This has happen many times it really bothers me.
We live on a small cude sac. We have a neighbor who is all the time talking to my husband.
I have told him several times when she comes over to stop doing what ever and come inside.
Yes I am jealous. She is pretty,blonde,and athelic. He is the only man that she goes into the
yard to talk to. Well it just happen again. She was following him around in the back yard.
They notice me on the deck and stop talking. Finally she left and I told him, I asked you when
she comes over to come inside. He told me "this is my yard , and I will do as I please" .
Being I can't work and have no place to go, I just walked in side. Sorry so long, should I say
something to her.? Thanks for letting me vent.
1|1|I'd be mad too!|kellysp6637|frugalk76@aol.com|13:27:59|06/07/2009|
That is completely unacceptable! However, I doubt I would say anything to the other woman,,,I wouldn't want to give her the satisfaction in even thinking I was a bit jealous....(I know easier said than done)....I think if it were me I would seriously talk to me husband and tell him how I feel about it....I understand he can't be rude and just tell her to get the heck off your property....but you could suggest he say a VERY brief hello then to continue on with whatever chore he is doing so that it tells her he is busy and not interested in talking to her....by stopping what he is doing and continuing to talk than he is indirectly telling her he is interested in having a conversation with her....
2|2|Go outside when she comes over and get into the comversation|teener|teenerzacsneenee@yahoo.com|13:46:12|06/07/2009|
>Posted on Jun-07-09 at 01:27 PM (Eastern)
>by 64.12.116.68That is completely unacceptable!
>However, I doubt I would say
>anything to the other woman,,,I wouldn't
>want to give her the satisfaction
>in even thinking I was a
>bit jealous....(I know easier said than
>done)....I think if it were me
>I would seriously talk to me
>husband and tell him how I
>feel about it....I understand he can't
>be rude and just tell her
>to get the heck off your
>property....but you could suggest he say
>a VERY brief hello then to
>continue on with whatever chore he
>is doing so that it tells
>her he is busy and not
>interested in talking to her....by stopping
>what he is doing and continuing
>to talk than he is indirectly
>telling her he is interested in
>having a conversation with her....
3|3|heck-is she married? do the same to her hubby....|BusterBrown|srfreezerqueen@hotmail.com|13:48:39|06/07/2009|
and if asks why....tell him that you figured he might need someone to talk to since his wife is always talking to your hubby..... 4|4|well this is interesting post...(M)|kthy26|kthy26@yahoo.com|14:32:52|06/07/2009|
I am not a jealous person so I dont think this would bother me much at all if any however like someone else said to do either go get in the conversation or talk to her husband or boyfriend. I dont really see anything wrong with it but if it upsets you then thats what I would do. I have always told my husband that if you think you can find someone else better then me to put with your crap then just say so and I'll go and well we have been together for 15 yrs and he hasnt found that person yet i dont guess because I am still here. Now I dont think I'm better then anyone else I just think I'm best for my husband :)
Maybe your husband does this on purpose because he knows it makes you jealous. I wouldnt give either one of them the satifaction of knowing that I was jealous.
Good Luck and keep us posted on what happens
Kathy 5|5|you know you might be right|angNC|memawang@embarqmail.com|18:50:28|06/07/2009|
He probley does do it cause he knows it bothers me. 6|6|I had a neighbor like that|crenchen|crenchen@aol.com|19:14:03|06/07/2009|
when we bought our house 5 years ago the next door neighbors, man and woman, lived together but were not married. The woman would come outside every time my hubby was outside and talk his head off but as soon as I came out she hurried home and wouldn't even so much as speak to me or act like I was there. She would wear real short shorts when she mowed the grass, well you know the type. It didn't bother me except for the fact that she never aknowledged that I was there. She was the type that was all for the men and the heck with the woman. If you trust your hubby than I wouldn't let it bother me. My hubby is a truck driver and is home only every 2-3 weeks for the weekend. With all the lot lizards (what drivers call woman who will do anything for money or drugs) that are in the truck stops if I had to worry about him then I need not be married to him. So if you trust him then I wouldn't worry about it but if you don't then I would keep an eye on the situation. 7|7|that is excatley how she is|angNC|memawang@embarqmail.com|23:40:14|06/07/2009|
I am going to start talking her head off! 8|8|Angie, I would go out and stand right in-between them...|mindylou86|mindylou86@gmail.com|14:47:03|06/08/2009|
and stand really close to her...kind of in her face...make her feel uncomfortable, all the time 'pretending' to be nice to her. I would think she would back off.
M
9|1|If it were me...|Gail_O|gailandlarryondrej@gmail.com|17:06:47|06/08/2009|
I'd probably just kid DH about his "girlfriend". I don't get mad about stuff like this. DH and I have a sense of humor about stuff like this and usually kid around about it.