As horrible as this may sound but i was actually glad to see them come. Im just wanting to get this over with and get on with my life. Im feeling a little stressed out today but im sure i will be ok.........
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1|1|A necessary part of the process of moving forward with your life, Jen...I hope it all goes well and with as little conflict as possible.|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|20:51:47|04/06/2009|
"Middle age is when you choose your cereal for the fiber, not the toy." 2|2|day i got served with mine..........i jumped up and down for joy!!!!!!!!! LOL|couponsnsamples|couponsnsamples@hotmail.com|23:34:59|04/06/2009|
and was proposed to the next day by my present hub (had been seperated from x ..over a yr......) 3|1|I hope the divorce goes smooth Jenn so you can move on with your new life (((HUGS)))~*~|RebekkaVA|queen_vulture@msn.com|01:02:53|04/07/2009|
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4|1|Something inside I wanted to share... (m)|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|07:50:45|04/07/2009|
It's always been one of my favorites & I thought it might help. ;)
With Every Goodbye....
After a while you learn the subtle differences
between holding a hand and chaining a soul.
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning
and company doesn't always mean security.
And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts
and presents aren't promises
And you begin to accept your defeats
with your head up and your eyes ahead
with the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child
And you learn to build all your roads on today
because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans
and futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight.
After a while you learn that even sunshine burns
if you get too much.
So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul
instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure
that you really are strong
and you really do have worth.
And you learn and you learn
with every goodbye you learn . . .
-- Veronica A. Shoffstall
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5|2|very very true. been there done that and now i live for me.|ppe1952|MATWELL3@ROCHESTER.RR.COM|08:32:28|04/07/2009|
Remember your manners: when god answers your prayers----- say thank you. 6|2|Thanks that was nice i saved in on my computer :)|rainj|jmrains@centurytel.net|08:44:26|04/08/2009|
>Last edited on Apr-07-09 at 07:54 AM
>(Eastern) by 207.190.75.230It's always been one
>of my favorites & I thought
>it might help. ;)
>With Every Goodbye....
>After a while you learn the subtle
>differences between holding a hand and
>chaining a soul. And you learn
>that love doesn't mean leaning and
>company doesn't always mean security. And
>you begin to learn that kisses
>aren't contracts and presents aren't promises
>And you begin to accept your
>defeats with your head up and
>your eyes ahead with the grace
>of a woman, not the grief
>of a child And you learn
>to build all your roads on
>today because tomorrow's ground is too
>uncertain for plans and futures have
>a way of falling down in
>mid-flight. After a while you learn
>that even sunshine burns if you
>get too much. So you plant
>your own garden and decorate your
>own soul instead of waiting for
>someone to bring you flowers. And
>you learn that you really can
>endure that you really are strong
>and you really do have worth.
>And you learn and you learn
>with every goodbye you learn .
>. .
> -- Veronica A. Shoffstall
>
>
>
>Think Spring!
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7|1|ok some of the things he has in these divorce papers are unreal............|rainj|jmrains@centurytel.net|08:50:58|04/08/2009|
its just crazy he wants to pay $50 a week childsupport for 2 kids. Wants the kids every other weekend which would be ok if we didnt live so far apart but we are 7 hours apart now i would still be ok with it but he has in there that i have to meet him at 5pm on friday and the kids get out of school at 3 how in the heck am i supposed to be half way to arkansas in two hours. I really dont think he will stick with the every other weekend thing anyway but im not agreeing to it the way it stands. He also put in there he gets everything from the house except for my car and then wants me to split half of the bills. now if he wants me to split half of the bills then he needs to split half of everything else. I really dont want anything from the house except for some personal items of mine and the kids other than that he can keep it all its just the way hes going about it he didnt not mention in the papers anythign about his boat or motorcycle guess he didnt want the judge knowing about that. he also put in there that i can not have any over night romantically involved guest while the kids are living at home. So my youngest is 5 years old what happens if 5 years from now i meet the man of my dreams i have to tell him sorry you have to wait until my DD is 18 years old before we can have a relationship i mean that is just ridiculious!!!!!!! I could go on and on but i wont. I have a court date of May 14 but i refuse to sign the papers the way that they stand right now. Sorry to vent but needed to get it out.
