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"Sad News-Bad Year"
 Posted by pmunson on Nov-30-21 at 07:38 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Nov-30-21 at 07:38 PM (Eastern) by 64.246.112.95

I finally pushed myself to post this and it's really hard but thought I'd reached out to my wonderful group of trading friends.

My husband passed away end of June. My MIL end of October and now my mom Nov 17th.
They say things happen in three's but didn't think it would happen so fast.

Husband was only 67 and his lungs filled with fluid, his heart couldn't take and ER couldn't save him. I felt so helpless.
His mom had covid, UTI, and pneumonia. Went to ER on Sat and passed away on Thurs.
My mom had been ill for many years, remission from cancers, multiple UTI's and finally Alzheimer's, and passed away at Hospice. What a blessing Hospice is.

So now it's me and the cats at home. I will get more involved with forming again.

Everyone take care of yourselves and tell your spouse or significant other how much you love them.
Don't take them for granted. What I would give to have my loved ones back ~

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1 . "When it rains, it pours...."
 Posted by Sharon on Nov-30-21 at 09:52 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Nov-30-21 at 09:52 PM (Eastern) by 72.169.80.153

Dear Petra, so sorry you've lost 3 beloved family members this year. My deepest condolences to you and your family. Take care of yourself.

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2 . "heartbreaking "
 Posted by pattyo on Dec-01-21 at 02:55 AM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-01-21 at 02:55 AM (Eastern) by 96.32.89.12


I am so very sorry for 3 losses to your loved ones, and how you are still standing amazes me.
I do what you mentioned..tell your loved ones how much they mean to you as tomorrow is not guaranteed.

I will pray for you and hope this struggle becomes lifted in the days to come.. May god bless xox

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3 . "so so sorry for your grief and pain"
 Posted by patsyann on Dec-01-21 at 10:35 AM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-01-21 at 10:35 AM (Eastern) by 99.102.44.96

especially this time of year. will say aprayer for your family

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4 . "So sorry Petra...I understand and know how it is...happened to me too...not husband though..mom and son 2 months apart"
 Posted by JOYHAPPYONE on Dec-01-21 at 11:06 AM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-01-21 at 11:06 AM (Eastern) by 45.19.209.10

PILATES ?
HELL NO, I thought you said
PIE and LATTES !!!!

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5 . "so sorry for your losses"
 Posted by junebug on Dec-01-21 at 11:15 AM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-01-21 at 11:15 AM (Eastern) by 75.88.14.109

Never easy no matter when it happens. YOur are in our thoughts and prayers

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6 . "Sorry for your losses, Petra."
 Posted by SandyC on Dec-01-21 at 02:10 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-01-21 at 02:10 PM (Eastern) by 162.211.12.64

SandyC
:D

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7 . "so sorry to hear of your losses of loved ones"
 Posted by cassiecole on Dec-01-21 at 10:14 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-01-21 at 10:14 PM (Eastern) by 108.202.36.134


soo , soo sorry to hear of the loss of
your loved ones! saying prayers for you!
i know you will miss them. hold on to the
wonderful memories you have and pray they
will bring you comfort.

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8 . "My thoughts and prayers are with you."
 Posted by soccer_mom on Dec-02-21 at 09:20 AM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-02-21 at 09:20 AM (Eastern) by 73.195.3.136

Please try to take care of yourself during this difficult time.

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9 . "So sorry for your loss"
 Posted by Joaniebott on Dec-02-21 at 09:23 AM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-02-21 at 09:23 AM (Eastern) by 98.211.185.103

I lost my Mom way back in 1996 and my Dad in 2006....seems like forever ago.

Do you have family nearby to help? Siblings and kids?

Joanie

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10 . "petra, I'm so sorry about"
 Posted by salsafan on Dec-02-21 at 05:01 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-02-21 at 05:01 PM (Eastern) by 23.123.152.114

all you are dealing with. I read all the previous posts and the advice is so good--- appreciate and remember with gratitutde what you had with them, look for support if you need it, try to focus on t he blessings in your life. See yr email as I want to say more....

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11 . "I'm so sorry for your loss!"
 Posted by melpaul on Dec-02-21 at 05:06 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-02-21 at 05:06 PM (Eastern) by 72.94.175.207

Sorry to hear about your husband and mother. Take time and take care of yourself!
Thoughts are with you at this time

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12 . "(((HUGS)))..."
 Posted by Meezer_Mom on Dec-03-21 at 08:26 AM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-03-21 at 08:26 AM (Eastern) by 166.205.111.20

You've been through a cluster of tough losses. Many prayers up while you get your bearings to carry on.

Purrrz,

Sue
>^..^<

If we've traded, please leave feedback for me at:
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13 . "Such sad news..."
 Posted by pretzel18 on Dec-04-21 at 02:34 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-04-21 at 02:34 PM (Eastern) by 76.29.8.149

Such sad news, Petra - sending you prayers and hugs. It's hard enough to lose a loved one, but to lose three in such a short period of time is incredibly painful. I hope your family, friends, neighbors, and church help you get through this.

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