38 . "OK...if anyone wants to trade with this person, please let me know."
Posted by shellysmsmo on
Jan-06-11 at 02:58 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Jan-06-11 at 02:58 PM (Eastern) by 188.8.131.52
Ok..I am in the middle here..and I'm leaving it up to YOU the traders/swappers. I had someone that wanted to join this months swap. I am not going to let anyone join if you dont' have current feedback and is an active member. I debated on this one.. and just decided not to let this person join this month..AND Now, she is questioning me to ASK someone else, and if someone else can decide upon this... Either way, I don't care..more the merrier.. BUT I'm just trying to keep the swaps going well.... BUT the reason I decided to ask her just to sit this one out is .....because:
1) No current feedback until today..of one feedback. I don't think one is enough. What do you think? 2) In the past 4 or 5 swaps...2 of them had complaints..like I said..I'm the middle man..I can't tell you who's right and who is wrong.. but both traders that complained are active/current, long time swappers. 3) I actually had one trader in ONE swap that "felt" her swap wasn't adequate but didn't want to say anything or get in the middle, so she let it go. This would have been the third strike. 4) And with the 2 bad complaints...I know of one late trade, maybe two...
I NEVER CLAIMED THIS PERSON WAS A BAD TRADER, I'M NOT PICKING ON ANYONE..I'M TRYING TO COVER EVERYONE HERE. YOUR RIGHT I'M P*SSED RIGHT NOW...ASK SOMEONE ELSE?? WHO AM I TO MAKE THE DECISION? MAYBE BECAUSE I START THIS SWAP..AND I'VE BEEN THE ONE THAT HAS COVERED SEVERAL SWAPS BECAUSE OF BAD TRADES..I'M TRYING TO HELP EVERYONE ELSE. AND YOU TELL ME THAT YOU CAN'T HELP THAT YOU DON'T HAVE FEEDBACK...WELL NEITHER CAN I... AND THAT'S THE SAME REASON, WHY I DECIDED NOT TO LET YOU JOIN THIS MONTH I DIDN'T SAY NEVER..I EVEN SAID..GET SOME FEEDBACK AND TRY TO JOIN NEXT MONTH.
SO...IF ANYONE OF THE SWAPPERS WANTS TO TRADE WITH THIS PERSON, LET ME KNOW...I HAVE NO PROBLEMS LETTING HER JOIN IF SOMEONE WANTS TO TRADE WITH HER...BUT IF THERE ARE ANY COMPLAINTS...PLEASE DON'T INVOLVE ME OR THE BOARD. AND ONCE AGAIN..I'VE NEVER PICKED ON ANYONE...OH I COULD GO ON..BUT I'M NOT....GEEZ...