i have the opportunity to go to florida the disney world area part
i would be driving my friends vehicle housing is paid for and gas is paid for by her also
she is driving a seperate vehicle
i would pay for my sons and my food and souvenirs
but my hubby says NO NO NO
i am tempted to just go ahead and take off with her
if i can't get him convinced to let us go with his consent
plzzzzzzzz what would you do in this situation
we are upset with hubby(dad)
and i know this would be a good trip for the boys
what do you think ??
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THANKS!! 1|1|How old are the boys and?|20yrrefunder|tradernikki@yahoo.com|21:48:54|07/26/2009|
How old are the boys and what is your DH's reason for you not to go? How long of a trip would it be and how would you get back home?
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http://www.refundsweepers.com/dcforum/feedback/366.html 2|1|Iwould have to know why he doesnt want you to go|petunia1|sweetpea39@comcast.net|21:51:16|07/26/2009|
if it is a good reason than maybe i could understand, However....
If I were you I would go. it is an opportunity for the kids that will not come along often. 3|1|answers to questions |lydzkydz|lydzmcss@yahoo.com|22:05:22|07/26/2009|
my boys are 7 and 12
big enuff to remember going i hope
when i was little we went b4 i was age 6 so i don't remember much about disney
my friends hubby don't want her making the trip alone with her daughter
and friend and friends sister
we would be going down to pick up the friends' other sister
cuz the mom needs a break from her kids as she had a miscarriage the other week
reasons why hubby don't want me to go
he don't like the girl very much that wants us to go (but he has to put up with her)
he won't be going so i think that is a bit of the problem
he wants to be with us when the boys get to go for the first time
it is going to take me forever to save up enuff money for all 4 of us to go and stay down there
we want to go by bus
i know it is going to be a long trip but i think i am up for it
just to get out of this place for a while
i need a break from everything up here
including hubby
i am tired somewhat depressed at times with my life
all he does is GRIPE at me and boys and sometimes for nothing we have done at all
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THANKS!! 4|2|you should definitely go|petunia1|sweetpea39@comcast.net|23:07:46|07/26/2009|
the kids are a good age, easy to drag around a park with no whining...LOL...it is about the age we took our kids and thought it worked out well.
you can go cheap as you can bring in your own drinks and snacks. lots of inexpensive places to eat close by & if you eat at the commisary the meals are huge (found out after the first time), big enough to split meals if you need.
She is your friend and sounds like you need a break, you'll have a great time. I can understand your DH wanting to go together but in 5 years the oldest may not want to go and it will be so different when they are older. there is alot geared towards there current age group, rides,shows, etc...
I say GO!!!! 5|2|I would buy....|zydeco|kimr@alador.com|02:11:45|07/27/2009|
...my hubby a bus ticket and meet in FL. There is no way I would pass up a trip like this. 10|2|I think...|sunriver|lithiasalt@cheerful.com|10:35:58|07/27/2009|
I would sit down with Dh and tell him everything you told us about how you have been feeling. Explain again that you do care about his feelings, but you hope that he might agree that you and the boys should go. And then talk it out and go from there. There is no way I would go away with our kids without my husband's blessing, but if he was not listening to me I would also make sure that we communicated.
Try again and have a good talk with him. I hope you can work it out so that you are both happy. In fact, ask him what would still keep him happy AND the trip would still be on. Is there any way he can go? Would he feel better if he knew you would be calling once or twice a day? Get to the bottom of what is really bothering him.
HTH. Vanessa 6|1|I would go, and let hubby decide, if he wants to take the bus seperately, or not. Let it be his choice, on weither to miss the trip or, go.|dlpavitt|dlpavitt@att.net|08:27:59|07/27/2009|
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7|1|I wouldn't go because|cinda68|lacinda68@gmail.com|08:58:13|07/27/2009|
Posted on Jul-27-09 at 08:58 AM (Eastern) by 207.255.71.199
my hubby has final say on decisions, can't tell you how many times I was so sure he was dead wrong and he turned out to be right.
I know that probably isn't a popular position but for my family, it works. So if it were me, I would not go against my husband.
