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 "2 yrs ago today I lost my dad : (" 

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"2 yrs ago today I lost my dad : ("
Posted by shellysmsmo on Aug-27-17 at 10:48 AM (Eastern)
Posted on Aug-27-17 at 10:48 AM (Eastern) by 66.87.73.109

It's a gloomy rainy Sunday I guess the way it should be.
I'm trying to tell myself to get out of bed but all I want to
Do is stay in bed and cry and stay away from the world.
My heart has been broken ever since. Just seems it
Never gets better. Of course the littlest things hurt
Even more when your depressed. I know we all have
Things going on in our life's. I just wanted to let all of
You know that I appreciate the friendships I have made
On this board. Appreciate what you have. Appreciate the
People you love and the people in your life. Hugs my friends.

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1 . "(((HUGS)))"
Posted by Meezer_Mom on Aug-27-17 at 11:24 AM (Eastern)
Posted on Aug-27-17 at 11:24 AM (Eastern) by 107.77.245.11

Maybe try and find a way to celebrate him today and start a new tradition?

My Dad helped start a food pantry. He never got over growing up during the Depression, and feeding others was meaningful to him, as was providing toys for kids at Christmas, because the community had helped his mom and family. So, in his memory, I work the deals for the local food pantry, help serve lunches to the homeless when schedule permits, donate two or more toys to the holiday drive, and provide his favorite mince meat pie to the homeless luncheon in honor of his birthday, which is near Thanksgiving. Sharing this because it's helped.

(((MORE HUGS)))

Purrrz,

Sue
>^..^<

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3 . "so sorry my sweet Shelly"
Posted by angNC on Aug-27-17 at 10:45 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Aug-27-17 at 10:45 PM (Eastern) by 24.163.122.129

Remember he has no more pain or suffering. You were a good daughter to him.

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5 . "Thank you angie. I try to think that. "
Posted by shellysmsmo on Aug-28-17 at 09:52 AM (Eastern)
Posted on Aug-28-17 at 09:52 AM (Eastern) by 99.198.165.109

It's just really hard. : (
Thank you.

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6 . "Sue thank you for the thoughtful post. "
Posted by shellysmsmo on Aug-28-17 at 09:53 AM (Eastern)
Posted on Aug-28-17 at 09:53 AM (Eastern) by 99.198.165.109

I really appreciate your post. So thoughtful.
Very sweet and caring gesture you have done.

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2 . "Many Hugs and thoughts and prayers I am here dear friend xoxox."
Posted by cathy42063 on Aug-27-17 at 01:11 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Aug-27-17 at 01:11 PM (Eastern) by 68.194.157.176

In memory of my beloved beautiful brother Sonny
whom earned his wings in heaven 10-26-65 5-4- AWWWW Sweetie I am so sorry it is never ever easy to lose a dear loved one . I know all of us here have walked that path. For me I can offer you this I look upon the death of my beloved brother Sonny at the age of 36 15 years now and then 4 years losing my Mommy.....it never gets easy however I keep their flame and life alive by talking about them all the time. Moments do not pass in my mind of thinking of them. Some people say the pain gets easier as life goes on. Well perhaps maybe true but for me the love grows and I also reflect back and tell myself I was blessed that God choose me to be Sonny's only sister and that God blessed me and all my brothers that God choose us to be our Mom's children. I also feel comfort in knowing while they are in heaven I so believe they are guardian angels for their loved ones. Shelly your dad remains with you. He is all around you sweetie. He is with you in each step you take. If you like share a funny story with us if you like. I know I repeat all funny stories of my brother and Mom. Your a fantastic friend a true heart of gold inside and out. God bless xoxoxoxoxo.....Indeed I now donate and volunteer at my 2 local Aids Hospice Homes.....and I volunteer at the nursing home and am especially drawn to Cancer Patients for my mom......Anna and also for my cousin Lisa whom passed this January 31. 2017....She was only 49 leaving three children.....from Brain Cancer. To me I made it my mission tired and all to go to see her everyday she was in a nursing home it was so sad imagine only 48 and then 49 as her cancer grew it took away her ability to eat and swallow hence the feeding tube....and her speech became hard. However I know I made her feel better. She loved for me to keep talking about all our family memories and some times she would laugh so hard and that make my day....So again Shelly share some stories of your Daddy or pictures whatever you want my sweet dear friend....Hugs thoughts and prayers and all my love xoxoxo. I am here for you as we all are.....Catherine
02....a million years can pass and there will never
be a better brother...xoxoxo

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4 . "Thank you both. I appreciate your caring. "
Posted by shellysmsmo on Aug-28-17 at 09:51 AM (Eastern)
Posted on Aug-28-17 at 09:51 AM (Eastern) by 99.198.165.109

Thank you for taking the time to post.
I appreciate it.

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7 . "Catherine. Thank you. "
Posted by shellysmsmo on Aug-28-17 at 09:57 AM (Eastern)
Posted on Aug-28-17 at 09:57 AM (Eastern) by 99.198.165.109

Thank you for caring. I can't really respond with
All the tears and thoughts I have going on right now.
I know we've all been thru such sadness.
I'm just really hurting. Trying to keep myself together.
It's just so hard.

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8 . "Welcome with hugs and prayers xoxoxox...."
Posted by cathy42063 on Aug-28-17 at 03:04 PM (Eastern)
Posted on Aug-28-17 at 03:04 PM (Eastern) by 68.194.157.176

In memory of my beloved beautiful brother Sonny
whom earned his wings in heaven 10-26-65 5-4- Thinking of you I am here if you need to talk or text whatever dear friend xoxox and peace Catherine
02....a million years can pass and there will never
be a better brother...xoxoxo

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