14 . "Got my trade but am very disappointed......."
Posted by maraj on
Oct-15-10 at 11:15 AM (Eastern)
Posted on Oct-15-10 at 11:15 AM (Eastern) by 207.190.75.151
I made a trade w/Anne on Sept. 30th. Mailed my end out the next day (Fri. Oct. 1st) & she said she would be mailing on Sat. (Oct. 2nd). I had clearly told Anne that I preferred no "holds" w/out it being agreed upon upfront, because others had told me of similar issues w/her. On Sun. the 10th, Anne emailed me to lmk she'd rec'd my trade & said I should be receiving her end shortly. When I still hadn't rec'd Anne's trade yesterday (Oct. 14th), I was concerned so emailed Anne asking when she mailed. She said she had been sick on the 4th & 5th (made a post on the 5th, however) & had mailed on the 8th or 9th. I received Anne's trade today (15th) & the envie shows it was pm'd on Tues. the 12th! I am grateful to have finally received the trade but I am disappointed because 1st of all, Anne told me she would be mailing on the 2nd which is obviously NOT the case, & 2nd of all, she held w/out being upfront w/me about it. I understand being sick, if that was the case, but our trade was completed on Sept. 30th so being sick on the 4th & 5th doesn't explain WHY she didn't mail on the 2nd like she said she would, or any other number of days in between the 2nd & the 12th. I'm more upset about the dishonesty involved here than anything, & I'm sorry to say I won't be doing anymore trading w/her. :(
Please identify yourself in 1st email w/name/username. Due to recent problem trades, if I haven't traded w/you before, I will probably require you send your end 1st or I'll need LEGIT trade references/feedback. I will be happy to provide the same. IF you plan to hold your end til you've received mine, I will need to know that IMMEDIATELY, BEFORE trade is finalized.
