16 0|0|Sad and depressed|disneymom|princessfancypants@yahoo.com|11:47:40|11/30/2008|
Posted on Nov-30-08 at 11:47 AM (Eastern) by 66.59.114.131

Hi everyone I know I haventbeen on here for ages! I just have not really had access. I was wondering if anyone may have any information that could help us save our home. We are facing forclosure. It is a pretty long story, but we thought everythign was set to save it, that is what we were told in October. They were pretty much going to open a new mortgage for what we owed. We basically had to do the application process over again, and the only differnce was they didnt pull our credit. We were set to go, and they said our first payment was due Nov. 1st. WEll aboutmid Oct. we got our cashiers check back for the processing fees, when I called to question it, they told be it was becasue something had kicked the application out, and they would have an underwriter get in contact with me. I then asked if I should send the nov. pmt. She informedme NOT to and said not to send ituntil we get the letter in the mail saying congrats your 1st pmt is due this day. Ok so the following day an underwriter called and told me that it was an error on one of the papers where my slash mark in "N/A" had run onto the 2nd line, I needed to white that out and refax, so I did, again I was advised to hang onto the cashiers check and NOT send a payment. So fast forward to mid november, I get a phonecall fromthe gentlman working on our case. He advises me that my income isnt sufficiant for the loan, and that I need to have my november pmt in....I explained that I was told by 2 people NOT to send that in. I also told him I had better stubs and I would fax them immdeatly. He agreed and told me to send in my nov. AND december payment. I told hi, I could send the nov. but didnt have the dec yet. He agreed. Well I just got a call on Tuesday and said that we did now qualify, but the noterized paper is wrong and Ihave to have that redone...I told him I wouldnt be able to get that completed until next week, and he said that is fine as long as I overnite it. Ok fine
well yesterday I got a call and they said the loan can not be approved for lack of income??? I questioned it becasue I was under the understanding it WAS approved.....
so it looks as though we could be homeless!! HOMELESS! I am beyond devistated I dont know where to turn now.....does anyone have any ideas what I could do? I mean this is just not good not good at all!!

Thank you for reading through this if you made it this far. My mom says it all sounds weird...our lender is COuntrywide....
Thank you!
Nicole
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What princesses wear when they take off their tiara 1|1|I'm so sorry to hear this....I wish I had advice for you,,,|kellysp6637|frugalk76@aol.com|11:51:21|11/30/2008|

Posted on Nov-30-08 at 11:51 AM (Eastern) by 205.188.116.68

but I have no idea about the mortgage process....praying things get better for you. 2|1|Oh Nicole...|sunriver|lithiasalt@cheerful.com|11:58:31|11/30/2008|

Posted on Nov-30-08 at 11:58 AM (Eastern) by 67.1.41.85

I am so terribly sorry to hear that! I wish I had advice or knew what you could do.
I am not familiar with how the process works, but think that someone on here may know? I hope so!

You're in my thoughts and prayers today. Hang in there. Vanessa 3|2|Link to Site that lists Countrywide "Negotiator"|sunriver|lithiasalt@cheerful.com|12:02:41|11/30/2008|

Posted on Nov-30-08 at 12:02 PM (Eastern) by 67.1.41.85

http://www.loansafe.org/forum/countrywide-home-loans-tell-us-your-countrywide-story/

So maybe the best thing to do is to start calling some of the officials at Countrywide? 4|3|that is the gentleman I am working with they call themselves "negotiatiors" |disneymom|princessfancypants@yahoo.com|12:18:32|11/30/2008|

Posted on Nov-30-08 at 12:18 PM (Eastern) by 66.59.114.131

This whole process has been utterly stressful. I have tried to be strong for my kids, but I k now they know what is going on. My 4 year old has been VERY clingy to me lately!


Thank you!
Nicole
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Posted on Nov-30-08 at 01:36 PM (Eastern) by 74.242.164.104

can help you,i have seen her post lots of helpful information
for others,do a search for her email addy

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Posted on Nov-30-08 at 01:57 PM (Eastern) by 67.232.27.5

until you have another loan. That is what I have heard. 7|3|See they made me cease payments in March becasue |disneymom|princessfancypants@yahoo.com|14:16:48|11/30/2008|

Posted on Nov-30-08 at 02:16 PM (Eastern) by 66.59.114.131

we fell behind THEN yes I have been trying to get this taken care of since march!!! And what a mess it has turned out to be! I called the MONTH I knew I couldnt make a payment.....