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8|2|Jennifer, saying a little prayer for ya!|couponshelmd|couponshel@comcast.net|10:05:31|04/08/2009|
I have not been through a divorce, but I cannot see how he can put some of those stipulations in the process. He needs to get real! I can see why you are not going to sign; my older sister learned the hard way, as her lawyer told to sign and hope he did not want the custody as he stated it, etc. Now, her weekend/life is a living [bleep] because she has to cater to her ex's needs. Especially the part about the kids getting out of school and having to be there by 5, what the heck is that?
Another thought, my sister had nothing in the divorce papers about college tuition; her kids were 3 and 5 at the time of the divorce and I truly don't think she was thinking about something like college at the time. Now, my niece is ending her Junior year of high school and the father has already said he will not be "able" to pay for anything for her education... and child support stops when she graduates in June 2010.
Truly hoping all goes well for you!
Shel
9|2|Please go see a lawyer!!|ncbrunet|ncbrunet@aol.com|10:06:21|04/08/2009|
If you go to court on your own, and have a judge that is not willing to give you latitude (since you will not know the EXACT procedure for everything) you can really really get screwed.
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10|3|I would get a lawyer|angNC|memawang@embarqmail.com|10:19:39|04/08/2009|
$50 won't hardly feed them, wait till they get to be teenagers. 11|4|Get ....A .....Lawyer! Now!!! You are getting your entire life in order, which is AWESOME!|jilda|vze4gj4m@verizon.net|10:20:31|04/08/2009|
you need to make sure this divorce is done fairly...please! get a lawyer! 12|1|my ex is getting served this week with them and i cannot wait. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |sknott4|lovemydogs24@gmail.com|10:32:53|04/08/2009|
>Posted on Apr-06-09 at 08:43 PM (Eastern)
>by 207.119.202.207As horrible as this may
>sound but i was actually glad
>to see them come. Im
>just wanting to get this over
>with and get on with my
>life. Im feeling a little
>stressed out today but im sure
>i will be ok.........
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13|1|please get a lawyer as soon as possible and dont' sign a thing (m)|lydzkydz|lydzmcss@yahoo.com|11:32:04|04/08/2009|
his stipulations sounds like my cousin's and his ex's
his ex gets 400 plus a month for 2 girls don't let him get away with 50.00
no way no how
and now my lazy cousin is running away from his problems
and the sherriff is after him for no court appearance
i hope they throw him in jail he needs it
maybe he would grow up!!!!
anyways plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz get a good lawyer
may cost now but in the long run it will be of great help
and follow the advice of the college money thingy too
good luck with it all
hugssss
Lydia
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THANKS!! 14|2|Be sure there is life insurance on HIM that HE pays, with the kids as beneficiary |sneakers1234|ross417@msn.com|15:53:17|04/08/2009|
and get a lawyer, those rules are ridiculous. You aren't driving 7 hours every weekend for the kids to see him. Soon they will have sports etc and not want to go and that will obligate you and ruin your Friday and Sunday. 15|3|I agree...get a lawyer....each state has guidelines set up for child support amounts based on the number of children to be provided for, and he would be required to pay that percentage of his pay....you also need to ask for him to carry insurance on the children if he has done so in the past. As for visitations, there is no way he would be granted every other weekend as he wants with that distance to drive. There would be other arrangements made with less customary arrangements due to the distance.....I am speaking from experience there. Also, make sure you have provisions in the child support agreement for college costs! A good lawyer will know to get these things set up and presented in a petition, and will probably think of more issues that need to be covered as well. |saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|16:04:14|04/08/2009|
"Middle age is when you choose your cereal for the fiber, not the toy." 16|1|I agree, I think you should get a lawyer Jennifer, I think $50 a week isn't enough for two kids, my ex paid $350 a month for one and my friend's hubby paid $700 a month for one kid, so I think it depends on his income and also the judge (((HUGS)))~*~|RebekkaVA|queen_vulture@msn.com|17:09:59|04/08/2009|
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