8|2|go|angNC|memawang@embarqmail.com|09:57:47|07/27/2009|
have fun w/ your kids while you can 9|1|my vote would be go.|ppe1952|MATWELL3@ROCHESTER.RR.COM|10:12:44|07/27/2009|
Remember your manners: when god answers your prayers----- say thank you. 11|2|This treads the line of "things you might regret later".. No advice, but your own decision of how bad you need a break from hubby, will it cause a divorce, and your own relationship with hubby.. no advice will change your living situation - a decision only you will have to live with.. as others stated, question and talk again with husband.|car_mont|car_mont@hotmail.com|10:42:00|07/27/2009|
PLEASE INCLUDE - USER NAME AND YOUR OFFER if we are in a trade. 12|1|hubby can't get vacation till later in august he works at walmart and they have him already scheduled |lydzkydz|lydzmcss@yahoo.com|11:06:51|07/27/2009|
this trip can't wait till towards the end of the month
for reasons one thing skool starts the last week in august
and the friend's sister is coming back here to live with the brother and family up here
for a while while the mom gets back on her feet
i don't think the trip will cause a divorce or split but if it did
he would have a lot to lose
as he would have to move back in with his parents
also i don't want hubby on the trip as we need some time of NO bickering and fighting amongst him and the kids
i get soooo sick of it
then i get in to it with him
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THANKS!! 13|2|I say talk to dh|Kristy|mi3zons1@yahoo.com|11:24:07|07/27/2009|
My relationship with my dh is a partnership. If we disagree on something we sit and talk it out until we compromise. Personally I wouldn't want to do something like that without my hubby as it just wouldnt' be as much fun without him.
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14|2|Ok here is a way to look at it too|teener|teenerzacsneenee@yahoo.com|11:30:25|07/27/2009|
Maybe your DH wants to be the one to take his children and you to Gisney and he just doesn't know how to really express himself in getting that across to you tho he may have said it he may have trouble with getting out the depth of his need to do it and maybe if you as a family had the time together on a fun filled vacation then that stress that he and the kids are haveing would ease I beloeve a good relationship with ones spouse is talking things out and compromise 15|1|Tough choice, for me, I would probably go after weighing things out, maybe some stress-free|Mackiesmudder|Mackiesmudder@aol.com|12:30:54|07/27/2009|
time for the kids (and you) is a really good idea. Could there be any legal repercussions? I don't know anything about that but is he that kind of guy? You are going into another state. I hope you can swing it Lydia, if he is just being selfish about wanting to take the kids himself and not permitting them this great opportunity, that is just sad. There were several occassions when my daughter was younger that I let her go with my Mom or my sisters to places that I wanted to take her, experience with her, but I just couldn't manage, I let her go.
Cathie
16|2|here i am almost 5 years seperated due to almost same thing|suzyq70|cdbrace3@aol.com|12:38:24|07/27/2009|
>Posted on Jul-27-09 at 12:30 PM (Eastern)
>by 205.188.116.68time for the kids (and
>you) is a really good idea.
> Could there be any legal
>repercussions? I don't know anything
>about that but is he that
>kind of guy? You are
>going into another state. I
>hope you can swing it Lydia,
>if he is just being selfish
>about wanting to take the kids
>himself and not permitting them this
>great opportunity, that is just sad.
> There were several occassions when
>my daughter was younger that I
>let her go with my Mom
>or my sisters to places that
>I wanted to take her, experience
>with her, but I just couldn't
>manage, I let her go. Cathie
>
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17|1|I wouldn't go without my husbands blessing......|Quietwaters|Quietwaters39@hotmail.com|13:27:35|07/27/2009|
it might seem right at the time, but in the long run I think your relationship, and that between him and the kids will suffer.
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I'd say don't go. Not worth causing friction in your marrige.
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19|3|He may feel bad about missing the chance to go with his kids|spilleliz|spilleliz@gmail.com|14:52:39|07/27/2009|
Which I think is good. He probably want to do the whole thing as a family. I've done the disney trip with my 3 kids and I was glad my husband (now ex) was there to enjoy it with them.
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20|1|I am torn on this one because it may be a chance for you both to have a break from one another but then again, I don't think I could go without my husband's blessings, plus I wouldn't enjoy it as much without my husband (((HUGS)))|RebekkaVA|queen_vulture@msn.com|15:19:43|07/27/2009|
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