Thanks for the info on Lisa, I am pretty sure she is the one who started me in my whole mortgage quest, but I may be wrong lol

Thank you!
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What princesses wear when they take off their tiara 8|4|I am a Real Estate Paralegal and do some work in this area CYE|spilleliz|spilleliz@gmail.com|15:11:19|11/30/2008|

Posted on Nov-30-08 at 03:11 PM (Eastern) by 69.117.64.161

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Posted on Nov-30-08 at 03:13 PM (Eastern) by 69.117.64.161

Please be careful Its best to deal directly with the banks rather than going to a negotiator because they charge a fee and you can really do this on your own. 10|4|Nicole email me|froapin01|huntingseason@msn.com|15:14:25|11/30/2008|

Posted on Nov-30-08 at 03:14 PM (Eastern) by 72.9.26.26

I know I live by you and I can give you the number of our lender he worked miracles for us. Catherine 11|1|Hi Nicole~*~|RebekkaVA|queen_vulture@msn.com|15:21:55|11/30/2008|

Posted on Nov-30-08 at 03:21 PM (Eastern) by 71.62.248.52

I just wanted to say that I am so sorry to hear you may lose your home. I will be praying for you and your family. I know how scary it must be. I hope things start to turn around and that there will be a way to save your home. Hugs, Rebekka

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12|2|First, I am so sorry for the circumstances you are in. Second, pull yourself together. While the loss of your home is devastating and I am in no way minimizing that....you need to pull it together. You don't have to be homeless...you have to start figuring out where you are going. looking for rentals....figuring out the best way to stretch the assets you have for a first/last months rent and security. You don't have to end up homeless. I don't own my home, but I am not homeless.....I just RENT it. It will be important for your family and kids for you to have the right perspective and start again. Good luck!!!|Barb09|Barb0969@AOL.com|15:52:13|11/30/2008|

Posted on Nov-30-08 at 03:52 PM (Eastern) by 64.107.87.6

I looked and looked and found no coupons for troll food......SO, I don't feed the trolls!! 13|3|Very well said Barb...more inside|RebekkaVA|queen_vulture@msn.com|16:16:21|11/30/2008|

Posted on Nov-30-08 at 04:16 PM (Eastern) by 71.62.248.52

I know it's scary and sometimes there seems to be no hope, but have faith. What Barb said is true, you can try and find a place to rent. We didn't own our home, but we were renting and the landlord was raising our rent almost $600 more due to her mortgage rate, well we couldn't afford it and panicked too, then we started to think and try and find a place, it was hard to find a place with not so great credit, but we finally ended up renting an almost 40 foot travel trailer at a campground. Yeah it wasn't the Ritz or anything and some people look down on you, but it was a home to us and our family. It did have two bedrooms, so that was a plus for us. It was a trailer that you can tow, but it was in a campground and it wasn't so bad. I never met so many friendly people than I did there. There were about a dozen other full timers there and some snowbirds. When we lived in our big fancy house we were renting, the neighbors were all snobs. Anyways we stayed in that trailer for almost 20 months, it really was a lifesaver for us. We also lost our truck this year cause when my hubby got cancer, he lost his job and everything and it was so hard for us, our church donated an old van to us and we were so grateful. It wasn't all fancy and people laughed at it sometimes, but hey it got us to and from where we needed to go. Anyways I'm not good with words, but just wanted to say hang in there and have faith. Hugs, Rebekka

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14|3|I'm sorry to hear your going through this, but I agree with Barb. You have the morgage payment so you can use that money to relocate to another place.|HONEY11|HONEY1@AMERITECH.NET|16:18:20|11/30/2008|

Posted on Nov-30-08 at 04:18 PM (Eastern) by 76.237.177.137

Even though it does stink to lose your house, there are many that are homeless due to not having a job or money to restart again, consider yourself lucky that you at least have the morgage payment to rebuild your life so you will not be homeless. I have been homeless in the past, no job or no money and was still able to get on my feet again and a single mom with baby in tow.


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15|4|can you try some other lenders?|aloha2u|alohamillion@yahoo.com|19:37:50|11/30/2008|

Posted on Nov-30-08 at 07:37 PM (Eastern) by 67.212.108.17

Our local Countrywide has gotten in alot of trouble for bad loans and closed ALOT of their offices. I guess I would call around locally, including the attorney who did your title opinion if you had one done, and seek suggestions. Surely, someone will have some ideas for you to try.

Also, not a question for the OP, but just a question in general= why do people foreclose instead of file for bankrupcy? I thought that if you did the latter, they could not take your home and other 'necessities'?

Anywho, good luck, Nicole. I wish the best for you and your family.
Stacey 16|1|Nicole, just saw this post. SO sorry to hear about this. I have some links inside. I hope they are helpful.|Ranalt|ainebailey@gmail.com|21:25:37|11/30/2008|

Posted on Nov-30-08 at 09:25 PM (Eastern) by 76.226.131.136

Homes and Communities help
http://www.hud.gov/local/pa/homeownership/foreclosure.cfm

Pennsylvania Foreclosure Prevention
http://www.phfa.org/consumers/homeowners/hemap.aspx

Stop foreclosures in Pittsburgh
http://www.877youkeep.com/Stop-Foreclosure-in-Pittsburgh

Stop foreclosure
http://www.877youkeep.com/Pennsylvania-Foreclosure-Law

Stop Pennsylvania Foreclosure
http://www.2-stop-foreclosure.com/states/pennsylvania.htm



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