9 . "What in the world just happened"
Posted by ptmama525 on
Dec-02-17 at 11:19 AM (Eastern)
Posted on Dec-02-17 at 11:19 AM (Eastern) by 184.108.40.206
These conversations leave you drained. You will be left with an actual headache. You will spend hours, even days, obsessing over the argument. You’ll feel as if you exhausted all of your emotional energy to accomplish absolutely nothing. You will have a million pre-planned arguments in your head, ready to respond to all the unaddressed points that you couldn’t keep up with. You will feel the need to defend yourself. You’ll try to come up with a diplomatic solution that evenly distributes the blame, and therefore gives you both a chance to apologize and make up. But in the end, you’ll find that you’re the only one apologizing.
Do unto others as you would have others do unto you."