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 "Bad traders??" 

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"Bad traders??"
Posted by yomamab on Dec-05-17 at 08:37 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-05-17 at 08:37 PM (Eastern) by 70.15.190.78

Hey all, I don't post on here a whole lot and maybe am too trusting of people and might have gotten ripped off. I sent a check out for $25 to someone for some forms that I've been looking for. I've emailed her a few times after the deal was sealed through our couple emails and I think they should have been here days ago and never hear back from her. I don't want to be accusing anyone wrongly and so won't name the person because they still might get here, but I only have until the end of the month to do the offers and the time is ticking. Just in case I don't get them, does anyone keep a bad trader's list? Thanks for any help you can give.
Cathy

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1 . "Email me with who this is and I'll check my huge address list "
Posted by Sherry8bal on Dec-05-17 at 08:49 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-05-17 at 08:49 PM (Eastern) by 184.4.128.164

Email me at Sherry8bal@gmail.com

I'll let you know if I have any info on her.

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2 . "i am sorry to hear but please check on person's feedback before you trade in the future or "
Posted by Lorey12 on Dec-05-17 at 11:39 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-05-17 at 11:39 PM (Eastern) by 47.154.73.194

ask person what is her username so you can check their feedback.

i do not have paypal.
:-D

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3 . "Bad trader...I doubt it now"
Posted by yomamab on Dec-06-17 at 00:09 AM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-06-17 at 00:09 AM (Eastern) by 70.15.190.78

I don't think she has a feedback page. I've heard from her after my post. I wasn't told ahead of time that she'd send out her end of the trade AFTER she received mine, so I guess that's what the hold up was. I also didn't hear any replies back to my emails after I had sent the check out and emailed her several times, which is why I thought she disappeared off the face of the planet. LOL Funny but not if it would actually happen, but I think I'm all good now. She has since told me that the forms were mailed out today (well, I should say yesterday since it's after midnight here), so until I get ripped off by someone, I'll not mention the person's name on here. Thanks for the reply.

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4 . "it would be nice if person tell you"
Posted by Lorey12 on Dec-06-17 at 00:28 AM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-06-17 at 00:28 AM (Eastern) by 47.154.73.194

that she or he would hold until get your check then she or he mail forms to you. he or she should have tell you in email. you would decide to go ahead to trade or not.

i do not have paypal.
:-D

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5 . "Then you've verified what I thought"
Posted by yomamab on Dec-06-17 at 01:02 AM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-06-17 at 01:02 AM (Eastern) by 70.15.190.78

I'm like you and also thought that it's customary and courteous to let the person you're trading with know if there's going to be a delay in sending. I like prompt traders but can understand if she was wary of me, being that I'm not really a regular on here since I can usually find forms elsewhere. I come here periodically and glance down through the posts but haven't traded with more than a few people over the years. Whenever I send out a trade, I am prompt like I would like people to be with me unless they state a reason for doing it otherwise. If they don't let me know that, then I think it's normal for almost anyone to wonder if the other end of the trade is going to get to them or not. Thanks to Sharon Forshee, I have my first positive feedback. :) So hopefully now people will be more trusting of me, if that was the problem. Thanks, Sharon!
Cathy

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6 . "I think you should post her name..........."
Posted by Joaniebott on Dec-06-17 at 09:12 AM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-06-17 at 09:12 AM (Eastern) by 98.211.185.103

anybody who holds your end of a trade without telling you ahead of time is a bad trader and we should all know her name

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7 . "I traded with someone and it took her trade 11 days to get to me."
Posted by Refundlady on Dec-06-17 at 03:58 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-06-17 at 03:58 PM (Eastern) by 107.77.249.6

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8 . "when I read this post, I assumed"
Posted by salsafan on Dec-06-17 at 04:09 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-06-17 at 04:09 PM (Eastern) by 23.123.152.114

that it is the person (there is at least one-- and I just re-read her current post to confirm that it says this)--- whose post says "If we have not traded before I will expect you to send your end first" I'm guessing her defense would be: if you read my post, you should have seen this statement and expected this.

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9 . "That's not the case"
Posted by yomamab on Dec-06-17 at 05:21 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-06-17 at 05:21 PM (Eastern) by 70.15.190.78

I didn't remember of her post saying that, but I looked awhile ago to make sure that it's the way I remember it. Her posts do NOT state that she will hold up the trade for new-to-her traders. So I wasn't forewarned and was expecting her to send out her envelope at the same time that I sent mine out, which she didn't. I liked that she offered the forms at a lower price than what I was offering but just wish that I would have been told ahead of time that she wasn't going to send the trade out right away. Now I will wait and see if I get the forms. Cathy

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10 . "I'm sorry that happened---"
Posted by salsafan on Dec-06-17 at 06:02 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-06-17 at 06:02 PM (Eastern) by 23.123.152.114

Sometimes people send trades to me and I'm not even aware that we finalized and other times they never send trade at all. What I do now is I ask what day they expect to mail and I suggest we both mail the same day. Then I confirm that I did mail that day and ask if they did also... It is more of a memory jogger in case they didnt' get around to it.....

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11 . "DONNA OLSON...THANKS, I GOT YOUR FORMS TODAY"
Posted by yomamab on Dec-08-17 at 06:33 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-08-17 at 06:33 PM (Eastern) by 70.15.190.78

I'm glad that they got here, so I still have a couple of weeks to do the offer.
Cathy

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12 . "Glad you got that trade worked out!!"
Posted by Sherry8bal on Dec-08-17 at 08:38 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-08-17 at 08:38 PM (Eastern) by 184.4.128.164

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13 . "What is Donna Olson's user name, please"
Posted by Arizona on Dec-09-17 at 01:39 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-09-17 at 01:39 PM (Eastern) by 71.211.85.7

TY

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14 . "squareneedle"
Posted by Sharon on Dec-09-17 at 01:49 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-09-17 at 01:49 PM (Eastern) by 72.169.80.169

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