im sick and tired of all the stupid phone calls with the obscene name calling is there anything i can do to stop them or what im asking if i report it to the police will they do anything about it
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1|1|Either have his number blocked or report him to the phone company|teener|teenerzacsneenee@yahoo.com|17:24:37|04/23/2009|
>Posted on Apr-23-09 at 05:16 PM (Eastern)
>by 75.121.56.206im sick and tired of
>all the stupid phone calls with
>the obscene name calling is there
>anything i can do to stop
>them or what im asking if
>i report it to the police
>will they do anything about it
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2|1|I agree with getting his number blocked, but you want documentation of the harassment for your divorce hearing....call your attorney and ask him to intercede immediately on your behalf (he could probably do it informally--but documented--by contacting your ex's attorney and telling him to have his client cease all phone contact directly to you. Or he could decide to approach the judge and have something legally put in place to restrict him from contacting you directly. But most importantly, document each and every phone call, time/date/what he says, etc.|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|17:28:26|04/23/2009|
Last edited on Apr-23-09 at 05:35 PM (Eastern) by 67.173.18.107
Posted on Apr-23-09 at 05:28 PM (Eastern) by 67.173.18.107
ETA: Ask your attorney what you should do before blocking him...I wouldnt imagine he'd expect you to continue to deal with the phone calls, but if it were me I would consult with the attorney first. Does it cost anything to block a number? If so, keep that bill as your ex should be responsible for the cost of it, IMHO.
Joy
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If he is threatening you, you could try for a PFA. It may make him madder though. But at least you'd have something for the police to enforce and arrest him for violating.
Which phone is he calling? Your cell? Call your Cell phone company and see what they can do. Can you block his number so he can't get through to your cell? Change your number? Is harassment by communication a crime in your state?
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4|1|Restraining orders cover phone calls|sheliar|sandk95@embarqmail.com|10:30:09|04/24/2009|
if you want to go that route. If he breaks the restraining order, then he can be arrested. Not sure how far you want to go with it. A friend of mine changed her phone number to unlisted. That may work, also.
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5|2|Oh was gonna say a gun, Overlooked the word "legally" te he he.. sorry he is bothering you .. and realizing it is not funny.. You should do the restraining order and tape it all when he calls - if it is allowed in court "the harrasment" and his "attitude"..|car_mont|car_mont@hotmail.com|13:12:15|04/24/2009|
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by any chance is he upset because you decided to go WITH a lawyer for your divorce preceedings rather than opting NOT to have one? i remember a few weeks back you had asked us our opinions on the matter but i don't reall if you ever posted what you had decided to do. in any case, if you had decided to get a lawyer then perhaps he's PO'D that HE also has to pay and is just being a jerk?
i don't know all of the circumstances behind your divorce, nor the intentions behind his phone calls........... but if you feel the "need" to have them stop, i'd simply block his number. and if he knows where you live (i'm assuming he does being as you 2 have kids right?) then i might ALSO get a restraining order to keep him OFF the property. and a gun................ well, that doesn't sound too bad to me either. a single mom NEEDS to protect herself AND her children.
jmho
i hope you get this squared away really soon! good luck
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7|2|You know I was looking on Ebay the other day.. thinking of investing in a stun gun and mace... Not quite as deadly, yet, effective against would be criminals.. Not meaning to hijack your post.. just throwing that out, if you are in fear..|car_mont|car_mont@hotmail.com|14:04:13|04/24/2009|
PLEASE INCLUDE - USER NAME AND YOUR OFFER if we are in a trade. 8|1|ok to answer a few of the questions..........|rainj|jmrains@centurytel.net|10:01:37|04/25/2009|
i was told that i cannot block his phone number because he has to have a way to contact me for the kids. As far as the attorney i do not have one YET only because i have to get one in Arkansas where he filed at and im in Missouri so i have to go down there which i plan on doing next month. The reason he is Po'd is because he got child support papers and he has to pay childsupport which he says if he is forced to do then he will not. Only right now no one is forcing him and hes still not doing it so whatever. He does know where i live but like i said im in Missouri and hes in Arkansas which i know doesnt mean anything especially since he told me he was coming up here to take the kids and i said over my dead body!! I went and put up no Tresspassing signs so that if he shows up i can call the cops and have him arrested for tresspassing seeing as there is no custudy order in place yet and i refuse to let him have the children until there is one because i know that if he gets the chance he will dissapear with them and i will do everything in my power to make sure that cannont and will not happen. I have consulted with an Attorney here in Missouri and am doing every thing in my power at the time being that i legally can but for court i have to have a attorney that can practice in Arkansas seeing as that is where he filed at. Did i miss anything. All i know is that this is a big mess and its not even close to being over and i know its only going to get messier.
