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Posted by pkwood on Sep-30-17 at 03:59 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Sep-30-17 at 03:59 PM (Eastern) by 50.37.55.55

It has come to our attention that we need to step in and hopefully settle things down.

cathy42063 is suppose to be proving she is a good trader. From what I read some things need to be cleared up:

cathy42063 cancelling your game is not good in our view and you should make good with Lorey12.

cathy42063 when someone tells you they are going on vacation and wants it mailed right out, do the right thing and mail it right out or tell them it is not possible so they can decide if they still wish to make that trade.

Is there anything else that needs to be made good?

We will be watching going forward. Please be sure to leave feedback so others can be alerted if things go bad and also alert us.

Lets get back to having fun on the forums!
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1 . "Thank you Mod advice taken..."
Posted by cathy42063 on Sep-30-17 at 04:55 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Sep-30-17 at 04:55 PM (Eastern) by 68.194.157.176

In memory of my beloved beautiful brother Sonny
whom earned his wings in heaven 10-26-65 5-4-
02....a million years can pass and there will never
be a better brother...xoxoxo

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2 . "Okay Lorey12 email me your snail mail addy and I will mail our the g,card of your choice......"
Posted by cathy42063 on Sep-30-17 at 04:56 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Sep-30-17 at 04:56 PM (Eastern) by 68.194.157.176

In memory of my beloved beautiful brother Sonny
whom earned his wings in heaven 10-26-65 5-4-
02....a million years can pass and there will never
be a better brother...xoxoxo

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3 . "Mods I sent Lorey12 aka Andrea 2 emails now for her NAZ."
Posted by cathy42063 on Sep-30-17 at 05:59 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Sep-30-17 at 05:59 PM (Eastern) by 68.194.157.176

In memory of my beloved beautiful brother Sonny
whom earned his wings in heaven 10-26-65 5-4-
02....a million years can pass and there will never
be a better brother...xoxoxo

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4 . "Pam or Kay....thank you. I take it you are open to any other problems for the board to move forward. If your decision is for Cathy to keep trading here....the rules inside (should be) IMO, followed. Can you confirm?"
Posted by Chicagoclipper on Sep-30-17 at 06:00 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Sep-30-17 at 06:00 PM (Eastern) by 75.26.242.150

These are basic trading/ettiquette rules from ...well, forever and SHOULD apply to everyone. From the messages I am receiving them have taken a HUGE beating...

ALL trades should be mailed out in 24/48 hours. UNLESS the parties agree ahead of time (Hey, I am oot until Wed, I can mail Wed....and the other party agrees). Otherwise, same day/next day rule applies. If seller/sender sends 3-7 days later and coupons are no longer usable they should be (IMO) refunded or the seller/sender should pay postage and refund if they want them back.

Post on items for sale/trade need to be complete. "I have pantene coupons" is NOT a post. Posts that people have to ask "what is the exp date? "what is the value?" etc...are a waste of everyone's time. A missed date here in there in a long list of coupons is an oversight. a post like "I have Mambo Sprout!" is useless and aggravating. Also, if a sender/seller doesn't include that information, then they are liable for useless coupons if a receiver can't use them. If coupons are offered as "hey, I use them on the SMALL package wink,wink,nudge" and they are received and the coupon specifies 64 oz bottle and are useless to the received, the sender is responsible for not sharing the information needed to make an informed choice

IF the feedback forum were being used properly there would be less turmoil, IMO. Since the members only can share the emails and you (mods) have made it that being a member gives access to the emails...then I feel that you should back up members if leaving factual feedback results in a hailstorm of bad emails. Meaning? People are leaving GOOD feedback (many times at he insistence of the other party....feedback should be an OPTION!)...but not factual true feedback if there is a problem as they don't want to face a backlash of threatening emails etc.. So, IMO, the feedback rules should be as follows... Leave factual trade related feedback, ONE response back from the seller/sender and ONE additional response from the receiver. DONE (I believe that is basically the rules now). BUT..ADDITIONALLY.....any backlash or attacks in email for leaving feedback should result in IP ban from the site. AND I think that should be posted as a rule on the boards now as a new rule and top of page in feedback. If real feedback is left, then people that are lapse to do well will do better or fade off. But people NOT leaving feedback because they get backlash is hurting the integrity of the feedback. Since they trust the site to give access to the emails I think it is right to expect the site to ban people that misuse/abuse that privilege

I think EVERYONE should follow those 3 basic things...and a LOT of this would be mellowed out.

Personality etc..isn't something you can govern or do anything about. But, these trade rules should be followed by any member, IMO

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5 . "Thank you MOD"
Posted by Lorey12 on Sep-30-17 at 07:27 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Sep-30-17 at 07:27 PM (Eastern) by 47.154.68.238

Thank you Pam.

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6 . "cathy "
Posted by Lorey12 on Sep-30-17 at 07:28 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Sep-30-17 at 07:28 PM (Eastern) by 47.154.68.238


i already answered your two emails while ago.


i do not have paypal.
:-D
i do not have paypal.
:-D

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7 . "Pam & Kay just sent you an email!!! "
Posted by cashcoll on Sep-30-17 at 07:53 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Sep-30-17 at 07:53 PM (Eastern) by 70.178.45.147


Have a Great Day!

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GO HOGS GO!!
Woooooooooo, Pig! Sooiee!

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8 . "ok checking right now and please confirm we had communication..."
Posted by cathy42063 on Sep-30-17 at 08:13 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Sep-30-17 at 08:13 PM (Eastern) by 68.194.157.176

In memory of my beloved beautiful brother Sonny
whom earned his wings in heaven 10-26-65 5-4-
02....a million years can pass and there will never
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9 . "We exchanged emails ....Lorey will confirm or you may ask here.."
Posted by cathy42063 on Sep-30-17 at 08:50 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Sep-30-17 at 08:50 PM (Eastern) by 68.194.157.176

In memory of my beloved beautiful brother Sonny
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02....a million years can pass and there will never
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10 . "Mods also 1.00 refund via pp to Nikki Lufthy/////"
Posted by cathy42063 on Sep-30-17 at 09:19 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Sep-30-17 at 09:19 PM (Eastern) by 68.194.157.176

In memory of my beloved beautiful brother Sonny
whom earned his wings in heaven 10-26-65 5-4-
02....a million years can pass and there will never
be a better brother...xoxoxo

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11 . "From Mod"
Posted by pkwood on Oct-02-17 at 09:25 AM (Eastern)
Last edited on Oct-03-17 at 08:06 AM (Eastern) by 50.37.55.55

We will leave trades to the individuals to work out. This will help newbies who are not very familiar with the rules.

The feedback rules were just updated to include emails:

When someone leaves you feedback it must be factual and no person attacks or name calling or threats (not even by email), a person must actually have dealt with you to leave you feedback and they are allowed to post only one post to your feedback per time. If they post something negative to your feedback, you are allowed one reply to tell your side of the story.

No one should have to fear getting emails of this nature because they posted factual feedback. If it does happen, please report it to us.

Enjoy the forums!

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12 . "THANK YOU MODS....I hope this will help :-)"
Posted by Chicagoclipper on Oct-02-17 at 03:01 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Oct-02-17 at 03:01 PM (Eastern) by 75.26.242.150

WAY Fair enough.

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