy, trust, and honesty|petunia1|sweetpea39@comcast.net|09:42:50|09/18/2009|
I've been at this a very long time. Yipes...I'm that old...LOL..but the deal has always been both traders send out their ends at the same time. you are trusting the other trader just like they trust you. If someone says they will hold their end up front that is different,then you know what is happening and not wondering where the heck is my trade ? I had people already say to me, you canhold my end until you get yours (which is a twist) but I always just send it the same time (unless I know better).
Trading is suppose to be fun! 14|1|OP - please combine your responses......|KellyJef|burke3536@yahoo.com|10:41:14|09/18/2009|
You do realize that you can put more than a few words in a post, right?
In this thread alone, you posted:
a post at 6:06
another post at 6:07
a post at 6:20
another post at 6:21
another post at 6:22
another post at 6:23
why take up so much space on the board with a bunch of individual posts? Doing that bumps everybody else's posts to the bottom of the page :(
And before you "remind" me that you can post as many posts as you want, common board courtesy should prevail. Nobody else posts a ton of individual posts taking up so much board space. 15|2|I noticed the postings every few minutes also....not that the space issue is a problem for me. I read it more as "out of control" over such a trivial manner|suezz|clearys@comcast.net|12:39:28|09/18/2009|
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16|3|not trying to hog board space....|CJDJ112366|Lintaos@optonline.net|13:01:39|09/18/2009|
Carol 17|3|it's not trival to me since it affected me|CJDJ112366|Lintaos@optonline.net|13:06:34|09/18/2009|
Carol 18|2|sure..... I thought you could like the coupon board (not doing it to make your post lower) |CJDJ112366|Lintaos@optonline.net|13:14:23|09/18/2009|
Carol 19|3|Carol I do not understand why...|sunriver|lithiasalt@cheerful.com|14:03:49|09/18/2009|
You would continue to post repeatedly after a few people expressed that the excessive posts within minutes seems less than polite. You posted 3 more times within minutes. Why?
I understand that the trader upset you, but it might be healthier for you to take a walk or something. Life is short! Just my 2 cents... 21|4|wanted to explain to them. My two cents to clear the air|CJDJ112366|Lintaos@optonline.net|17:20:38|09/18/2009|
Carol 22|5|i can see why carol is upset and she is not the ONLY one on the boards that posts and posts and makes a longer post |lydzkydz|lydzmcss@yahoo.com|21:18:10|09/18/2009|
i would be upset too when you are depending on a trade to get there hopefully before the sale is over
i have had a problem too with not getting my coupons for my trades
but deal with it
i hope all gets cleared up carol
please include your user name on refundsweepers.
i appreciate all the trades made in the past.
THANKS!! 23|6|Yes Lydz exactly! Anyone who knows me knows my trades are $5-$15 easy|CJDJ112366|Lintaos@optonline.net|09:16:09|09/19/2009|
Carol 24|2|KelJef- Go check out the coupon board- you'll have someone else to complain about.. If you don't like a post skip it. It's easy|CJDJ112366|Lintaos@optonline.net|09:38:24|09/19/2009|
Carol 25|3|how silly! The coupon board is a totally different type of board from the Chat Board |KellyJef|burke3536@yahoo.com|13:30:47|09/19/2009|
Obviously, posters on the coupon board would be EXPECTED to have multiple posts to their threads.
But the chat board DOES NOT REQUIRE a NEW post from you every other minute.
MOST people collect their thoughts and make a cogent post. They do NOT put every single individual thought into an individual post!!!
I have to chuckle at how many emails I've gotten thanking me for saying what everybody else was thinking - LOL.
34|4|plsssssssssss|CJDJ112366|Lintaos@optonline.net|16:42:30|09/19/2009|
Carol 26|1|Don't those expire 10/31? At least they weren't short dated. And they aren't really for a specific product...so you can't miss a sale on them. I think Beansbe's attitude has stunk in every post I have see her in....but Carol, if she really has done all she claimed to do to make it right. Sounds over to me.|Barb09|Barb0969@AOL.com|15:37:25|09/19/2009|
I looked and looked and found no coupons for troll food......SO, I don't feed the trolls!! 27|2|Thanks Barb, I made the trade correct with Carol ..... |beansebaby|bsm906@gmail.com|15:46:04|09/19/2009|
How do I have a attitude everytime just do not read my posts Plain and simple
Life goes on and not everyone is meant to get along .... but I have really good
traders , just read my feedbacks .... Carol and I have made mends I do not do business to make emenies
Thanks for the time ...... Brenda Sue 28|3|that attitude. Fine I will not read your posts. Feel free not to read mine either. There are enough people with multiples here...but if I were you I wouldn't keep closing doors and burning bridges.|Barb09|Barb0969@AOL.com|15:48:45|09/19/2009|
I looked and looked and found no coupons for troll food......SO, I don't feed the trolls!! 29|4|Yes, your 24 good feedback are nice....as are my 321. But, I don't have posts saying bad things about the board in general like you posted last week. I defended you in this post and you tell me not to read your posts? all good....no problem|Barb09|Barb0969@AOL.com|15:51:23|09/19/2009|
I looked and looked and found no coupons for troll food......SO, I don't feed the trolls!! 31|5|Thanks barb....|beansebaby|bsm906@gmail.com|16:08:15|09/19/2009|
But you also belittled me in that horrible post wow .....
I have only been a member since july I know but I really enjoy trading and I am not
saying anything bad just do my thing and go on but when things are said I get upset oh well, Take Care
and thanks again ........
Each and everyone of us have feelings ........ 30|4|I am not closing door s and burning bridges .....|beansebaby|bsm906@gmail.com|16:04:26|09/19/2009|
Everyone needs to think about things and just relax we all make mistakes and some of us do not mean to
come across with a attitude , God Knows if I had a attitude I would have told carol, I was still mailing her coupons because
some people wait till they get the concealed cash trade monies I never do that but I made it correct and cost me $17.50 postage she never said to send that way but you say I have and attitude and how can I read your posts when you stated that people who hold trades do not read posts talk about burning bridges .... oh well , have many things to do gotta get off computer .I just hope someday you can give people a chance instead of painting pictures from others messages ..... God doesn't create perfect people ... thats what makes the world go around and I am not being mean just trying to state a point ..............I am buy no means perfect ..... God Bless Everyone Why Does everyone have to find faults with people like other traders stated ...
Thanks , Brenda Sue 32|5|This trade has been received today.|CJDJ112366|Lintaos@optonline.net|16:39:10|09/19/2009|
Posted on Sep-19-09 at 04:39 PM (Eastern) by 68.192.47.250
Carol
Carol from NJ 33|1|it's over.... |CJDJ112366|Lintaos@optonline.net|16:40:14|09/19/2009|
Carol 35|2|Glad to hear it Carol. Take care!|Barb09|Barb0969@AOL.com|16:47:32|09/19/2009|
I looked and looked and found no coupons for troll food......SO, I don't feed the trolls!! 36|3|Thanks Barb... going to leave you feed back. |CJDJ112366|Lintaos@optonline.net|16:53:34|09/19/2009|
Carol