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9|2|Ugh, what a mess :( I have one more question...where did you get married and does he or you still live in that county? I think that is where the divorce petition would have to be filed...I could be wrong on that. Also, you need to get an attorney asap so you have someone who can get injunctions and decisions to protect you and the kids while maintaining his parental rights.....an attorney can get temporary custody in place and get the ball moving on child support....|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|10:13:46|04/25/2009|
Posted on Apr-25-09 at 10:13 AM (Eastern) by 67.173.18.107
Also, did he leave the state or did you? I can't remember now, I know you probably posted about this at some time....
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10|2|How long have you lived in MO?|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|10:23:59|04/25/2009|
I believe if you & your children have resided in your current state of residence for at least 6 months, YOU can file for divorce also. The amount of time required might be less but something to think about so you wouldn't have to be running back & forth to Arkansas.
If I were you tho, I would still seriously think about obtaining a restraining order, especially since he has already said he was coming to take the kids which could be considered a threat. The restraining order can have stipulations inserted in it such as he is allowed to call ONLY to talk to the kids & ONLY to discuss the kids w/you, nothing else & certainly NOT to be used as a means to harrass or threaten you.
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11|2|Some more info inside.....|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|10:32:22|04/25/2009|
Here's some info I just found:
"A threshold requirement for obtaining a divorce in most states is residency or domicile of one or both parties who are to be divorced. “Residency” refers to the state in which a person lives; “domicile” refers to the state that the person regards as “home.” Usually the state of a person’s residency and domicile are the same, but sometimes they can be different. For example, a couple may reside four months each year in the state of their “summer home,” but regard another state where they spend the rest of the year as their true home (and that state would be the state of their domicile).
Residency (or domicile) requirements vary. A few states have no residency requirement. That means a person can arrive in a state and seek a divorce on the same day. Residency requirements of other states range from six weeks to one year; six months is the most common time period. In states with a residency requirement, a party must have lived in the state for the specified period before a divorce can be granted."
May I suggest that you check this site out:
http://public.findlaw.com/bookshelf-mdf/mdf-9-5.html
or:
Maybe there are some things you will find helpful. ;)
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12|3|Also found this. :)|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|10:43:23|04/25/2009|
http://www.divorcesource.com/info/divorcelaws/missouri.shtml
"One party must be a resident of the state of Missouri, or is a member of the armed services who has been stationed in this state, for ninety days immediately preceding the commencement of the proceeding and thirty days must have elapsed since the filing of the petition before the dissolution of marriage will be granted."
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13|3|Please cye also. ;)|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|10:52:30|04/25/2009|
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14|1|I was the one who left Arkansas and came back to Missouri|rainj|jmrains@centurytel.net|11:02:49|04/25/2009|
Posted on Apr-25-09 at 11:02 AM (Eastern) by 75.121.56.206
tommorow my 90 days will be up and i will be considered a resident of Missouri i am checking into getting a restraining order put in place as well i have to have copies of messages which i do not have right now because i was stupid and deleted them before i thought about it. But from now on i plan on taping each and every phone call that comes from him. Like i said so far he is still in Arkansas and im pretty sure he plans on staying there he has made no attempt so far to even come see the kids and does good to call them once a week. Or if he does talk to them its for less than 5 minutes and promises to call them back which of course he never does. He is to involved with his new "Friend" which is fine by me i just hate seeing the kids hurt when he tells them something and never follows through with it. Im not playing his games thats all that is to it if he wants to mess with me then all i have to say is game on!!!
ETA: That we were married in the state and county that i live in now. It was my plan on filing here but he beat me to it seeing as i had to wait 90 days. But i will be checking into having an injunction filed and having it moved here.
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15|2|If you have an answering machine......|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|11:30:51|04/25/2009|
Some of those messages may very well still be on the tape, if they haven't been recorded over....
If you have Voice Mail, you may be able to obtain copies of the recorded messages from your phone co., particularly due to the situation where messages are harrassing or threatening. ;)
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16|2|That is an excellent move to get it moved to your county, and check into those residency statutes that Tami posted....just to make sure you have enough residency time to be able to file.|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|11:43:39|04/25/2009|
"Middle age is when you choose your cereal for the fiber, not the toy." 17|3|When I divorced, he filed in NC and I filed in TN.. I had a restraining order in TN .. and they told me that since I resided in TN - the police would honor my TN papers and yes, there were 2 divorce filings, I made sure to not leave TN. While we were in TN all my documents were honored in TN.. see if you can get filed there.|car_mont|car_mont@hotmail.com|12:31:17|04/25/2009|
PLEASE INCLUDE - USER NAME AND YOUR OFFER if we are in a trade. 18|1|When we were going for custody of my grandson we were getting alot of bad calls from his other grandmother and his mother. We let them know that all calls were being recorded and will be brought to court. They did not belive us and kept the calls comming. That was one of the many things that helped us keep the boy here with us. May be you can try that and see if he watches what he says and if he dont recorde him bring it to the police and tell them you are worried. Also you might want to get you saying your recording this on the tape so he cant say you never told him that because in somestates the party needs to know. And if all else fails get a good whisle and when he starts getting nasty blow on it as hard as you can and give him a earfull of it.|nancygal|brennansnanna@hotmail.com|20:15:32|04/25/2009|
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