about 10months ago my neighbor's husband dropped a bombshell on her,she is so sweet and
this is killing her,he told her that he had been having an affair for the last 5yrs,the
other woman has been pregnant 2 times and miscarried both times,she lives in another
state and he worked in that state but it's only a 45min drive there,not far,the other
thing is that he a minister,she is 37 ( will be 38 this yr ) and they married when she was 16yrs old,
they have been married for 22yrs,she's lost weight and is so depressed over this,sunday she called
me and was crying so hard that i could hardly understand what she was saying,she said that she was
on her way to church but was so upset that she stopped and parked her car on a parking lot,i
asked her where but she never told,by this time i am so nervous that i am shaking,i didn't
know where she was or what she was about to do if anything at all,i was so afraid that she
would commit suicide while i was trying to talk to her on the phone,i can't begin to really
express how scared i was for her and me if anything happened to her,i finally got her to
calm down and i tried to comfort her over the phone,we talked almost 3 before i finally
got her to calm down,she really needs lots of prayers so she can get thru all thing,they
have gone to a marriage therapist,talked to a minister and went to a pysch doc but he
refuses to continue with any of the sessions,also she said she has asked him what he
wants to do about their marriage and he always says he doesn't know that he has to get
with God on this,this is what he told her on Sat.,by the way the other woman dumped him
shortly after his big revelation to her,another thing is that he had moved out of the house
but has moved back in about a month ago,i really think that she thought when he moved back
into the house that they would start trying to get their marriage to work and when she
asked him what he wanted to do about their marriage and he said that he didn't know that
he would have to get with God on this,this threw her for a loop,there is alot more to this
but this gives an idea of what is going on with her right now,so please pray for her
and her sanity and for their marriage to work,i have been praying for her but she needs
more prayers,thanks,i didn't mean to go on and on about this
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Willa 1|1|Sending special prayers for your friend.....|maraj|maraj64@hotmail.com|20:40:20|01/20/2009|
Praying for strength for her to get thru this difficult time & strength for you also, so you can continue to be a strong shoulder of support for her.
Trust is a very important aspect of ANY relationship & it really hurts when it's been betrayed. I'm probably not in the right frame of mind to post much of anything right now, particularly on this subject, as just today I found out my son has betrayed mine by lying to me. :(
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2|1|Tami,thanks for the prayers for my neighbor,i will|WillaD|wila111@bellsouth.net|20:53:01|01/20/2009|
keep you and your son in my thoughts and prayers too
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Willa 3|1|Willa, sending up a prayer for your friend....you are a good person to be there for her in her difficult time....|saint6811|waylan@comcast.net|20:57:58|01/20/2009|
"Middle age is when you choose your cereal for the fiber, not the toy." 4|1|Oh...that's so sad,,,I will keep her in my thoughts and prayers...|kellysp6637|frugalk76@aol.com|21:02:07|01/20/2009|
it's so good that she has a friend like you to help her through this... 5|1|So sad for your neighbor, I will say a prayer for her (((HUGS)))~*~|RebekkaVA|queen_vulture@msn.com|21:08:47|01/20/2009|
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6|1|Your friend is in my prayers.|nancygal|brennansnanna@hotmail.com|22:38:48|01/20/2009|
nancygal 7|2|poor soul|angNC|memawang@embarqmail.com|00:36:12|01/21/2009|
we never know what goes on with others. I am glad you are a good friend
to her.
8|1|Sending prayers for your friend, Willa|Mackiesmudder|Mackiesmudder@aol.com|02:03:52|01/21/2009|
Cathie 9|1|thanks everybody for your thoughts and prayers|WillaD|wila111@bellsouth.net|07:58:10|01/21/2009|
she called me last night and said that he had asked her about a
book that they had on the family,relationships,marriage that they
had ordered from one of the miniters that comes on tv on sunday mornings,
she had already tossed the book when he moved out,so she re-ordered the
book yesterday,she seemed a little more together last night,she loves
him so much and if it doesn't work out i don't know what will happen
to her if he tell's her it is really over,i don't think she will handle
it well and i don't think she is strong enough to get thru this,i think
she will lose it completely,anyway,thanks again everybody for your prayers
and please continue to keep her in your thoughts and prayers
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