I have been packing there clothes this morning i dont want to do it but i know that i dont have a choice in the matter. We leave tommorow at 2 and i say good bye to them at 5pm. Its going to be a long 6 weeks if he keeps them for that long i dont know how im going to do it. I hope that someone will call me for a job because i will go insane if i dont get a job before then not having anything to do with all my time with them being gone!!!!
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1|1|hang in the girlfriend praying for you all this all this |lydzkydz|lydzmcss@yahoo.com|12:25:36|06/29/2009|
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I feel for you. Maybe apply at as many temp agencies as possible and that may lead into some short term employment to help keep you busy? I'd say do some housework and stuff, but I remember you already fixed up your place so nicely that it won't take up any time. :0) You can come to OR and clean mine instead. LOL!
Or I will send you a very willful and onrey three year old.... she would keep you busy!
Actually maybe I kind of envy you just a tiny bit today. You caught me just after a tussle over toys. LOL! I told her I was getting the broom and anything that is still on the floor will be taken away. She picked up exactly one thing, looked me right in the eye and dropped it on the floor. This is an ongoing battle and I am not winning it.
So when you are feeling down, you can just thank your lucky stars that you are not me. :0) Vanessa 3|1|Hey, jen....I read your post on AFC about the last visit when you took them and he didnt show up....maybe the same will happen this time and you can bring them home with you....as long as you are fulfilling your responsibility of taking them to him, if he doesnt show up, that's his problem. I used to have to send my boys with their father for 8 weeks in the summer when we lived in FL and he lived in IL...it was pure h3ll, I cried every dang day they were gone :(|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|16:03:11|06/29/2009|
"Middle age is when you choose your cereal for the fiber, not the toy." 4|1|Joy........|rainj|jmrains@centurytel.net|19:35:18|06/29/2009|
He just called a few minutes ago to make sure that i was still coming tommorow so im pretty sure that he plans on being there. And wanted to make sure i packed enough clothes for the kids and all that stuff. He actually said i could just pack all there clothes and they could just stay there and i didnt have to come and get them back i was like whatever!!!! Anyway im really not looking forward to this. On top of it i started my dreaded period today to so im sure thats going to make things much better tommorow as well :(
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5|2|Did have an explanation as to why he didnt show up the last time?? Yeah, like you'd not go back to get them....what is he thinking???? Well, I guess there's a reason he's the EX! lol|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|19:39:21|06/29/2009|
"Middle age is when you choose your cereal for the fiber, not the toy." 6|3|Yeah his reason was.........|rainj|jmrains@centurytel.net|20:04:53|06/29/2009|
That he could not take the kids because his leg hurt. But he was not home all weekend long when the kids tried to reach him. I dont know i dont even try to pretend what the man is thinking any more your right there is a reason that he is my ex!!!
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7|4|Oh for crying out loud! Does he have no shame?? Does he not realize that kids can see through that crap?? Your poor kids.....|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|20:07:50|06/29/2009|
"Middle age is when you choose your cereal for the fiber, not the toy." 8|5|Oh and they are finally starting to..........|rainj|jmrains@centurytel.net|20:13:13|06/29/2009|
I have kept my word i have said from the begining of this mess that i would not bad mouth him to the kids or in front of the kids and i have not and will not do that. But they are starting to see him diffrently all by themselves. Like the other day after having called there dad for about the 5th day in a row and leaving i dont know how many messages every single day and him not bothering to call back my DD who is 6 says well i guess Dad just doesnt want to talk to us. I hate that they are hurting but at the same time its nice to know that they are figuring out that its not all me like there dad is telling them it is.
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9|6|Kids always figure out the truth.....|Quietwaters|Quietwaters39@hotmail.com|09:24:20|06/30/2009|
You are doing such a good thing, to not bad mouth him in front of them. They will be so glad to come home and see you after 6 weeks.
When my parents were going through their break up and divorce, I used to get sent to AR for the summers, just to spare me of some of the crazyness. I was lucky to never have to deal with visitation.
Praying you find a way to enjoy this time by yourself and not worry too much.
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