I was getting my hair cut on Tuesday and the lady that cuts my hair said something had been bothering her and could she ask me about it. I said of course. On the previous Thursday our sons who are now in junior high had orientation at the school While in the cafeteria one of the mothers was talking to my son with me there and he answered every question she had. I'm guessing at another point in the cafeteria the mother asked my son something else. My hairdresser said that my son was looking at her and he turned around and walked off. She said I was standing right there and I saw it. I said well that doesn't sound like my son and she again said well I was there and he did it. It really offended me that he wasn't given the benefit of the doubt. There were many people in the cafeteria and it was loud in there. I asked my son about it and he said that he was standing with the woman's son and he thought she was talking to the son and not him so he walked off. I guess I'm really offended because one of my son's other friends who is also friends with the hairdressers son told my son that the hairdresser didn't like my son. The hairdresser is always telling me that she guesses I'm a better mom because I let my son have friends over for sleepers and such and she doesn't. Yet, every time I get my hair cut she talks about the kids that stay over night at her house. WTF (not the bad F)? So, what am I to think? I keep telling myself in the grand scheme of things it doesn't matter what she thinks. I know my son would never intentionally walk away from an adult that was speaking to me. I know he has a good heart. 1|1|I think I would just blow her off, there seems to be more to it, the way you describe her, it's like she's jealous of you or your son or something, just my opinion and it's hard to explain, but just sounds that way, you know your child, so I wouldn't worry about what she thinks (((HUGS)))~*~|RebekkaVA|queen_vulture@msn.com|13:17:26|08/27/2009|
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2|2|Thank You|sytipton|sytipton@suddenlink.net|13:34:26|08/27/2009|
She always wants to know what my sons grades are and what he's doing in school. My husband told me to not worry about it because we know she likes to gossip. I'm trying really hard and keep praying that I will just let it go. I guess when it's your kids someone is talking about you just get defensive. Thanks for your encouragement. 3|1|I would just blow it off too...|blessedx5|I_am_blessedx5@yahoo.com|13:48:59|08/27/2009|
seems to me she is just picking at your son for whatever reason. You know your son, and if you had seen him walk away from adult you would have corrected him. Funny how you didnt notice it and he didnt know the other person was even talking to him, seems the hair dresser is the one with the problem! 4|2|Something else that bothered me - I'm sorry|sytipton|sytipton@suddenlink.net|14:01:15|08/27/2009|
when i was getting my hair cut my 4 year old was with me. her baby has one of those push toys with the balls in it that makes a loud popping sound. my son was pushing it and she told him to please not push that because it was loud and her husband was sleeping. about 10 minutes later i heard the noise again and called for my son to stop. she said oh, it's ******** but didn't tell her to take it into the other room. i thought why is it you can correct my son for doing the same thing your daughter does but not correct her? Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr....... Let it go, let it go, let it go... 5|3|Let it go, for sure.....and you might want to consider getting a new hairdresser to avoid any further stress or conflict...that's what I did when my former hairdresser started getting into some family business too much (I later realized my gut feeling was right, she put the moves on my BIL not a week after my SIL died from cancer).|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|15:22:15|08/27/2009|
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6|1|yes,let it go|WillaD|wila111@bellsouth.net|17:36:05|08/27/2009|
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Willa 7|1|Is she the only hairdresser in town????? It seems like there has been some long simmering problems here. Why do you still go to her?|suezz|clearys@comcast.net|08:02:05|08/28/2009|
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been issues until lately. She cuts hair out of her house. Time before last we were there my 4 year old who always goes with me hit her child and she said, "we don't hit in this house!" No big deal I didn't see him do it and don't want my child hitting other children. But this past time really got to me. Don't scold my child for doing something and then not scold yours for doing the same thing. I guess I'm just too sensitive when it comes to my kids. My kids aren't perfect and I don't claim they are. Just don't put my kids down before you know the whole story is all that I ask. Give people the benefit of the doubt. Find out the entire story before judging.